It really depends on how and why they were telling me to lose weight.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

my (ex)boyfriend told me i should eat a lot and do a bunch of sit ups to get big ol tittes and some child bearin hips to be boodyliscious instead of just tiny and i was very very offended, so i told him what i really thought of his weiner!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

you can't choose where the fat goes though... Can you?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

no you cannot. and doing a bunch of sit ups will not burn tummy fat it will build muscle under the tummy fat and if you did cardio you would burn fat faster but no you 100% cannot choose the way your body is shaped

by Anonymous 13 years ago

that's what I thought.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I only ask cus my bf told me If I wanted him to lose weight just ask, but I feel as if that's a slap in the face and would make him feel bad

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You could try a different approach? Tell him it's not about his physique (because if you're with him you obviously like how he looks) but suggest that maybe he take his health a bit more seriously. Or maybe make it a team thing and help each other eat right and exercise regularly, that way it's not just about him. Unless you really don't care, then fuck it. Just more of him to love.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Or you'd dump the crazy controlling bitch who thinks she has the right to dictate your body...

by Anonymous 12 years ago