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awww hes 18 and shes 14. thats not a relationship, thats babysitting! amirite?
by Anonymous13 years ago
I know people who are eighteen years apart and are happily married. Yes 18 and 14 seems a little bad, but when you get older it doesn't mean half as much.
by Anonymous13 years ago
Uhh hello facebook group...
by Anonymous13 years ago
Once you're past a certain age, four years is not that big of a deal. But 18 and 14 is a little disgusting.
by Anonymous13 years ago
Nice facebook group;
by Anonymous13 years ago
What about 16 and 14? Sorry just curious about opinions, doesn't really merit its own post
by Anonymous13 years ago
16 and 14 is fine. What I don't get is how an eighth grader's dating a high schooler.. that's just wrong.
by Anonymous13 years ago
More like a freshman dating a senior.
by Anonymous13 years ago
It really depends on the couple. My friend is a freshman, and her boyfriend is a senior. She's mature for her age, and he's a bit immature for his age. They actually really like each other, and work well as a couple together.
by Anonymous13 years ago
And have probably been dating for about two weeks.
Once he goes to college, if this relationship even lasts that long, the whole thing will end.
by Anonymous13 years ago
They've been dating.... 4 months I think?
They know they aren't going to be together forever, I'm just saying the actual relationship can work.
by Anonymous13 years ago
Yes, maybe over a short amount of time. But in reality, this just won't work for years and years. Maybe it does happen, but I've never seen it last. The guy goes off to college and doesn't want to date a high school girl anymore.
I'm not saying that a four year age difference is not going to last in the real world. I'm saying that it doesn't usually work in high school.
The point of a relationship, in my opinion, is to last for a considerable amount of time -- enough time to make a dent in your life. If you know you're not going to last for a long amount of time then I don't see the point of dating. Just be good friends with the person -- it's much less harder when you break up because you have somewhat of an emotional attachment. :/
by Anonymous13 years ago
But they DO know they're going to last a long time. You say they'll break up after he goes to college. I guess a year and third isn't enough time to affect you at all?
So your saying just dating a bit is just stupid? That we should ONLY date if we KNOW the relationship would last? You can never know, and even if you do know it won't last forever, why deny yourself that time to be happy with someone you like? If two people like each other, they already have an emotional attachment, and it'd only hurt to say "I'm not even going to try because there's a chance we won't last"
by Anonymous13 years ago
That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying the typical relationships in high school (in other words, the two week ones) are basically built on failure. It's usually people who base their relationships on looks and looks only and they just fail miserably. If you're basing the relationship on looks (which is what I meant before but I guess I didn't actually state that xD It's typically what I see) then it really can't last. Looks fade and and personalities butt heads if they're not compatible.
If you get into regular arguments (however petty) with a person while friends, that can't also translate into a strong relationship that will last.
Long-distance relationships at a young age (or any age, really) are hard to work out (unless he's going to a community college.)
I get liking the idea of being emotionally close to someone and always having that someone there. But if you know it will inevitably end, I don't see the point in getting so emotionally invested. :/
by Anonymous13 years ago
Technically it's statutory rape.
by Anonymous13 years ago
never said that they're having sex
by Anonymous13 years ago
That post is phrased rudely..
by Anonymous13 years ago
I'm 14 and I used to date an 18 year old. It wasn't a big deal, we got along well and we really liked each other.
by Anonymous13 years ago
There is a rule. Take your age, divide by 2 and add 7. That is the youngest age you can date without being a creep (18/2=9 9+7=16)
by Anonymous13 years ago
An 8th grader dating a high schooler is not bad unless their a senior or junior
by Anonymous13 years ago
It's not babysitting, it's child molesting.
by Anonymous13 years ago
My boyfriend is 19 and I'm sixteen. Granted I don't act stupid or bitchy like most drama ridden sixteen year old girls. It's all about maturity.
by Anonymous13 years ago
Try 20 and 14. That's just ick.
by Anonymous13 years ago
Maybe at the time people could think that. But really, 24 and 20 year olds get married and fall in love all the time. Chill.
by Anonymous13 years ago
I date someone 5 years older...ima teenager.. ._.;
by Anonymous13 years ago
and we're still dating and going strong. OH YEAAAAAAH. Can't really get a baby sitter for a year and a half, can you? (<-----I dont know. Ive never had a baby sitter D:)
by Anonymous12 years ago
Yeah really there's nothinq wronq with that. Stfu.
You go anon^ :D<3
by Anonymous13 years ago
Is a 16-year-old boy dating a girl who turns 14 in 3 months creepy? No sex involved.
by Anonymous12 years ago
Summer 2008, a 19 year old boy wanted to be in relationship with a 13 year old girl
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