+355 If a girl that you are in a relationship with goes to the beach, tells you she's going to get drunk, that she's hanging out with some guys that you don't know, and then stops responding completely, you have a right to be a little upset, amirite?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

And maybe a little worried?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

A girl you're dating or THE girl you're dating?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I'd trust her, but I'd be worried about those other guys cause I'd never trust them.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Only a little upset? That seems like an understatement.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

A few simple steps for a healthy way to handle this situation: Step 1) Tell her calmly and clearly why you are upset. (Which you have a right to be. But that doesn't mean you have the right to be a jerk about it. Good communication is very healthy for a relationship. If you keep it locked up, it'll overflow at some point, and it won't be pretty.) Step 2) Tell her you trust her and let her go. (People naturally have a tendency to live up to the expectations you set. If you tell her you trust her, she will try to live up to that trust.) Step 3) For the love of whatever God you do or don't believe in, don't even slightly implicate that you think she may have done something inappropriate when she gets back. Don't ask her, "So, did anything happen?" Instead, ask, "What did you do? Did you have fun?" and sound genuinely interested.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Also I would make sure that she has a ride home.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

That car better be the only thing she's riding.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

If she would be mad or worried if you did that with a girl, then I think you should be at least a little worried

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Dear Abby...

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Bitches be crazy.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

look for a better type to date

by Anonymous 5 years ago