It's okay if I send my boyfriend a pair of my worn panties if he's in another country and we won't be meeting for a long time, amirite?

What on earth would he do with those?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Smell or masturbate with them. And I'm serious with this post..

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I don't see much need for smelling them and thats what the internet is for

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I guess you wouldn't understand and it's an opinion website here; so I'm seeking the opinion of the people here. Also you can look up about that for long distance relationships, that's what got me interested in that.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I understand but there's phone sex and video chat... just saying. Underwear kinda weird lol

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Im in a long distance relationship and he loves when I send him my sexy panties. We have phone sex and vid sex daily

by Anonymous 4 years ago

I've never met mine and he asked me to send him panties but I said only if you send me something you've worn. At first I was like, "no wtf"(but in my head) but now I don't mind as much after reading what yall have said.

by Anonymous 2 years ago

I don't see a problem with it tbh. I think this'd be pretty people with mature people in long distance relationships.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Exactly. It's not like I'm fifteen and doing something stupid. I'm 19 and had/have an active sexual life with him.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Precisely. As you guessed, I meant to say 'pretty common with mature people' not 'pretty people with mature people' :P

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah I got what you intended to say :-)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(Iwannafingeryou):"its not like I'm 15, I'm 19"... Ahahhahhahaha thanks for the laugh!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

gets confused

by Anonymous 2 years ago

maybe she wants him to be a cross dresser...there is a lot of weird people nowadays

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's perfectly normal to leave articles of clothing for your significant other (usually undergarments from girls, shirts and hoodies from guys). Sending them in the mail is just way to do this in long distance relationship.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Totally okay. He can even do the same; though, maybe not for the same purposes. I have my boyfriend leave a pair of boxers with me to sleep in, or a shirt that smells like him.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I'm glad you posted this. My husband is about to be deployed to Kuwait for nine months, and I hadn't really thought about things like this, to be honest. You made me think. =)

by Anonymous 12 years ago

As long as there's no like discharge or anything gross in it. But, I think it's nice to send him something personal/sexy of yours

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It seems like quite a few people don't seem to realize that guys generally like the way their girlfriend's pussy smells, hence the used panties. It's not "gross", it's normal. A bit private, but normal.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Quite a few guys have a fetish for women's underwear It doesn't hurt anyone and it's your relationship, if you feel comfortable doing it go ahead.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You should just slap a stamp and address on them and send them off. It would be a hell of a surprise for the mail man.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You're old enough to make that kind of decision and you're in a committed relationship. I don't see how it's any different from leaving them at his house.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Ya it's totally fine. As long as you keep it to yourself.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You said you won't be meeting for a while? So you've never even met then? I think that's a little weird

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Actually, she clarified in the above comments that they have met and have been in a sexually active relationship for a while.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Hey, whatever floats your boat.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

When I was in a long diatance relationship I sent my now ex a stuffed animal of mine that smelled like my perfume.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Fuck yeah its okay. It doesn't hurt anyone and I personally think its romantic and erotic when my boyfriend asked me to send my dirty underwear to him. I was going to send them anyways because he had dropped hints about panty sniffing by kind of bringing it up as a like hypothetical "isn't that weird?" but i could tell he was testing the waters to see how I'd react. Don't shame each other for sexual exploration, it's through healthy communication and expression that we avoid dark and damaged sexual expression. As long as its consensual and safe (physically AND psychologically) then go for it.

by Anonymous 3 years ago