-348 Sex before marriage isn't that bad... Parents, you have to admit you either had sex before you were married or were a loser in high school. amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Are there really that many parents on this site??? I have a feeling some people have decided to vote on this one just to make a point . . .

by Anonymous 13 years ago

"Parents, you have to admit you either had sex before you were married or were a loser in high school" Um... Wow. Really?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The loser thing is kinda of mean, but only dumbasses have sex in high school. People like you are the reason so many people have std's...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Uhh, not only dumbasses have sex in high school. A lot of irresponsible teenagers who are too afraid to talk to their parents about getting contraceptives have sex in high school, but not all teenagers are dumbasses because they want to have sex in high school.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

AGREED

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agreed with the first part, but the second part is rather ridiculous. Just because you don't have sex doesn't make you a loser, and just because you have sex doesn't make you anymore likable.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I feel like it depends----why you are doing it? who you are doing it with? there are people that do fall in love in high school. you always hear about people marrying their high school sweethearts. not all high school kids are the same. i think some cases are ok, especially with those mature enough to use protection

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Wow that was way harsh. Not all kids are out having sex in high school. Some of them actually have standards and a conscience and know that they shouldn't do it because everyone else is. Some don't follow the norm and they aren't losers. I bet you most of the people who are "popular" who say they have had sex really haven't because they are expected to have already done it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree with the first part cause I know my parents weren't virgins until marriage , but I completely disagree with the second part . Just because you decide not to have sex doesn't mean you are a loser at all .

by Anonymous 13 years ago

sex before marrige is fine, but sex before you graduate college is the dumbest thing ever

by Anonymous 13 years ago

...wouldn't that depend on the parent?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree that parents should shutup about making u not have sex before ur married because most of them had kids before they were married. having sex is a natural thing and evrrybody does it. the whole std part is scary but that's more why ppl need to have safe sex. AND if you know you are going to marry a person you should be able to have sex with them.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

This post is ridiculous. OP, you're essentially saying, "Hey, agree with me, or you're a loser!" Seriously?!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

There's a difference between sex in high school and sex before marriage. =/ If you're a responsible adult who could feasibly support a child if things go wrong, it's a totally different thing than when you're 16 and financially and emotionally unable to support a child.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

This is awful. Some people want to save themselves for marriage. Big deal. I don't plan on it but I'm a junior in high school, I don't know what I want for breakfast, let alone whether or not I want to have sex. I'm not unpopular and I've had boyfriends. But I'm sixteen, I base my decisions off of feelings and hormones, honestly if I hadn't thought about it I know I wouldn't give a second thought to common sense or to whether or not I was ready. And while I respect people's decision to have sex, I think having sex in high school is crazy. I have not met one person who doesn't regret having sex in high school. But honestly, they probably weren't popular cause these days girls realized they could put out and guys will go out with them and do what they want and be popular. It's sad.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(Anonymous)- girl u r genius- im same age as u an i couldnt agree more!!!!!!! U go girl!!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Agreed

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'd love to know who's seriously going to wait until they find 'the one', no matter how long it takes. Wanna be a 40 year old virgin? Aside from that, I say it's all up to the person having sex. I sure as hell wouldn't want to be a virgin at my age, but also, the one I love is a year older and still a virgin. Each person is different.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So if I had sex in highschool with my boyfriend of many months I'm automatically claimed a slut? I haven't yet, but we'll see. I'm responsible to know to protect my self, and I know the consequences. I am no slut. Thank you. And if anyone of you beg to differ, meet me personally, for none of you know nothing of me. I'm not writing this for my health, I'm here to say that there are responsible teenagers out there, very few in this subject but that's just them. (I mean the ones who've gotten pregnant.)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm 15.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Sex before marriage is a choice. If someone doesn't want to....that's also a choice. It doesn't make them a loser.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I lost my virginity when I was 14. There was never a moment in my life where I felt regrets. Everyone should decide for him/herself. I will not be called a slut. Unless by slut someone means a girl that has fun in her life and makes her own thoughtful decions.

by Anonymous 13 years ago