Girls: You masturbate, amirite?

I don't get why most girls try to hide it. I mean, we have sexual desires too....

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i don't understand why this is necessary to ask...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

by Anonymous 13 years ago

im a girl and i loooovee to

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I guess reasons girls don't is firstly, because no one talks about it - everyone acts girls don't get turned on. secondly- Its not as easy. For a guy its really simple, and instinctive. for a girl its a really complicated act, and takes ages to figure out whats right for you and everyone does it differently.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I can orgasm in 2 minutes. Took me 3 seconds to figure out what made me feel good the first time I masturbated.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

a girl let me get yo number

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I do it all the timeee. Relieves stress, like my anit-drug.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

99% of the population does it. The other 1% lies about it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So that basically means 100% of the population does it? xD

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Exactly. I'm not counting little kids, though.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Oh, okay. I was trying not to picture newborns masturbating, so I'm glad you say they don't. I was starting to get worried.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No Shit Sherlock

by Anonymous 13 years ago

fuck you, watson.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I will use this next time i get "no shit sherlock" I love you.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i dont get it i mean i get the no shit sherlock part but not the watson part

by Anonymous 13 years ago

watson is famously the name of sherlocks siedkick,

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i don't get it? i get the sherlock part but i dont get what watson has to do it

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Billie Joe Armstrong quote

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Lol. So, I was totally going to lie about this, but what's the point? Anyway. Someone once told me only ugly girls masturbated. So, I sort of thought of it as taboo. However, I was curious so I did try it (I'll try anything once, except anal!) and it was good. Plus, it's a HUGE stress reliever. One of my ex-boyfriends found about it when we were still dating, because of a survey my best friend did that she forgot was in her folder that he "accidentally" read. Either way, he FREAKED. So, yeah..

by Anonymous 13 years ago

He freaked? Lol.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah, lol. Something about him not being adequate enough and me being too "sexual."

by Anonymous 13 years ago

wtf was wronng with that dude?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Lmfao, I dunno. Guess, it's a good thing I cut him loose. (:

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Insecure guy.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I thought it was great when I found my out my girlfriend masturbated. You boyfriend is just gay or something. Sorry.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I think you should try anal. You never know until you try, and gay guys seem to love it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'd give head or have a threesome before I'd ever try anal. That's one thing I never, EVER want to try.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's a shame. Not because it lowers the already nonexistent possibility of me giving you anal, but because it's rare to find someone with such an open mind, and it's sad to see you limit it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If that constitutes an open mind, where's yours? Would you try anal?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'd try just about anything that was considered straight. I'm sorry if you consider this a double standard.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I do. If I'm limiting my open mind by not considering it like you said, then so are you.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Whether or not it's a double standard, it's a just one. I am not limiting my open mind, as it doesn't go beyond my sexuality. To say that I am is a definite double standard.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Bullshit. Then, anal is beyond my sexuality. Other girls are fine, but anal is a turn off.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What bullshit? Anal being in your sexuality is as simple as whether or not you like penis.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Nothing. You're right.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

WRONG!! It means she prefers to have sexual intercourse with people of the opposite sex. That's like saying a gay male is "heterosexual" because he likes penis...ummm, no. And as for when you stated that you are not limiting your open mind as to where it exceeds your sexuality, well hers doesn't go beyond her standards. So, respect it. @1072552 (TicTacAddict): Lol, even though I don't know you, I'm sure as heck that was a "stfu, I'm not about to argue with you," type "Nothing. You're right." In any case, if having standards means having a "closed mind," then so-be-it! Those that do not have standards are just...well, I'll try not to make this a generalization post. PS: I apologize for reopening this discussion. =P

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Firstly, if a girl likes receiving anal sex, she is straight. If a man likes it, he is gay. You may have somehow misread what I typed, since I can't imagine that you don't understand that concept, bu that's what I said. Secondly, I'm essentially willing to try anything considered straight, which she isn't. I'm not saying that's a bad thing for her, but rather limiting, which saddens me because so few women have a completely open look on sexuality, which often make men seem perverted. Thirdly, it's not that she has standards, but that she's made up her mind about something without knowing what she was making her mind up about. I didn't want her to love, but at least be willing to try it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I still don't think it's limiting. It's like, who decided that anal is desirable? Just because I'm straight to be completely open with my sexuality, I'd have to consider/try anal? Should I consider weird fetishes like bukkake and people shitting on my chest, too? I wouldn't want a penis stuffed in any of my other orifices either (excluding my vagina & mouth). It shouldn't/doesn't constitute whether or not I'm open-minded sexually (in my opinion), but I suppose we should agree to disagree.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I'm sorry, but yes. To be COMPLETELY open, I'm afraid you'd have to. I'm not saying you need to be that open, or that there's anything wrong with having these limitations. And yes, these limitations are a lot worse for women, but there are a LOT of sex based double standards in the world. But, as you suggested, I'll agree to disagree.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

@1070408 (TicTacAddict): How old are you guys...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

17.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

lol, yeah.. your point?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think it's healthy and it makes me feel so good, anyone agree?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Don't worry, the number is only negative because most people on here aren't old enough to try it yet. All of you under 13 year olds, you'll try it one day, and you'll like it. I know some of my friends have had trouble with it (they didn't even know that there were 3 holes down there) but you'll figure it out and change your minds!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

There are three? OMG NO WAY!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Excuse me, but I am thirteen and I have masturbated for at least a year before being 13. And, that does not in anyway make me horny or a slut. Don't go making assumptions.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

wow, that's way before i started. not that that's a bad thing. i started when i started high school.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Uhh, wasn't making assumptions, I started before I was 13 too.. and although it doesn't make you a slut, it kinda does make you horny, just like I was/am, and there's nothing wrong with that either! I was just stereotyping, as most don't start til way later.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

HOLD ON WUT 3 HOLES?? in my 4 years of masturbation i never figured that out.. time to find out i guess.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I dont do that, I just rub really fast, and this is probably tmi

by Anonymous 12 years ago

anyone who's at least TRIED it does it again. the only people who say its bad in any way are people who have never done it, because they're idiots

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well, I'm a guy, so I can't vote, but what I can say is be sure to wash your hands first. ;D

by Anonymous 13 years ago

First? Dude, yeah, but the most important thing is to wash your hands AFTER.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Oh, that too.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I've found it to be the most wonderful stress reliever. Not to mention that when I've got awful back pain, it just melts it away. :D I don't see why it's considered so dirty - after all, it's only natural. It's the safest sex you'll ever have, and it's sex with the one you love. ;D

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Wow, this a surprisingly low score post... Girls, quit pretending, we all do it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

absolutely i do. i'm kind of embarrassed to admit this, but i masturbated the mornings of all my college entrance tests (APs, SAT, ACT) because it just took all of my stress and turned it into calm bliss. it's a tip you won't find in any test prep book, but it really works.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i do it before band competitions

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm super horny and want to have super hot phone sex leave ur numbers if you wanna talk dirty

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(lover of da cock): let me get yo number

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(lover of da cock): lol i'd rather watch porn

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm super horny and want to have super hot phone sex leave ur numbers if you wanna talk dirty

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Ew. I do not masturbate. That's gross, to me anyway.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Agreed. Ew.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Oh, prude America.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's not exactly that I'm a prude, the female body simply disgusts me. I don't wanna touch myslef.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Lol yes because American society is so prude about people seeing each other naked that you aren't used to it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No, really. I've seen naked people, pictures of naked people, and yaoi fanart, but it's still gross. Vaginas are freakin' disgusting to me. I don't wanna touch mine.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Really? Where have you seen naked people? The internet doesn't count by the way. And, just for the record, vaginas are great.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

One more question, what about the male body? Actually, I lied, heres another: How old are you?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yaoi is japanese gay porn drawn in the manga, or anime style, so that covers some of the male body question. I've seen naked people in locker rooms, changing rooms, when baby sitting, tv, internet, MYSELF and other random places. I'm also 16.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Right, locker rooms and changing rooms also don't count because there you have to get naked. We're talking about how prude America is, so you yourself don't count either.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So I SHOULD be staring at naked people like a starving animal? So I SHOULD be doing something that makes me uncomfortable? Why does everyone have a problem with my decision? I never said anyone was bad for doing it. I just said that I, personally, find the female body disgusting. Yeah, I get turned on, but that doesn't mean i have to deal with it the same way everyone else does. What does it matter to anyone if I touch myself or not? Seriously!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No, what I'm saying is that the reason you hate vaginas is because of the way you were brought up. And part of the way you grew up, quite a large part actually, includes the society in which you grew up.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No. That's NOT it. My parents weren't like, "HELLZ YEAH! VAGINAS!", or "Vaginas are Satan! It's disgusting and unnatural!". Is it so weird to think that maybe, I think something that bleed profusly, urinates, and excretes screaming purple monkeys is kinda gross looking?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well when you put it that way, then every single part of the human body is disgusting. If you keep it clean, I shouldn't be much of a problem. It's not like it is constantly bleeding/urinating/excreting purple monkeys (? lol).

by Anonymous 13 years ago

purple monkeys= babies Yeah, actually, the human body is disgusting. If sex weren't incredibly fun, no one would do it. I think vaginas are gross; I don't wanna touch mine; It's not a problem, so you shouldn't care.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Nobody ever said I care, I was just trying to figure out why you are so grossed out by the human body. What's the worst that could happen anyways? I think you should masturbate once and then go from there. Never know until you try it, right? But, of course, what does it matter what I think?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm grossed out by vaginas because THEY.ARE. GROSS. Do you also go around asking people why they think bugs and bad breath are gross? What if I don't like the idea of doing it, even once? No one should do anything that makes them uncomfortable, and this makes me uncomfortable.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You don't have to, it's just a suggestion. But everything has a good and bad side. Unfortunately, you only seem to perceive the bad side. Well, in my opinion anyway.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The only good side I can see: It makes you feel good and lets you explore. Two reasons. Not a lot.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Stress relief also. Unless you count that as part of feeling good. But either way, it's better than the bad side: It looks gross. One reason. Not a lot.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

More reasons then: It's gross, it's unsanitary, many people and religions consider it immoral, if you fantasize about other people (and if, y'know, they're real people), it's disrespectful to them, sexual things can easily become addictions, and any kind of addiction is bad.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

-It's not unsanitary at all. -What does it matter whether or not people of another religion consider it immoral? Are you part of that religion? -It's not disrespectful if you think about other people while masturbating; in fact, it might actually be a turn on. But either way, how could it be disrespectful? -Anything that invokes pleasure can easily become an addiction. Don't tell me that you don't do anything all that is pleasant because then you would just be lying to me. And this is where self-control comes into play. You have to be able to control your body and your emotions all of the time, so resisting the urge to masturbate (if thats what you were referring to when you said addictions) should not be any different. If you were referring to the act of sex itself, then that's a slightly different issue, and it is, in this case, irrelevant.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

1. yeah, putting your fingers in your vagina is kind of disgusting. 2. Yeah, I'm a Christian. 3.Um.. because it's creepy? how would you feel if you found out someone was masturbating to you? It's frigging creepy. It's like molestation only in your head. If you went up to someone and told them honestly that you masturbated to them they wouldn't be happy about it. It's disrespectful because they wouldn't want it. 4. Not everything can become a serious addiction. No one has ever had to take medication for books, but sexual addiction is common and well known. Also, it's just gross when people talk about masturbation. The basic idea is gross to me. Why are there so many friggin' people on here that are so concerned with me touching myself? I'm not doing anything wrong and I'm not yelling you to stop so you shouldn't be so concerned about me starting.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

-Disgusting and unsanitary mean two completely different things. It may seem disgusting to you, but it is not unsanitary if you wash your hands and private areas regularly. -Christianity does not prohibit masturbation, nor does it punish masturbation -My opinion: If it was a hot girl, I'd get turned on, without a doubt. If it was an unattractive girl, then I'd ignore the awkwardness and probably just walk away. I wouldn't feel disrespected. I'd feel pretty disgusted, but not disrespected. -Excessive reading can cause bad eyesight to develop. You don't take medication, but you pay a shitload for glasses. Don't flatter yourself. Nobody is concerned about whether or not you will ever end up touching yourself. These people simply dislike your idea of masturbation being regarded as disgusting, disrespectful, and immoral. This is partially because most do masturbate themselves, so they attempt to justify their habits. And, for the record, I believe that every

by Anonymous 13 years ago

To masturbate you dont have to put anything in the hole, just rub on top, the hole doesnt do anything for me

by Anonymous 12 years ago

First of all, that's interesting considering your name, seond, I still find it gross.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Haha never thought of my name that way

by Anonymous 12 years ago

humans, chimpanzees and dolphins are the ONLY mammals that have SEX for PLEASURE. People do it now, and always will. (+I'm a virgin, 14, and masturbating is great)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(Applez.anonymous): Who said anything about that? Chimpanzees and dolphins still don't masturbate.Also, we're completely different from them. Dolphins actually practice having sex with each other, like a class or something, in many cases, with their own siblings, or mothers. Whether people do it or not wasn't the point anyway. All I said to start this long chain was, "ew, I think that's gross to me.". I didn't say it was bad, I didn't say it was good. All I said was, it doesn't appeal to me.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So I didn't feel like reading that whole chat up there, so someone might have already said this, and I'm not trying to stir up an old argument, but I'm pretty sure you don't pee from your vagina.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I know, but it still gets urine all over it because it's pretty close to where you pee.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

So you're basically never going to have sex, amirite? Because apparently you hate human reproductive parts.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

When did I say that? Vaginas gross me out, not necissarily penises(not ALL penises though. I mean who goes nuts(no pun intended) every single time they see a penis?) If I never have sex, I think I would be fine with that though.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Lol that was actually pretty funny though. I just don't really understand how you would be fine with that though.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well, logically speaking, it might be easier for me later in life. While sex can be good for relieving stress, burning calories and procreation; it also has a history of, heart break, STDs, possibly more stress(depending on who, or how many, people you've done it with) and unwanted pregnancy. Besides that, your sexual desires are just one more thing that you're a slave to because of youer body. I like being in control of myself, and It's hard to control yourself in that kind of situation.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Thanks for agreeing with me.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm just glad I'm not alone.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

:D

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Um... No. Frankly, I don't plan on it either. Girls have desires, but I don't wanna touch myself like that.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

you'll change your mind one day. and that will be a great day for you.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

@276517 (Anonymous): No. I REALLY don't wanna. I might feel like it eventually, but I still won't wanna. The idea grosses me out.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The idea used to gross me out SO much, I literally felt sick at the thought of it. Then one time me and my friend were at a party which was SO boring and I have no idea why we started talking about it but she mentioned masturbating and I was like "...WHAT?! GROSS!!" and she was like "no, seriously, you should try it some time", so then I got curious and I tried it one night, and I have never looked back ;D

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah, no. I don't care how good it feels. I don't want to.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

dude, just masturbate with your clothes on. you don't even need to take them off. YOU DON'T EVEN HAVE TO LOOK AT YOUR FRIKKIN' VAGINA. sticking your finger in your vagina isn't the only form of masturbation, I should know. it may be confusing, but just use your instincts. ;D

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Why does everyone want me to touch my junk? Ever think I have a moral objection to it? And clothes on, is just as creepy. I just. Don't. Want. To touch. Myself.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No, but if I get horny I go on Omegle. Still 14 and a virgin.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(that nerdy girl): You should still be a virgin at age 14. I sure as hell am still one.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(that nerdy girl): LOL. Woow...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Why would y'all say it's dirtier than regular sex? (That's the impression I get from the "ews.") I want to see the other point of view, but when my friends mention it, it's under the assumption that none of us masturbate. It's annoying how it's supposed to be such a natural, expected process for boys and yet another thing that girls shouldn't do or otherwise they won't be lady-like. Those of you who don't, try actually analyzing WHY you don't.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'd say it's pretty gross because you should only feel like that with someone else, not a piece of plastic or whatever you're using. And that you're not practicing self-control. I'm a horny person, but honestly, if you can't have self-control with that you're going to have a MUCH harder time with other things as well.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You talk about resisting the urge to masturbate as if it is a bad thing. When I hear the word "self-control", I assume someone is talking about restraining oneself from saying something idiotic, doing drugs, or something of the sort. Saying that you have to have self-control when it comes to masturbation is like saying that you should be able to control your desire to relax and have fun. Who the hell would want to do that? Also, you don't necessarily have to use a toy. You can simply use your hand and fingers (if you're a girl, or if you're a guy who swings that way). It can help you get to know yourself better, explore your body. Who says that you should only feel pleasure with somebody else?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Some girls do, some girls dont. Personally I only do during phone sex, cause its tedious and hard for females.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You guys are all like *bloop blop*

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(Rawr there!): You mean fap fap?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I started masturbated when I was 8 years old, and I'm a girl, but Im not horny (sometimes ;)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm nearly 16, not once have I attempted. And I don't wanna!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

First!!!11

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No, I'm 16 and I don't care what you guys think is too old or too young, I never have and I never will. And I would appreciate itif everyone didn't say "you're lying!" because honestly I'm not.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What is your reason for this?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah, it's not like its bad or anything. It's totally natural!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm sixteen and I don't masturbate. I did once, because my boyfriend asked me to so I could figure out what I wanted him to do when he was fingering me. I don't see anything wrong with masturbation; it's just not for me. I personally think vaginas are disgusting and I want as little to do with them as possible. Plus, I would rather get my satisfaction from the male in my life.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

put the bath tap on and spray it in there....feels pretty amazing..... :P

by Anonymous 13 years ago

spray it IN there? hahaha. i think you mean to say spray it ON there.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

but i agree, it's awesome.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

hahaha Ya if you spray it in it's like dueshing and that's no bueno

by Anonymous 13 years ago

This commentry turns me on...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Im pretty young but i wanna try. Whats the best way?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Just play around and see what feels best, use your imagination. Hahaha

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm 14, I've never tried, I never want to. Its not thats its gross or too dirty for me, its that I want to wait for my husband and having sex with myself would not be waiting. Period. There are other ways to relieve stress, other ways to feel good. I'd rather go put put golfing, thats sounds more fun than this.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

it's not like if you masturbate you're not a virgin anymore. that's not really how it works. but hey, if you really want to wait for years and years to have your first orgasm when they're absolutely amazing and you could have one right now, then go ahead. and true, there are other ways to relieve stress, but masturbating lets you explore your body and what you like, so that when the day comes when you DO have sex, you can tell your partner exactly what feels good for you.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

oh and when im in the shower, i lovvvve turning it on high speed and just shooting it down there, so good :)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I started exploring when i was like 10 in the bath tub but I had NO idea what i was doing till about freshman year. It took awhile to really figure out why it felt good, and took some research. But im17 now and i know what to do and do it almost everyday. But I'd just like to mention, its really not easy for girls. Thats why guys do it ALOT more. My boyfriend does it like 3 times a day. Cause its just so easy for guys, it wasn't much for them to figure out.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm 15, and I masturbate. I first started- hmm, I dunno exactly- I was pretty young, and didn't know what I was doing or that it had a name or that other people did it too. I then used it as a way to keep warm as I was falling asleep on really cold nights. It feels good, there's no denying it, and I don't feel any shame :)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I know it's normal and stuff but I've been told people weren't supposed to talk about it...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Nope, I don't masturbate. I have tried it, but I didn't like it. It felt awkward to me, and even though it's normal, it just isn't my thing. Plus, I really don't have "sexual desires" or anything along those lines, so masturbating would be kinda pointless to me. I know that masturbating doesn't make you "impure" but I am saving myself for marriage, plain and simple. C:

by Anonymous 13 years ago

awmahgawd lawl

by Anonymous 13 years ago

one who does that isn't called a girl anymore...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Okay so what am I then? Am I now a boy with a vagina? Because Id still be a girl.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Any girl who hasn't masturbated first 1) should not have sex with anyone ever 2) will not become a woman.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

She Bop!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i love how the numbers are 69 on a masturbate question...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Haha, I'm the tiebreaker.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

The comments are really hard to follow along with now that every bad word is ****

by Anonymous 11 years ago

not often but sometimes yeah

by Anonymous 11 years ago