dating a friends ex is wrong, No matter the circumstances, amirite?

A friends ex is not their property. If you like your friends ex, then you should have the absoloute right to date them.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

what if your friends ex is the one who ended the relationship

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Depends on the reason your friends ex ended the relationship. for all you could know, your friend could be either crazy or possesive. or maybe your friend is a cheater.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Or none of those

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Maybe there are some circumstances where the friend's ex ended the relationship, but the post says "No matter the circumstances," meaning even if your friend was cheating, or crazy, or possessive, it would still be wrong to date their ex (according to the post).

by Anonymous 12 years ago

ruin a friendship much?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

If the friend doesn't understand then they're not worth being friends with. For example: I am in love with a guy, he dates my friend, they break up and he is free. I'm not going to keep myself from expressing my feeling towards him.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

That means he´s a bad friend. He should be happy for me that I hooked up with somebody that I really like. After all, they broke up. He had his change and ruined it by braking up.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

look ima put it like this..you came in this world without a friend you gone leave without a friend...you not here to please nobody but GOD i sho in the hell ain't pleasing no female just because i picked up her slack and did what she couldn't do...if she was a basic chick then that's wat she is...guys not checking for that no more they want somebody who will be their ride or die and hold them down through their highs and lows...and i can say my guy never has to worry about another getting wat he has because he got me right where he wants me...my baby is about to put a ring on it :)

by Anonymous 12 years ago

"No matter the circumstances" is what made me NW this. In a lot of circumstances it sucks but sometimes it's okay.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

If you live in small town you can't help but to date a friend's ex. Everyone is each other's ex. Besides, a friend should understand love. If they aren't at least happy for you they aren't a very good friend anyway.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You can date whoever you want. If you're just trying to make your friend jealous, it's wrong but if you like someone and they like you back, why not?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

*side note* I forgot to tell you that unnecessary commas and unnecessary capitalization are wrong no matter the circumstances.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

The only real time when dating a friends ex is NOT okay, is when the ex completely broke your friends heart, in the way where she or he can't ever even be around him or her. Or he or she was abusive, cause, sometimes knowing that doesn't stop someone from dating someone else.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

The friend can understand the reasons, but it's not gonna change the feeling of betrayal. Even if you ask his/her permission to ask him/her on a date, the friendship just won't be the same.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

That's just not true. My friend dated my ex and they were great together. Our friendship is as strong as ever.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

df?? ask who for permission you gotta b kidding me right?? if they didn't feed you or clothe you since your diaper days then you ain't gotta ask no damn body for permission. A human being is not to be kept for a pet. Hell you can love anybody you damn well please. Now it will be wrong to wreck a marriage that's a no no...but if there's not a ring on either of the parties finger then chuck up the deuces and say bye bye cuz she don't run you or him. smh to basic females who think that you gotta ask for permission... hilarious :D

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Mostly no, but in the case of them being an ex for a very good reason, any sane friend will keep their distance.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

So, two years ago my friend dated a guy for like two weeks. She now has a boyfriend she's happy with and they've been dating for over year now. You're saying it's wrong for me to date her ex?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

hunny you can date him...she don't own you or him...if she get's mad then you know what she ain't your friend anyways...she with someone else so why the hell would she care who with...she not in his bed no more

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You don't own the person, they are allowed to like/date whoever the hell they want.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Ha I'm going out with my ex's best friend. LOL

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Hahaha meeee tooo.. n i'm happily in love and getting engaged :D

by Anonymous 12 years ago

My boyfriend of over 2 years dated 2 of my other friends before me, and they are both completely fine with it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

"No matter what the circumstances" ...What if your friend set you up with her ex? It would be weird and unlikely, but it would definitely be okay, eh?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

If your friend cried over their ex, you should have the courtesy to tell them how you feel or ask if it's okay for you two to date. But if they're not okay with it then they can just get over it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

A "friend" of mine dated a guy casually a year ago, cheated on him then broke up with him. I've been going out with him for the last six months and to be honest, I don't really care whether she approves or not. It's a-okay to me.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

ok fuck you guys nevermind the damn post i u guys are finding loopholes and shit that werent even in the effing post jeez

by Anonymous 12 years ago

lol

by Anonymous 12 years ago

But you said "No matter the circumstances." That means every single situation. Other people are just pointing out some of those situations.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

They do not own them. So what if your friend got dumped by them, is that going to ban the relationships? What if you friend is an attention whore and dates a new guy everyday?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Im dating one of my exes best friends, to hell with right and wrong

by Anonymous 12 years ago

My friend cheated on her ex.. now he's mine and we've been together for over a year.. She doesn't give a fuck.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I'm dating my friends ex and it ruined our friendship. She got jealous (even though she has a new man) But to hell with her.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

who cares about it honestly?? It makes me sick how females can sit up and tell a sob story about how they love so and so and how pissed they are about they friend dating their ex. Well first of all, you can't tell nobody who they can and can not be with. You're not nobody's mother or father so keep your mouth closed. Second, if half the females who lost a good guy would stop playing around pretending all the dang time then they wouldn't have a problem keeping their men. I went through a situation except she was cheating on him. I tried to get them to compromise but ol girl just wouldn't keep her legs closed. She stayed open over time like a 7/11. Ha it made me laugh when she said i got her sloppy seconds when on the real I had him first. Now i got him again and we are both happily in love. I treat him with respect and I can say i love him more than i've ever loved him before not because she was with him but because that feeling never left. He was my first boyfriend at the age of 15. And as the saying goes when you love someone let it go when it comes back that's how you know. She truly lost out on a wonderful person all because she wanted her to have her cake and eat it too. If ...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You know, unless they never liked eachother. They dated a while before they decided it didn't feel right.

by Anonymous 12 years ago