Love is NOT a decision, it's a feeling. Amirite?

Bullshit, love is neither a decision nor a feeling, it's an illusion that's been blown way out of proportion by society.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Keep saying that till you do fall in love.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I have fallen in what I, until recently, believed to be love. Then I screwed my head back on, slapped myself in the face and thought "stop being so fucking stupid".

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well if your relationship was still alive, you wouldn't be here saying this would you?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Depends if I had changed in the same way that I have over the last couple years

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Everyone has some sort of love for someone else, whether it be a parent, a pet, a sibling, spouse, etc. Love is a feeling that can't be avoided, no matter what changes you've went through..

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Agreed.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I believe strongly in love but you have to understand that what most people perceive as love is often infatuation. When someone has a situation that makes them lose their faith in love it's often because it wasn't love to begin with. Not everyone gets to experience true love in their life.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

love is a verb. It is something you choose to do. It goes past the initial feelings. You choose to love someone in spite of the inevitable hard times. The feelings you feel are a result of the love you give and the love others give you.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You can't stop or start to love. Whether it be your siblings, your parents, your pets. Friendship is a love in its own way. I have tried, you can't stop, you can only pretend it doesn't exist and/or stop seeing them. You can't live a life without love.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Voldemort did.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Disagree! Love is definitely a decision. It's your mentality that is the basis of so many marriages that fall apart. One day you're not going to feel that feeling for your spouse any more. Is it over then? Or do you CHOOSE to continue loving them, whether or not you feel like it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago