+586 Guys: is it really THAT hard to understand us girls? There's not much to it. Tell us the truth, be kind when we're on our periods, talk and get to know us, be NICE, and hang out with us and ask us out if you're even a little interested. All we want is someone to care for us and hold us, amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I don't think that's everything to us. I still don't understand some girls completely. I mean maybe that's the majority of the stuff that you worte, but I think we are still confusing in ways.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What ways?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

hello?? im curious as to why we're confusing. mabe i can answer some questions

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Because most girls are batshit crazy.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Not your question. JK, but i really want his answer

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Uh, I'm pretty sure they're a girl as well.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Oh well i still want some questions from a guy. Aren't you at least a little curious as to why guys think some of us are so confusing?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

U girls never say whats actually on ur mind and that drives us fuckin nuts. you as a gender are just confusing for the most part.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

well, thats only some of us. I for one would try to communicate better (not to sound like an old lady or anything). i think its better to vent my feelings

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I haven't seen 1 girl to go for the nice guy who cares about them.But probably that's because i'm in highschool. That's confusing why do you go for the guy that treats you like crap?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

it's a challenge for most of us and they are intriguing, as they mostly act like this to everyone and you hope that eventually that will break down, he'll notice you, and be different i guess in a way you want to know that your the one that can bring out something better in them in high school it would be easy to go with the nice guy that will treat you right and give you cute presents and be all sweet but mostly it's more thrilling to be with a guy that isn't constantly nice, someone that wont just go with things because it's what you want to do, because although being treated like a princess can be nice we want to be equal we want the guy to try and get his way as well and most nice guys will just go with the girls idea

by Anonymous 13 years ago

soo then why do complain and cry and rant when you get ignored by said boy, or he cheats on you, or breaks up with you? Being nice doesn't mean that the guy won't have a mind of his own.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

okay i just spoke from my personal opinion i never said that this is what all girls think. However in MY experience with the guys at my school the nice guys are extreme push overs, not once did i say that this was every single nice guy in the world it would be stupid to try and generalize all boys by gender or vice versa and for your information i have never cried or complained about a boy nor have i been cheated on

by Anonymous 13 years ago

BUT then again, according to you if the guy doesn't always go with the idea of the girl he's not the nice guy.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

ah no thats not what i said actually don't try and get something that i said and make a generalisation from it i said "most nice guys will just go with the girls idea" key word being MOST and this is just from personal experience

by Anonymous 13 years ago

but not all nice guys are like that. its nice to be put up on a pedestal sometimes but that doesnt mean you cant do the same for them. just because they are sweet and actually care about you (as opposed to most "bad boys", who just like girls for their bodies and treat them like garbage) doesnt mean that they dont have a mind of their own. you wont be controlling them, the relationship is still equal and, i think, more likely to last longer. but thats just my opinion

by Anonymous 13 years ago

seriously PERSONAL EXPERIENCE! i never said ALL nice guys were like this and i completely agree most bad boys do treat girls like shit and just go for looks as for nice guys i understand that the have a mind of our own and we dont control them but SOME nice guys, at least ones at my school, do the pedastal thing and just do what their girlfriend says this being the definition of whipped personally i hate the pedestal thing and the sweet romantic-ness of relationships i dont want a guy to treat my like a princess and give me disgustingly sweet gifts with love hearts and flowers MY OPINION and yeah nice guy relationships last longer but sometimes they just aren't as fun again my opinion and sorry for all the capitals i just don't want to be taken out of context again

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Bs, there are plenty of good guys, but girls go for the bad boys

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Just look at that list to realize why we're confused...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

This is a funny post. As if it's even close to that simple.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Because if I followed your instructions, you wouldn't be at all interested. There is only room for one shit in a relationship; if the guy doesn't give a shit about the girl, the girl gives loads of shit to him. If a guy gives shit for a girl, then the girl won't give a shit back. Guys who give shits just aren't interesting to you. Is that simple enough? Hope so, because it's not for guys.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Pshh, yeah right. All girls pretty much say what you say, but the minute a girl finds out how much money a guy is worth, or how big his house is, it's over for "nice" guy. And by care for you, you probably mean to put your ass in a drop top Beamer. Damn, it doesn't take to much to figure out life isn't a fairytale or Disney movie.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Who says all girls just "drop the nice guy" when she finds out another guy has more money/bigger stuff/better stuff? There would be absolutly NO point to a relationship if a girl is just going to do that. Life is never a disney movie or a fairy tale. That doesn't mean that you can't be happy with the person you're with, and what you have. Can't really take all the bigger/better/more expensive shit with you when you die now can you?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You can't take the person with you either... And the point to the relationship is they're both happy. The guy gets the girl he wants, and the girl gets a free car.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Wy do you think we care ONLY about a car? Or any other kind of material items for that matter... And yes, you're right, you can't take that person with you. But that is the point of the relationship. The person, not what they have.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Just from my experiences, this is what it mainly seems like. You see the old rich guy with a young attractive wife. You see the kid who got a Mercedes from his dad in high school pulling girls. And it doesn't really change. There might be relationships where material items doesn't matter... but probably because they guy or girl didn't have any more options.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Options? Uhm, what about LOVE?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You seem to be noticing a lot of times where the rich guy gets the girl, but have you ever taken the time to notice the couple that really is in love?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm just saying. People will probably choose the person who has the bigger bank account, for a lot of reasons. A sense of security, more life experiences, and to just live more comfortably.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree, SOME girls go for bigger bank accounts and they are only in the relationship for what they can get out of it. But if you look around your high school and notice only those girls, then you aren't looking hard enough. Is it possible that the girls that you might want are the girls that only go after guys with money? Is it possible that you are jealous of the guys with money just because they get the girls you want? Take another look around your high school. I bet there are girls, ones who don't want to be in a relationship for material things, that are actually interested in you, but you won't give them a chance because they aren't like the girls you see in relationships.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

A lot of those girls probably won't be able to make money themselves.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

If you want to continues this convo, my AIM is SFx HosS.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's not hard to figure out one girl. The trick is finding a rule that applies to ALL girls, which is practically impossible since there is almost always an exception. And that can get guys into deep shit

by Anonymous 13 years ago

^^This

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Girls are psychotic

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Hahaha you think it's that simple.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Everyone says that all girls are complicated? But what about guys? They care about more things than just sports and sex.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I don't even think girls understand girls... They might think they do but i bet there's still a lot more they don't realize.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

during high school, there is about a 20-something percent chance a relationship will last afterwards, and that doesn't mean they don't break up later. For high schoolers, both sides need to realize that everyone is still deciding on who they want to be, who they are. And not everyone understands that honesty is key. By honesty i don't mean just telling the truth when asked a question, i mean communicating when you're feeling something, or when you think the other is feeling something. Relationships take a lot of effort, and trying to figure out a gender is impossible. Plus, usually the most notorious of each gender produces the stereotypes, like jock/rich for guys, and confusing/fake plastic for girls

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i think it's safe to say that you can never say girls want this, this and this.. and expect it to apply to all girls and it's the same with guys everyone wants different things you want to figure someone out talk to them thats the only way you'll find out

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Its after the "ask us out" part thats confusing

by Anonymous 13 years ago

your post assumes that every girl is the same...

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Yeah, forgive me, I made this account when I was twelve, so a lot of this stuff isn't at all reliable. I'd never even had a boyfriend when I posted this. I haven't been on here in over a year, came back for kicks

by Anonymous 11 years ago