What if they turn out to be really bad? Or what if they have creepy fetishes? =P

by Anonymous 13 years ago

if you regret a marriage because a person is "bad" then u dont actually love them. you are a sick person

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Are you kidding me? Sex is a major part of a relationship. I'm not saying i'd regret the marraige because he's bad but ultimitaly the marraige would be likely to fall apart. Do you really think you could stay with someone your entire life even though neither of you are getting any pleasure out of intimacy? It just wouldn't work.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

yes i do, because i would LOVE the person, not the sex.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well if you have both kept yourselves until marriage, neither of you will be able to tell that the other is bad.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What if they want to have sex with you? Shouldn't you respect their wishes and make hot monkey love?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No, no you shouldn't. Nice try though.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Speaking of creepy fetishes.....

by Anonymous 13 years ago

People in hell want ice water; doesn't mean they're getting any. People want sex; doesn't mean they're getting any.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The only difference between a friend and a significant other is physical attraction. So yeah, sex is a big part of a healthy relationship. I wouldn't wait until after I was bound to someone for life to find out if that part works.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Okay, what happens when that area ceases to satisfy you anymore? It's not like test driving a car where you can just replace the broken part. You'll have to live with it. Better yet, what if you find that this person isn't good in bed, and you cull them. They have given you everything; it's not like they can just take it back. Once they see you naked and know the most intimate parts of your body, you become absolutely vunerable. That can be a beautiful thing, if it's with the one you've trusted your entire life with. But if in the back of your mind you know "He's only testing me out, because I may not be worth his everything", then it's a terrible way to start off a marriage. The question comes down to: Do you really love that person even though they can give you good sex or not?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Sex is part of loving someone! You can't truly love someone until you know if you're able to express yourself intimately. Besides sex is FUN!!! If you're not having it, you're missing out.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You gotta test drive the car before you buy it ladies and gents..

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well, unfortunately, people aren't objects. And they shouldn't be treated like such.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Amen to that, friend.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Douche.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If you really love someone you shouldn't be concerned about a piece of paper and a pretty dress.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Why not? I mean, it's a pretty big celebration. Spending the rest of your life with someone is a pretty big commitment. Unless your love really won't last their whole lives. Then I guess you can just love them until you can't take it anymore. You can just not worry about the formalities of divorce! Easy way out!

by Anonymous 13 years ago