+452 You're thirteen, you shouldn't be having sex, talking about sex, or bragging about sex. Hell, you shouldn't even have a "serious" relationship, or even be considering it yet. I didn't even have my first fool-around until i was 18! Enjoy your youth, save all that for your later years in life, amirite?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I almost pmsl'd at this :')

by Anonymous 13 years ago

why?:S

by Anonymous 13 years ago

yeah for real, why? i think it's true. it annoys the hell out of me when girls i know are like "dude last night i got drunk as hell and me and so&so had sex. it was fun" i'm like STFU whore

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Seriously! Sex is not all that fantastic..and the consequences of teenagers doing it (probably incorrectly) can be great for them. -.-' Oh society...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

If sex isn't all that fantastic, maybe try with someone different? Sex can be quite great. But teenagers aren't prepared for the emotional enjoyment that can come from sex. Sex shouldn't be "just" sex. It's the most open and vulnerable you'll be (it is for me anyway). And it makes me really sad that it took something so terrible for me to truly understand what sex should be. Kids just aren't ready for everything that sex means imo.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I agree with your statements wholeheartedly. I'm not saying it's not fun, but it's not as spectacular as the media makes it seem. I also believe you shouldn't be having sex until you're absolutely ready and sure you want that person to be the one (whether or not you're sure you want to marry or whatever, you just don't want to carry regrets), and that's where I'm at right now, and I'm almost 21. 13...not ready. At. All.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I've had media worthy sex lol... Not that the media would ever get in my bedroom, I just mean that I've had some intense sex before. It's definitely not always mind blowing, but it really can be. I had sex for the first time when I was 16 (I'm almost 21 as well now) and looking back, while I don't regret any of it, I was still very young. Probably too young for that. But 13? There is no way you'd be ready. I was also a pretty smart kid. I talked to my mom about birth control and what not, got on the pill, talked to my boyfriend for a long time about why I wanted to do it, why he did, and what we would do should pregnancy occur, and we used a condom every time. I also got tested after sex and have been after every partner sense (I was raped at 17 so I was tested then, as well as after my most recent partner I was tested, all just in case).

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I also just realized that I inadvertantly disclosed my "number."

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Very intelligent, indeed. I too had those conversations, and, admittedly, I still haven't even had sex with a male as my current partner is a female, so I've never even had a real male member down yonder. Maybe that's the problem :p What "number?" no need to explain so no worries on disclosing haha.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Ah well who knows a womans body better than a woman? Invest in some toys I'd say. I've never been with a woman, but I do enjoy my vibrator lmfao. Really as long as you're comfortable that's what matters to me. I've found that if you love the person you're with and they love you back, it's a thousand times better. I enjoy the emotional closeness that comes with sex (which is a huge thing for me after my experiences). Haha I just meant that the number of folks I've slept with is only 2. But whatever, I'm 20, I think that's a reasonable number.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yeah just invested in a new one so we'll see where that goes ;). Psht yeah, I've known much worse.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Excellent. I also need to invest as I've just been dumped! I've known much worse as well. Much, *much* worse lol

by Anonymous 12 years ago

haha...oh nos! invest in some fun ;) hehe

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I have been saving quite a bit of money this summer, I think it's time to splurge :P

by Anonymous 12 years ago

At first I thought it said pms'd...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I'm thirteen?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yes. So don't have sex.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Because I'll get pregnant and die?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It's a legitimate reason not to.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I agree about sex, but if the OP is implying you should wait until you're 18 to have a relationship, I don't understand why. If you're dating someone, it's not like you can't do anything fun anymore and you're an old man or woman. In fact, you should be able to act most like a child around that person.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yeah, I agree that 13 is much too young to have a "serious" relationship. Personally, I think high school is when you should start dating. I mean sure, you can have crushes before high school, everyone does, but a serious relationship most likely won't come out of them.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

The age of consent is above 13. So it's actually illegal to have sex when you're 13.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I don;t really have a problem with anyone talking about sex. Hell, the best time to discourage sex is probably about the time that hormones start kicking in.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I don't care if they talk about sex at all, it can actually be a good thing. The only time it's annoying is when they're making fun of people about sex or making innappropriate comments about it when they don't know what they're talking about. All the other stuff I agree with.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I agree about the sex part. However, I believe that having a serious relationship does not have to wait that long. I think that it depends on the maturity of the kids. For example, two mature 14-year-olds in a serious relationship is no worse than two average 16-year-olds in a serious relationship. If the kids are mature enough to responsibly handle the relationship, I think that's okay. I still do agree that they shouldn't be having sex at that age, though, because typically they only want to have sex to be "popular" or because they want to know what it's like, rather than thinking it over and deciding that this person is the right person to lose their virginity to.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Amen (:

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I'm 15 and I realized that. I wouldn't mind kissing or anything like that. But sex on the other hand that's a negative ghost rider. I would be the guy to get the girl knocked up. And yes I'm enjoying my youth:)

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Sigh* another post talking about the "right age" for dating and sex and making defining lines against age groups. People are different and mature differently. You have no right to judge when someone is ready for a relationship. And if a twelve year old is all "omfg I'm so in love after two days", then just ignore them.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

All the people who are talking about when people are 'ready' - you can't really define that, people are ready when they're ready. And maybe it would be very rare for a 13-year-old to be having sex for the right reasons, but I don't see it as being impossible. Readiness is more about the person than the age - I wouldn't have sex with my current boyfriend, for instance, because our relationship's not that serious, but if we'd been together for longer or it was someone else, then who knows?

by Anonymous 12 years ago