+471 why are guys the ONLY ones blamed for "getting" a girl pregnent. she CHOSE to have sex too, amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Because sometimes a guy will say he's protected and then just not put on a condom. Apparently it feels better for the guy if there's no condom.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

And sometimes she says she's on the pill. And if sex really feels better without a condom, then that's a better excuse than just not taking a pill.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Protection isn't just about pregnancy. Condoms protect against some STD's, and I'm sure the girl doesn't know his full sexual history, so if a guy fore go's it just because it might feel a little better without it, he's a jerk. :/

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I admit that, but, assuming he's STD free,a woman who lies about being on the pill is no better.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

your telling me a girl just, wouldn't notice if a guy didn't put on a condom even tho he said he did?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What if the girl was raped? you never know

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Obviously this isn't applied towards rape victims.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Because women are evil

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Hopefully.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No she didn't...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I hear much more badmouth towards the girls than the guys. I've never heard, "Oh, he's such a jackass. He knocked poor Laurie up." It's always, " Ew. She's such a slut. She got pregnant in HIGH SCHOOL."

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Agreed. You usually don't hear people outcasting guys for getting girls pregnant. It's almost always considered the girls fault. Most people just think the guy who got her pregnant was "just having a good time." The girl on the other hand is considered a nasty whore. It's a bit unfair because it's the fault of both.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

its considerd@909227 (yeahhbuddy): it's considered the girl's fault because ultimately girls are the ones who make this decision. Also, there is no double standard here. In general, girls like guys with high status, and high status is usually determined by a guy's ability to get women; pregnancy is a potential consequence of this standard. In general, guys prefer women who are loyal, which is usually shown by sexual faithfulness. In the case of pregnancy, at least in this context, the guy has demonstrated higher value to potential future partners, while the girl has demonstrated lower value to potential future partners.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Most of the time it's the girl that gets more shit about being pregnant.

by Anonymous 13 years ago