Breast augmentation procedures are generally not preformed on anyone under 16. You can't put implants into a still-developing body.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

No way I love big tits

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Don't be that kid.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Makes the bitch less ugly, amirite?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

They're full of it. No doctor who wants to keep his medical license would give a 14 year old implants, even with parental permission.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

And instead of helping the poor child, you whine about it on amirite.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

not like OP knows the chick personally, and if they did they wouldn't be able to do much about it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

If there were a child neighbour who is in depression and wants to cut themselves, but you've never spoken to them or their parents, is it all right not to do shit about it? No. Get over the uncomfortable feeling of talking to a stranger and say what you have to say.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

it's none of your business in the first place. For one you could have it completely wrong, since you don't know them, like, at all. It's fine to step in and help if you feel the need to, but seriously, it's for the kid's family and friends to deal with. You don't have an obligation to deal with it if you don't know the person or what they're going through.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It's none of your business, eh? A person is suffering, and no one but you knows about it. You're the only one who even CAN help, and you choose to ignore that and let the person be, just because you don't know them? Hey, look, a person is standing on a bridge ready to jump, you're the only one around BUT YOU DONT KNOW THEM, so pass on by and let them fucking kill themselves, because talking to strangers is too damn uncomfortable.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

you're totally missing the point. No stranger should be required to help someone they don't know, and have no idea what the person's been through or is about to do. It's got nothing to do with someone's personal pride or the fact that they don't care solely because they don't know the person. I respect strangers who do try to help someone in danger out of genuine concern, but it's perfectly acceptable to mind your own business since you probably don't know what's going on. The person has people that can help. At the very most in that type of situation, if you actually felt the need to, you tell a loved one about your suspicions. But otherwise being directly involved could be seen as rude or nosy since it's, again, NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I didn't specify how to help them, even calling a counselor or talking to the parents is enough, one doesn't need to get //directly// involved, but if you see something incredibly stupid that may ruin someone's life you should help them; it's only right. I, for one, //would// directly get involved and I would shout at the stupid 14 year old mentioned here, but there are plenty of other ways. How can you just ignore something awful like this happening?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

for the last time, because I don't KNOW the person, I don't want to mess something up by making a false accusation because I don't KNOW the person, and because the person probably wouldn't want COMPLETE STRANGERS getting involved. You make it sound so heartless for simply not wanting to get involved in someone's life that you have no business to be investigating in the first place. And it definitely seemed like you were implying 'getting directly involved' in your previous comments.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You, on the other hand, make it sound so invasive and inappropriate to try to help someone from ruining their life while you have the full responsibility if you can TELL no one else knows about this. And yes, getting directly involved is what I would do, so it's easy for me to accidentally imply that in my suggestions. "Hey counsellor, [name] could be depressed, I don't know exactly since I'm no psychologist, but you might want to check on him" does absolutely no harm and offends no one. Don't you think it's better to be mistaken about a person and need to say a small apology, instead of being right about it and doing nothing and seeing the horrible consequences which //you// could've prevented. It's like that post with a friend who committed suicide, and finding out that this friend had called 5 times before. It makes one feel like this could've been prevented with a simple conversation. It's not hard and it's not invasive. You're the one who's blowing this way out of proportion, since this is just a few words to a stranger.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

If you don't know the person at all there's almost no way to tell who else knows about it, because, c'mon, if others did know about it, it's not like they'd be totally public about it. It could be a completely private affair, because, I dunno, they don't want strangers interfering with it. Your hypotheticals are becoming way too specific to be accurate.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Could be, or could be unknown to anyone but you. Would you take the chance of being the cause of someone's ruined life? Being embarrassed for a few minutes if you're mistaken is not an excuse for this.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

How are you comparing a fourteen year old getting breast implants to someone who is suicidal? They're not the same thing.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I'm just taking an extreme example of the same situation. It's still a person making a stupid decision while you could help with just a few words.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

it's got nothing to do with embarrassment, for the last time! It has to do with sticking your nose in someone else's business and screwing things up even more because you've got no place in the matter in the first place.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Well, in my personal experience I didn't know anyone who could've talked to me or understood me, so I would have LOVED any stranger who seems to understand to try and help me, and try and stick their nose in my business. Everyone close to me didn't know shit about what I going through, and if they were to try to help me //that// would "screw things up even more" since they're the most irrelevant person for the situation.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

as far as my personal experiences go (with me and others), I find it annoying when I'm having a hard time and someone I don't know starts talking to me about it. I appreciate them trying to help but they don't know what's going on and they don't know how to relate.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yeah, because your situation is a group thing so everyone in the group knows about it and can talk to one another, and it's rare for strangers to experience a group thing like that too. But in my case it's an individual thing that many people go through but your family and friends might have not, and so it's a higher chance for strangers to be able to help you instead of family members.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

... you lost me about halfway through that train of thought.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Sorry, I tend to not notice when I'm confusing. I was saying that mine was individual and none of my family understood or had any experience, so it was higher chance that a stranger understands (50%) rather than one who is definitely ignorant of the situation, (0%). In your case, it's the opposite and since it's a group experience it's higher chance for one of your close friends or family to know (100%) rather than a stranger (50%).

by Anonymous 12 years ago

wow, i cant believe people arent willing to help those in need simply because they dont know them! I'm with you all the way, i agree!

by Anonymous 12 years ago

"If there were a child neighbour who is in depression and wants to cut themselves, but you've never spoken to them or their parents" But how would you know what they are feeling if you've never spoke to them?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Why are you being such a prick?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Please tell me you're kidding and that a fourteen-year-old isn't actually getting breast augmentation surgery. But if she is, is her mom like one of those psychotic pageant moms?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

haha its all good guys, the surgeon refused to perform it because she was underaged, which is a relief because it would be pretty disgusting IMHO

by Anonymous 12 years ago

The only reason I can see a 14 year old getting implants is because of breast cancer or something.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

the only reason i disagreed is because it's her choice...regardless of how she turns out to be.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Whoa kids, youve got this all the wrong way.... its a 14 year old boy.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Is that even safe? Or legal?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

her chest her choice

by Anonymous 12 years ago

http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100124034711AAWig5l

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Anyone else crying bullshit on this post?

by Anonymous 12 years ago