+645 Guys: if you tell a girl you like her, chances are she likes you too. And if she doesn't, she's not going to laugh at you. She'll be your friend and very possibly over time want to be more, amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

THIS IS MOST DEFINITELY SOMETHING ALL GUYS SHOULD FREAKIN KNOW AND UHH DO :)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(chick-lettt): question: what if the girl you like kind of likes you but is also interested in an obnoxious person who is all she can think about?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well does she actually like have a chance with the obnoxious person? And does she even know you like her? Cuz tell her then she probably will a lot more I mean I would haha (;

by Anonymous 13 years ago

most likely not, but it is just annoying, you know what I mean? And I am pretty sure she knows I do. And thanks ;) lol

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well I'm a girl and I used to be interested in this obnoxious boy who was a huge jerk, but then I realized I liked my friend who I've known practically all my life.. So just tell her.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well I used to be friends with a guy, and I liked someone else obsessively, but then the guy I was friends with said he liked me, and we ended up going out like a week later...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Every guy needs to know this.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So true. I didn't like a guy that told me he liked me and asked to go out on a date. I declined. But, we became good friends. Honestly, if he asked me today. I would say yes.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

YES! YES!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

...or things will get extremely awkward... there is a reason why guys (as well as girls) have a fear of rejection, it doesn't always go very well. Not saying you shouldn't give it a try though, rather regret trying and failing than not trying at all.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That's what guys should do instead of embarrassing you by telling everyone else!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Cookiedough, i like you. I hope you like me back.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

lol

by Anonymous 13 years ago

that's just what happend with me and my bf. he told me he likes me, but i told that i just wanna be friends with him. after 4 months i started to like him and then we yeah.. :) DEFFINITELY BOYSSS!! DO THIS!!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Why can't the girl tell the guy?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Because if the girl doesn't like him then she has nothing to tell. And then if he tells her she will most likely start liking him back.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Okay, the first part is understandable but what if she DOES like him? Why doesn't she tell him then? The second part, and I can speak from experience, is completely and utterly not true.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Does it work the other way around? (Like will a guy react similarly if a girl says she likes him?)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

no.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

This is not always true. If a guy were to ask me out that I was good friends with already, and only saw him as a friend, I would feel awkward and a little creeped out afterward and would probably not hang out with him as much. I know that sounds mean but I just wouldn't like knowing he has feelings for me and I don't feel the same

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That does make sense, but a lot of the time, people will start liking someone a bit more when they know the person likes them. I think it's something like now you know they an option, and you could safely like them without being rejected, and you'll just be subconsciously considering it, and then you start liking them...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(not an expert though): Yeah I can see that and that has happened to me. I just have some very close guy friends that are like my brothers and it would be really weird if they liked me

by Anonymous 13 years ago

unless the girl is a bitch. then they will make a really mean nasty look like they just choked on there own uglyness. (whitnessed it happen to a friend) :(

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Sadly not always. In the past, I have found out guys liked me and it just became slightly awkward. Knowing someones feelings doesn't make you have the same.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

but it can enhance them.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

In my experience the only thing that was "enhanced" was my desire to be as far away from that guy as possible...but then the only guys that have ever liked me are creepers. If I had written this post I would have added "talk to her friends first, a girl will almost always tell her friends if she likes someone".

by Anonymous 13 years ago

my one guy friend told me he liked me and i don't know i just feel more comfortable around him, like i know i don't have to worry about sounding like an idiot because i know he likes me. but i also have to watch what i say as to not lead him on.

by Anonymous 13 years ago