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It's not stupid to wait until sex to have marriage, amirite?
by Anonymous13 years ago
Repeat off the homepage post.
by Anonymous13 years ago
No, it isn't. I swapped some of the words around to say it's okay to wait until you've had sex before you marry someone.
by Anonymous13 years ago
Ok. I'll change my words then: Rip-off from the homepage post. xD
by Anonymous13 years ago
I'm cool with that. :)
by Anonymous13 years ago
But oh noes you cant have secks b4 u r married it sais so rite heer in teh Bible rite next to the part aboot how often to beat ur slaves!
by Anonymous13 years ago
There are other reasons for waiting besides the Bible.
by Anonymous13 years ago
Hahaha i like this. Fuck the haters it made me smile
by Anonymous13 years ago
Nor is it stupid not to.
Now lets all just get along.
by Anonymous13 years ago
At first I thought I read this wrong. XD
by Anonymous13 years ago
Yes it is, sex is supposedly fun, you only have one life and should have a lot of fun.
by Anonymous13 years ago
I believe you may have read the post wrong...
by Anonymous13 years ago
Oops, yeah I did.
by Anonymous13 years ago
A. you read the post wrong, B. supposedly? how old are you?
by Anonymous13 years ago
It's a choice, and if someone is happier waiting for marriage then I'm not going to judge them : ) But it's not stupid to not wait either.
by Anonymous13 years ago
I think it's really sweet to wait until you're married, and lose your virginity to eachother.
Where is gets stupid is when people (like some people at my school for example) vow not to, like, kiss anyone until their wedding day. In my opinion, that is ridiculously dumb.
by Anonymous13 years ago
I agree that it'd be sweet but there wouldn't really be much pleasure..
by Anonymous13 years ago
Agreed, for the girl at least. Still, there's something very significant about losing your virginity, and it's a really strong bond, despite the pain.
by Anonymous13 years ago
yeah I understand that completely but you do also have to recognize that sometimes the person you lose your virginity to isn't the one you marry but still the right one.
by Anonymous13 years ago
I completely agree. I'm not planning on waiting till I get married. I just think it's a sweet thing if both parties want to do so. :)
by Anonymous13 years ago
ok well in that case, were on the same terms here. :)
by Anonymous13 years ago
Well then excellent
by Anonymous13 years ago
'You gotta Test Drive the car before you Buy it' as my dad would always say :)
by Anonymous13 years ago
So you jump in bed with every single one of your boy/girlfriends just to make sure that it's fine to marry them if you so choose?
by Anonymous13 years ago
What if you find the clutch sticks? The wheels squeak? You wouldn't marry someone just account on how they do in bed? Really?
by Anonymous13 years ago
It's not stupid at all, but what's stupid is waiting until marriage for your first kiss.
by Anonymous13 years ago
Who are you to say that that is stupid? Kissing may not be as strong a bond as sex, but it is still a bond. Wanting to wait until marriage to share that first experience with your spouse is NOT stupid.
by Anonymous13 years ago
You've never kissed your parents or your friends? I see kissing as something that you share with people you are close to (hell, people in France use it to greet each other), not just someone you are totally in love with.
by Anonymous13 years ago
Obviously that kind of kiss is different. A romantic kiss with someone you love is a very special thing, and very different from kisses between family and friends. It's not stupid to want to save that for marriage.
by Anonymous13 years ago
Until you get married, kiss, play, and have sex for the first time, and realize there's no physical chemistry.
Sex may not be everything but intimacy is more important than alot of kids realize and being stuck for life with someone who just doesn't do it for you seems silly to me.
But hey, to each their own.
by Anonymous13 years ago
Physical chemistry isn't everything, but you need to fall in love with a person's personality, not the physical chemistry. Would you honestly not marry the love of your life because the sex wasn't good?
by Anonymous13 years ago
I live commonlaw with the love of my life even thoug the sex isn't as frequent as I'd like, so no, that's not quite what I meant. But some people just physically don't mesh, and guaranteed that will cause problems down the road.
That aside, having no physical intimacy beforehand is going to make for one hell of an awkward and overwhelming wedding night. The first time I had sex I bled *everywhere*. It's only because I was with someone that I loved and trusted, who was used to my body and vice versa, that we were able to laugh about it instead of being completely horrified and ashamed.
by Anonymous13 years ago
I agree with what spearmintkisses says. And why should they be all that different? Obviously, they are treated very differently (as they should be), but I might kiss my friends and family on the cheek, and saying I'm not going to do that with someone I love, even if we're not married, is ridiculous.
That being said, waiting for your first kiss isn't stupid. But waiting until you're married might be.
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