+604 If guys are gonna ask girls out, they should just grow a pair. Because if they wait long enough, eventually us girls will think WE'RE the problem, amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You ARE the problem. Your mindset that the guy must ask the girl out, specifically. "If they wait long enough, eventually the girl will think they're the problem"-- OR the girl could ask the guy out.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Chivalry, my friend, chivalry.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

In today's world women want equality AND chivalry. They can't have both.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You don't understand a woman's mind :P Most women want men to be nice to us and buy us stuff [and we don't have to do the same] but we also have to be equal. And it seems like a fair exchange. Men don't get periods and can't carry a parasite-like thing in their womb for 9 months. Haha

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm sure that's what everyone wants, but it's impossible to be treated equally AND treated specially.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I know it's impossible. It kind of sucks for you guys. Ha. Oh well. Once you're married, you have nothing to worry about

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Haha I guess so.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I completely get where youre coming from. How girls need to make up our mind about the whole equality thing &girls have a hard time asking the guy out for the same reason a guy has a hard time asking a girl. &Besides, what i meant was around the whole self esteem "im not worthy" type of stuff. But yeah, i guess it'll go either way

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Girls ARE the problem. It's hard to ask a girl out when you always hear her talking about her celebrity crush or about the hot guys walking by. You make us feel not good enough.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Like the same way i've had three of my crushes [all at diff. times of course] talk about their crush or how much they want a girlfriend. you guys make us feel not good enough sometimes too!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well... I know I don't do that. I would never talk about another girl to a girl unless that girl brought it up, in which case I'm just honest about it. I always take notice of the girls I'm talking to, but they'd rather talk about other boys. If you want to be noticed, it's only fair that when you are, you don't ignore us. That's why most of us make you feel unnoticed is because when we notice you, you don't want anything to do with us.

by Anonymous 13 years ago