+125 If a girl can admit that she's really smart/talented, then she's self confident. If a girl can admit that she's really attractive (even without being boastful), then she's a stuck up bitch, amirite?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I can't tell if you're saying this like it's true and you agree with it or if you're saying people think this...

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Yeah, it is worded a bit odd. I absolutely don't agree, to clarify. I just don't understand why it's so frowned upon to acknowledge being good looking.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

It's considered shallow. Same as choosing dates based solely on looks. As a civilisation, we're trying to convince people that brains are more important, but what happened was that any comment on your own looks is vain and unattractive.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

@Cuban_B okay then I agree with your post.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

"If a girl can admit that she's really smart/talented, then she's self confident." People don't think this; they think she's a know-it-all. And both are the same for guys.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

That's honestly never been the case for me. I'm not saying I'm the next fucking Einstein, but all my life most people would acknowledge my intellect, artistic capabilities, etc. if I were to mention it. Same with the guys. But as soon as I admit to my looks (or any other girl I've known ) I'm automatically full of myself.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I know that feeling, but people also see me as arrogant when I say I think I'm intelligent, even though a lot of people I know think the same of me. I never rub my looks or intelligence into anyone's face and never put other people down for their looks or intelligence, but still people seem to resent it when I bring it up.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

So youre attractive?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

That's not what I meant to say, but people generally think I am. I however see myself as myself, I am happy about my looks and wouldn't really change anything, but there are a lot of other girls I find attractive aswell.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I think it depends. If I say anything about my smarts or talents, people think of me as confident. In my experience, people only get called a know-it-all if they are cocky about it, or not as good as they think.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

That's true, but there are always people that just tend to be so insecure they feel like someone is a know-it-all or arrogant almost right away.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

If she can do either without developing an excessive ego or lording over others she is self confident. Otherwise she is a *****

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Nope. I'm not good looking but I'm intelligent. When I tell people I think I am, they're just like "You're such a fucking know-it-all it's so annoying I hate you so much. You arrogant prick."

by Anonymous 11 years ago

You need to hang out with better people.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

There's nothing wrong with being okay with yourself, even physically. To me, when a girl says, "I'm pretty", I hear an opinion (beauty is in the eye of the beholder, after all), that should not be treated any differently from saying, "I have brown hair." It's as though society wants everyone to feel awful about themselves. Bitch please.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Of course, "I have brown hair" is not an opinion, but it's merely what the person sees. She has brown hair? She has brown hair, it shouldn't bother you, let it be. She thinks she's pretty? It shouldn't bother you, let it be.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I always hate how you're a bitch if you think you're pretty. I mean there are all these songs about how girls are cute because they are shy, but why does a girl have to be insecure to be cute? I think as long as you don't look down on other's looks, finding yourself pretty is okay.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I think I'm pretty. And I am NOT shy about it. I probably annoy a lot of people. Whenever I hear that dumb One Direction song, I always comment along in my head because that song, like everything, is about me. "You;re insecure-" NO I AIN'T. "Not sure what for-" ME EITHER BITCH. "You're turning heads when you walk through the do-o-or" THINK I DON'T NOTICE? BABY I LIGHT UP YOUR WORLD LIKE NOBODY ELSE, THE WAY THAT I FLIP MY HAIR GETS YOU OVERWHELMED, AND WHEN I SMILE AT YOUR FACE ITS NOT HARD TO TELL, YEAH YOU KNOW, OH OH, YOU KNOW THAT I'M BEAUTIFUL! OH OH FUCK YEAH I'M SO BEAUTIFUL!!! Ok maybe I am a stuck-up bitch, but not all confident girls are like me.

by Anonymous 11 years ago