actually, sex connects you deeper with your partner than anything else... that's why there needs to be a life-long commitment behind it, or its just messed up and you have connections with people other than your (future) spouse. please wait! if i can, you can!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

orrrrrr you could just have fun and have sex if you want to, if the other person wants to, and if you're being responsible. Humans are designed to have sex, and to enjoy it. Why fight it?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Humans were designed to have sex after marriage actually. God created you, and He created sex for the purpose of creating a baby after marriage.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

(>__<): I'm pretty sure science has taken over religion in the validity factor. Sex was made to feel good, sure, in order to encourage procreation, but since we can now limit reproduction with birth control, why not just embrace it? If you insist for going for the whole god argument anyway, a quick peruse of bible rules tells me you must also believe gay people should be killed, you shouldn't go near women on their period, women should get their hands cut off for interfering in a fight of their husbands, adulterers should be stoned, no pork, no shellfish, no mixed fibres, no piercings and a load of other outdated rules and restrictions. And if you don't, then you sir, are a hypocrite.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Oh, I find this so amusing. I'll let you believe what you want, but there ARE some matters in the Bible that were only appropriate for that time period. Being a Christian doesn't mean you want to kill gays, it means you believe Jesus, who died for your sins, is the one, true Savior.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

christians don't kill. not if your gay, straight, whatever.christians arent supposed to judge you for being gay cause we are all sinners.and most don't (me). its one of the commandments. actually read the bible before you comment about it. and if your not going to wait till marriage. at least wait till your in a relationship and you feel you wanna express your feelings for that person in that way.not just random sex with random people, cause your cheepening your experience with the person that you will find that is the one. and no science has not taken over religion in the validity facter.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

@50964 (Anonymous): Well that's not what your bible says... in fact, as well as killing gay people, it also thinks any child who "curses his mother or father shall surely be put to death". CLEARLY this book isn't for peace loving people. Not killing and generally being nice is not a christian virtue, it's a human virtue. And yes, evolution and the big bang have a far more outstanding level of proof behind them than anything religion has to offer. Bam.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

You're a damn fuckin liar saying you don't sin! That right there is a sin!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

sounds more like the Jewish religion than Christian. Maybe you should get your facts strait?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Maybe you should get your spelling straight. Bible is Christian, no?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Old testament much?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(>__<): God so did not "create sex for the purpose of creating a baby after marriage!" come on!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

So..he created it just so we could mess around with people we met while drunk? Of course not, sex WAS created so we could have babies. We just manipulate it now that we have condoms and birth control pills.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Gah, you fool.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

All religious arguments aside, Having sex with multiple partners is extremely risky. Even using protection, the more sex you have, and the more partners you have, there still is a fairly decent risk for the spread of disease or for unwanted pregnancy. Because YOU might be being careful, but your partner may not be. They might be dishonest with you. You just never know what you're dealing with. Not only that, but sex is a highly emotional activity. There are all kinds of studies linking sexual promiscuity with depression, poor self-esteem, other poor lifestyle choices, etc. And I know you might think you're just having fun, but it affects activity and chemicals in the brain that you might not even be aware of and eventually it will come back to haunt you. Trust me, I've been there. And eventually, you're going to have sex with someone, and it's going to mean something completely different to them than it did to you, and one of you will be very deeply hurt. That is inevitable.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

couldnt have said it better myself. for the sake of having love and respect for YOURSELF and YOUR HAPPINESS, don't just sleep around. alot of things that seem "fun" now are not down the line and you deserve more then a crappy future just because of bad mistakes in the past.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

dude you rock. i've been trying to tell people that for years. ah well. maybe one day they'll realise.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

sex IS a big deal. and it affects different people differently. it wasent created for some fun time, its not worth setting a bad example for the next generation.i cant tell you how many of the kids at my middle school act slutty and do things they are too young to do because they have the pregenant at 16 mom that treats their kid like a best friend and lets them do what ever, and at the same time goes out with lots of guys and"parties" around with her girlfriends to some how regain what being young is like.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I think that sex (being all of someone intimately) should be given only to the one person that is the love of your life, who you'll be with forever. And the ultimate test of that is to be married (ignoring the increasing divorce rate of today). I wouldn't want to give what should be reserved for that one guy to someone who would just be a memory...

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Yea. Sex isn't a huge deal. You can just have a baby, get AIDs, be taped, get crushed, be mistreated, and alot of other stuff. Marriage is just a thing that binds you and your love together in holy matrimony and makes sure he won't give you AIDs when you celebrate the night after. I guess everybody should just go out and lose their virginity, eh?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

use a condom, cant get aids, wont have a baby. you can be mistreated in pretty much any area of life. get crushed? are you serious? about 50% of marriages end in divorce, what a holy institution it is

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Um, sorry but if you use a condom, you can definitely still get aids, and you can definitely still have a baby.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

It is called "OMG! THE F****** CONDOM BROKE!" disease in those cases.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

wait if you can but if you dont then thats okay. If you love the person then, personally i think its fine.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

If you love the person, can't you marry them then have sex after?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

For some reason I have a feeling the person who wrote this was a guy... don't really know why.. oh wait! maybe it's because you aren't the one that blows up like a balloon and goes through child birth! just a thought......

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Sex is overrated. Also, marriage is basically human-made. The sex thing has always been there.. and holy matrimony bla bla bla came AFTER.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

AMEN! You don't HAVE to have sex. Our generation just cares about sex. Sex should be between the person who you truly love. Meaning, you should really wait until marriage. But that's just my opinion

by Anonymous 14 years ago