Then everyone who's ever had sex once is a slut in the making and virgins are potential sluts. Makes total sense.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Does that mean that I'm a slut in the making because I lost my virginity at 14, now regret it, and dont plan on doing it again until I'm certain that he loves me?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

14 is disgusting. Kids nowadays...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Er. I made a mistake. He convinced me he loved me, and he wouldn't use me, and being 14, I believed it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

He was probably 14 too, and he asked for it. That's just as sad. You agreed to it. I'm not talking about whether you did it for the wrong reason. The reason doesn't matter, whether or not you loved him enough or anything, you were a fucking kid, and you still are, for all I know. And it's normal, too, nowadays to be in your situation. I hope you don't get on a teen mom show.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

don't you think I've received enough ridicule for this?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It's not ridicule, I don't care about you personally, i'm just upset about society. In a i-dont-want-to-live-on-this-planet-anymore kind of way. It just sucks.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I have to live with the shame of that for the rest of my life. I was almost 15 anyways. It was only last August. He doesn't talk to me anymore, and it caused me to go into a relapse of depression. I regret it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Must suck to have depression of something //you// caused.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I've had depression since 6th grade, that just caused a relapse. And why am I getting blamed here?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You've got a touch screen phone? Interesting. Anyway, you must agree it's your fault; it's your body and your decision. I don't really care about you personally, if you don't want to talk about this then we shouldn't be having this conversation.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I have an iPod-touch. I don't agree it's entirely my fault. It's his fault for fucking me over.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It'd be his fault if it were rape.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

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by Anonymous 12 years ago

Why not just wait until marriage? Waiting until you're "certain he loves you" will just lead to the same problem.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Because I don't think marriage matters. If I love someone enough to have sex with them, then I don't think a stupid piece of paper matters. I wanted him to like me, and I thought he did. it's my life, and my choices.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Don't you have to be certain he loves you to get married too? So marriage or not, it doesn't really make a difference.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Do you really think that a guy would be equally as likely to lie about loving you and then marry you just to have sex?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You could, but it'd make you a jerk. :P

by Anonymous 12 years ago

And your reasoning?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Right. She's a slut in the making but it's totally cool for the guy. Because it's "normal" for a guy to be sexual and us girls are just naturally born with a lower sex drive, enough though ALL EVIDENCE PROVES TO THE FUCKING CONTRARY. Look, I'm completely against kids having sex. But that wouldn't make her a bad person or a "slut in the making," it makes her a kid that had sex. Just like the guy, assuming they're the same age. Either way it's nobody's business what other people do with their bodies, especially girls.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I feel like "could" is the key word here. But I may be wrong.

by Anonymous 12 years ago