+378 It hurts to listen to the guy you love talk about the girls he likes, amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

...crap

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah, a guy I liked once told me who he liked and then asked me how he should ask her out while I had to pretend to be happy for him

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I do that on purpose! One it makes me seem more exclusive and two I get to see the reaction a girl has to it, so I can tell if SHE likes me or not. Your guy friend prolly did the same thing and then thought that you were actually "happy" for him. Think about it, why would he ask YOU of all his friends (the boys)? He was interested and you missed your chance.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Or they're best friends. Or he wanted a girl's perspective. Or any of the other countless reasons why he could have asked her.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well, he told like everyone and we're close friends. Plus, he told me over chat so he probably wasn't trying to gauge my reaction

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Wow, same! He even snuck outside to my house in the middle of the night to ask me what he should get her. I was clearly at shock.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Maybe if you told him how you felt instead of trying to rely on little hints and messages HE WOULD KNOW. I just don't understand why girls think they can't just come out and say they like a guy.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's because we're worried that we'd ruin a good friendship. That's true for me, at least. I've had a crush on one of my friends for ages but I haven't told him because if he doesn't feel the same way, things won't be the same. Even if we were to go back to being friends, he'd still know that I had at one point had a crush on him, and I might still. So fear of rejection, really.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The way I see it, a friend would make the best partner in a relationship. If you love somebody, ask them out. If they reject you and don't want to be friends anymore because it would be "awkward" then fuck them.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I don't think I would want to fuck someone who rejected me.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It just doesn't always work that way.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah, especially if he's your best friend and he's always talking about his dumb girlfriend who doesn't even know who batman is... sorry.

by Anonymous 13 years ago