+128 Girls: the scariest thing you've ever done is let a guy eat you out for the first time. You felt so judged, amirite?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I was crying the whole time.. :/

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Then he's doing it wrong.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It is without a doubt not the scariest thing I've ever done. But it is quite nerve wracking.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Why?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Why to which part?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Why was it nerve wracking?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Oh well I'm quite self-conscious and I was pretty young. It was just a really new experience. After that first time it was not nearly so nerve wracking. Though sexual stuff in general is nerve wracking for me now (but that's not relevant so...).

by Anonymous 12 years ago

For some reason I now feel like watching porn.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

That seems...disgusting

by Anonymous 12 years ago

...but what's funny is that we not long ago established that the average age on this site is around 14-15 years old...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

well there is a big enough audience to make like 3 shows about 16 year olds being pregnant on MTV alone.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Well, yeah. But it's still sad everyone's losing their innocence so quickly. In 50 years it will be just normal to have 10 year olds doing it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

True it is sad that nowadays if you are a virgin by age 18 you are practically a minority.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Well, it's been like that since pre 2000 BC, so I guess it's not really "nowadays". Seriously. You were expected to have a man by 15.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I was taught it was because they didn't generally live long but I could be wrong.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Of course you were. Thing is, children have been becoming sexually mature at steadily *younger* ages. A few hundred years ago it was not uncommon for a woman to have her first period at 18.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I was also taught that. Then again, my school district isn't the best. Another reason why they had children at such a young age was because, well, there wasn't much else to a woman's life back then. They didn't go to college, thy didn't get jobs. They were expected to stay home. Nowadays is so different. We have more time to have kids and we have more opportunities to take advantage of that time. In my opinion, there's no rush to have kids or sex.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yeah, the time of people not losing their virginity earlier 15-17 was like 150 years out of the entirety of human existence.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

What do you mean by "nowadays"? At what point in history were most teenagers not having sex?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

implying they aren't. Ah, female naivety. Honestly, it's almost cute, in a "5-year-old sincerely thinks she'll grow up to be a princess" sort of way.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I don't think it's too far-fetched of an idea to wait to have sex until marriage... that's what I'm going to do. Also, my opinion has nothing to do with my being female. That made no sense, Anon. More like, 'user who's too scared to say their name because they know they're wrong.'

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You're so stereotypically female, it's amazing. Humans are sexual by nature, why deny instinct until some social landmark (which is generally in the mid-to-late 20's at the earliest, which is past male's sexual prime). And in regards to your previous comment, it depends on what you consider "doing it". Most boys are sexually aware starting around 4th grade, or age 10. Obviously age differs a bit here, but once boys become sexually aware they start, um, "experimenting".

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I am aware of the fact that humans are sexual by nature. That doesn't mean kids should be acting on these impulses. There's nothing wrong with waiting to save yourself until marriage. Also, that's really sexist. But you know that already, so why bring it up?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

No, it's not sexist. Unless of course biology is sexist. You will never find a guy who agrees with you who has the biological ability to make babbies because the moment they can that's their only true goal in life. Why shouldn't they act on them? The single biggest purpose in life is pursuit of happiness, and our bodies are hardwired for sexual stimulation to be one of the most positive feelings possible. Are you saying they should be unhappy to fit (hypocritical) societal norms? And here's my user, i tend to avoid showing it during discussions of controversial topics so i don't get angry messages, etc. for having an opposing viewpoint.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Oh hey Beinganonymous. I just don't like how you're using "ooh females!" so loosely. It's just bothersome. But anyway. It's not just girls waiting, guys wait too. It's just a personal choice of resisting bodily urges. I don't care, do what you want with your body. I'm saving mine for someone special.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I understand your point, but very few males wait until marriage, jussayin. Study after study has shown that literally 100% of men have masturbated at least once by age 18. My main problem with your viewpoint is that I feel it is safe to assume it is based on your religious beliefs, which it is worth noting, were written at a time when it was highly uncommon to not be married by the age of 14 or 15.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Masturbation isn't a problem with me. It's having sex with someone else. And yeah, I see your point. But I'm still going to wait.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Which brings us back to the female point. Females are naturally (much) more jealous than men (evolutionary mechanism to maintain male presence for protection) and find the idea of sharing a sexual partner, regardless of how long ago, a much bigger deal than men (who biologically want to impregnate as many women as possible)

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I don't believe in waiting for marriage for myself, but other people (yes there are males who want to wait for marriage) should be allowed to make that choice for themselves without being judged for it. HIV can take up to 6 months to detect. Also way to be a sexist arsehole.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

"arseholes" aren't sexist, everyone has them. Dick would have been a much better word choice. :)

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I love how in this sentence you're basically saying all dudes are sexist, which is, in fact, sexist.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

The age that people have sex is not getting lower. It's actually much higher. In the middle ages girls as young a seven were married and even recently in the 1950s a lot of girls got married before graduating high school. Teen sex is not exactly a new phenomena.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yes, but they were getting married first. Committing themselves to that one person forever. Teens now are just doing it with every boyfriend and getting married in their 20s.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

How is that any different? It's not like people are having sex any more than they used to. Having sex with your spouse is no different from having sex with the person you are dating.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

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by Anonymous 12 years ago

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by Anonymous 12 years ago

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by Anonymous 12 years ago

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by Anonymous 12 years ago

Why? I find it hard to believe that you'd be self-conscious about that area, or that any guy would really care at that point (You're having sex, shut the fuck up).

by Anonymous 12 years ago

What's hard to believe? It's a very common thing to be concerned about. Do I look weird? Do I smell? Does it taste bad? Am I groomed properly? Does he like it? Do I kiss him afterwards? Also, it doesn't always lead to sex.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

That is EXACTLY what was going through my mind the first time. I couldn't even enjoy it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yeah, me either. I was so caught up in my own paranoia that I couldn't focus on any of the sensations. :/

by Anonymous 12 years ago

The discussion above should read Brave New World by Aldous Huxley.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Reading some of the middle comments about waiting or not waiting for marriage. I think you should wait. Don't you want your husband/wife to know that even when you were younger, you were thinking about them and that you were saving the most special part of you for the one person you marry? Or don't you want to know that they wanted to save it just for you?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Personally I don't care.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I don't get this whole "saving" thing. Sex isn't really something you can keep, give away, or lose so I don't understand how you are supposed to "save" it. Personally, I believe that practice makes perfect so I have no problem with my future husband getting it on. Also, what if you don't want to get married anyway?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Not to say that sex isn't special, but saying that someone's sexuality is the most special part of them just doesn't seem right. What about their personality or their interests and character?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Personality, interests and character are always important. But those are things I share with my grandma. Sex is something only my husband should enjoy from me.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Okay, yeah. I see what you're saying now.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

What's the difference between having sex and "losing your virginity"?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Your hymen (it's actually called a corona) doesn't necessarily break the first time you have sex. For one thing, it doesn't break, it just wears or stretches. It can stretch when you ride horses, do gymnastics, stretch, have sex, or or go running. If you do rip something major in your vagina the first time you have sex, you should see a doctor ASAP. That's not supposed to happen.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

SIT ON MY FACE

by Anonymous 12 years ago

:D eating a girl out FTW:D

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I love your enthusiasm XD

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Thank you:D

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I wasn't worried at the time, but after reading everyone else's concerns here, now I kind of am...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

the first time i ate a girl out it was nasty. not doing that again

by Anonymous 12 years ago

SHAME ON YOU!!!

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You'd think it would be if you were blowing a guy he'd be judging you. If he's blowing you then, you're in charge.

by Anonymous 12 years ago