The yes you are's on this post make me sad.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I usually orgasm during sex, but i cant have multiples. Once i climax I'm done, it gets so senstive down there every movement after feels almost painful. It's just too sensitive. (TMI for everybody lol)

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I usually have that same problem. I find that focusing on something that turns me off, waiting about 5 minutes usually helps with the sensitivity, otherwise I'd never be able to do anything fun with my bf

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Pretty much, you're exactly like a dude in that manner.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Hey... Kesha... Um, how's that rx8...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

That's odd. Maybe if you did more foreplay you'd be able to get more (female orgasms are just the blood leaving the [I think] vulva and clitoris, so if there is more blood down there then that means it'll take more orgasms for it to be expelled, and therefore satisfaction.)

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Lol maybe not everytime i have sex, but most of the time doing other sexual stuff, and after i get the first one they just keep coming its awesomeee

by Anonymous 12 years ago

If this is a true representation of how women are experiencing sex, I find it incredibly sad. All girls must be fully aware of, and totally in control of, their bodies’ response to sexual stimulation before they ever go anywhere near a boy. Boys know nothing about how to satisfy a girl, and their bodies are ill-equipped to provide the necessary stimulation without significant guidance. For God’s sake, don’t just lie there & let him use your body for his own gratification. Take control & make sure you are getting what you need to enjoy it at least as much as he does. Actually, most boys would probably appreciate your feedback & it will make them better lovers!

by Anonymous 1 year ago

A quick tip for all the girls that can’t get beyond their first orgasm. You’ve probably heard the clitoris referred to as a “mini penis”, & are mirroring the way the boys wank which is quite mechanical & too rough a way to caress what is a very delicate little organ. When you start to masturbate, avoid your genital region & work around your body’s erogenous zones: neck, breasts, stomach, & thighs (both inside & out). Use you imagination to conjure up an erotic situation & as you feel yourself becoming aroused, more your attention to the labia, pinching, stroking & caressing them until your vaginal lube is running out. Now you can move to your clitoris, which should now be quite hard, & throbbing gently, mirroring your heartbeat. Right up until your first contraction try to avoid touching the glans directly, & if you really have to caress it, use a wet or well lubricated finger. If you need to rub quickly to reach orgasm, rub it indirectly by sandwiching it with your fingers between your upper labia skin folds. Doing this will avoid the clitoris becoming sore & numb, & enable you to continue to have more orgasms after only a short pause. To paraphrase Churchill, a woman’s orgasm is not the end, Or the beginning of the end, But just the end of the beginning! A guy’s orgasm is the beginning & the end! We’re different: make the most of that difference!

by Anonymous 5 months ago