+768 A girl who has been best friends with a guy since 6th grade has more claim over him than his girlfriend of three weeks, amirite?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You're just jealous

by Anonymous 12 years ago

When you yell at him for hanging out with me it would appear as if you're the jealous one.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

This is interesting to watch

by Anonymous 12 years ago

since when do girls "have claim" over guys?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

That's a good point, and you're right I should have worded it better. What I'm trying to see though is if people agree with me that it is unfair that a girlfriend of 3 weeks is trying to say we can't hang out anymore because now she is dating him.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Actually after reading my last comment and comparing it to my post I just realized that I could have worded it a lot better.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I think that you should be able to hang out, but you should also recognize when it is her time to be with him, because she is his girlfriend.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Of course I expect him to hang out with her, and I don't try to limit them hanging out. However, I don't think it's fair for her to try and limit him hanging out with me.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I don't think it's right for her to tell him who to hang out with, and it makes her look insecure. You're right, this isn't worded the best, but overall I agree. How does she expect him to drop his best friend like that? Has he even talked to her about it?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yeah, he's talked to her, but she pulls the, "Well I'm your girlfriend," card. It's because she thinks that I am jealous of her and I'm going to try to steal him, but honestly we're just really good friends who happen to be of the opposite sex.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

He needs to grow some balls and pit his foot down. Then say "look bitch that's my best friend and I'm not giving her up!" I'm kidding :D but I'm sure this won't be the last time you guys come across needy jealous girlfriends, it'll be fine ...I hope

by Anonymous 12 years ago

so much truth in this post

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Anybody wondering...ohhhh I don't know, WHAT GRADE THEY ARE IN AT THE TIME? Maybe its a week into the 6th grade. Damn straight shes got more claim. Dumb bitch.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Obviously it's not a week into 6th grade; it's nearing the end of December. And it's quite clear in this post that they've known each other for years. It's morons like yourself that give fifteen-year-old boys like myself a bad name.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Haha. For one, the poster never actually says its themselves. Its a hypothetical situation, meaning it could occur at any time of the year. And the post is very barren on any information on how long they've known him. Its morons like yourself that give intelligent people like myself amusement.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It's not hypothetical, if you read the earlier comments you'd know that.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It's not hypothetical, if you read the earlier comments you'd know that.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

1. I don't read comments unless they're replies. I make comments. 2. The post was made by an anon fag, as was the comment. That's like using Wikipedia for a source in a debate. Sure, its probably true/accurate. But give me the chance, I have the ability to say bullshit, and then I win. 3. Really? You voted up your own post, used a near identical named proxy to vote it up again, and most likely signed out to vote up anonymously too? Sad. And obvious. And kinda desperate. 4. And didn't my comment mention that the post lacked the info they should have supplied? Not enough for you? Goodness you're tedious to communicate with.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

The only thing that your comment proves is that you're quite the dick. After skimming your bio, I've decided you're just a bad troll.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Daww, I think it proves a little bit more than that. It proves I'm a dick, and that "Bring_Me_FRITOS" isn't as clever as me, it proves "morons like myself make 15 year olds like him look bad" incorrect, seeing as how I'm not dumb. And the comments on this post in general prove that people care about petty disputes among relationships and friendships, when they're so small and insignificant. Last time I checked, amirite wasn't a place for releasing stress and telling about your problems. Lets leave that at least to the messages rather than the posts.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Amirite is a place for opinions to be judged. This is an opinion. It obviously belongs on this site. As for your being smarter, your argument is "I'm smarter" and "I don't read comments", both of which are pretty idiotic things to say. And your opinion on relationships proves that you have not and likely will never in one.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Wait, wait, what is this "this" you speak of. The post? The post is a perfectly fine post in terms of being something that people should judge and vote on, and certainly does belong. And I quote, sorry for making you reread, "And the comments on this post in general prove that people care about petty disputes among relationships and friendships, when they're so small and insignificant. Last time I checked, amirite wasn't a place for releasing stress and telling about your problems". My problems was with the comments, true they're opinions, but poor, hardly pertinent to real life or anything interesting, and certainly not worth anyone's time to even consider judging. "I'm smarter" was a response to him calling me a moron, which was proven correct with the above comments. "I don't read comments" was a fact stated to aid in expressing one of the reasons why his argument that said the poster had included information, was poppy cock. If you truly want to jump into a discussion, perhaps you should first look up what "argument" means, because what you thought was mine was certainly wrong. See first comment of this chain.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

The comments, save for your irrelevant trolling, are all discussion on the post, which by the rules are perfectly fine as well. Again, you say "I'm smarter" and point to your comment that says "I'm smarter" as proof, meaning you lack any logic. I don't care what "I don't read comments" references, because regardless it proves a disregard for anything besides your own idiocy. Also, argument references any statement contradictory to what is said elsewhere.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

See? I told you he's a troll.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Ok, you can use the ctrl-f feature for this mind fuck. "By the rules perfectly fine" > "the comments, true they're opinions, but poor, hardly pertinent to real life or anything interesting..." "you say "I'm smarter" and point to your comment that says "I'm smarter" as proof, meaning you lack any logic" > "I'm smarter" was a response to him calling me a moron" The not reading comments isn't me showing anything but my lack of interest in peoples thoughts prior to my entering a comment thread. I read the posts, where the real entertainment and interest is in. That was my point with that. And your last sentence wasn't interesting or obvious in what its goal was, so I'll ignore/disregard it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I'm still not finding the reason in your comment, so I'll just wait until you start making sense to anyone beside yourself.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Actually, I would like to state that, even though Seth is incredulously annoying, he has a point in what he had said. You started the argument over something that... Well, wasn't what you thought in the first place! Even if I want you to be right, Seth is the right one.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

No, I started the argument that he's a judgmental ass with a highly over-inflated opinion of himself and his intelligence (or more specifically, the lack thereof).

by Anonymous 12 years ago

... Well I guess you are right.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It's either that or like Anon said, he's a troll.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Dude, you lost. Just shut up now.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You're a prick. That is all.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

We are seniors. I'm sorry you weren't intelligent enough to infer that we are older than 6th graders.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I think you're just supposed to insinuate the meaning. It's not kindergarten, they don't need to spell it out for you.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Personally I think the guy should be able to make up his own mind on who to hang out with, and no-one should decide that for him.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I agree, which is why it makes me upset that his girlfriend is trying to tell him that we shouldn't hang out anymore.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

This is a tough situation. Consider talking to both your friend and his girlfriend. If your friend does not or refuses to listen, maybe it's time to get a new friend. If the girl does not listen, ignore her. Karma will bite her ass sooner or later. Also, if she's wine of those obscure, idiotic, insecure bitches who don't know two things about anything, don't bother. She will go away eventually. In Ny case, stay passive and behind the scenes. It won't do if you make a big deal out of it, because you're not going to end up any better than your friends girlfriend.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I too wonder what grade they are in. They could perhaps be in the 6th grade, or barely into 7th grade which would render her "claim" moot.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

We're seniors.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

He can do whatever the fuck he wants. If that's forget about a friend to be with his girlfriend, so be it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I'm that girlfriend right now. Well I was three weeks after we started dating. My boyfriend had been best friends with this girl and two other guys for ever, they were practically family. Around the same time, two of the guys started dating girls, and they didn't spend all their time together like they did before. But you can't blame the girl. I always encouraged him to go over to her house. But I can't make him if he decides he wants to be with me.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I will blame her when she tells him that we shouldn't hang out anymore because, that is super controlling, and she's ignoring the fact that he's had friendships before her; and I don't care at all that he hangs out with her, in fact I expect that. However, he still has a right to hang out with me as well without her getting jealous and suspicious.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I was the friend 3 months ago, and now I'm the ex best friend. he obviously chose what he wanted to choose.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Both of you call his name and see which one he goes to.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

This depends on how long he's liked the other girl, and how serious they are. He obviously thinks of you differently, and different relationships have different roles. If he's spending more time with her, it's most likely because he likes spending time with her. If you're really a good friend you'll want him to be happy.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

He's liked her for a month before they started dating, however that is only an assumption on my part because they met a month before they started dating. I know he thinks of me only as a friend, and that's exactly how I think of him. I don't mind at all that he's spending more time with her because that is what I expect. I'm not upset at him at all, I was upset with his girlfriend because she has yelled at him for hanging out with me. If she was really a good girlfriend she would have enough faith in him, and their relationship to be able to trust us together.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Ya, that is pretty dumb of her. And if he liked her for much longer before they met, that's either creepy or he couldn't have really liked her. This explanation helps :)

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I think it's valid if she's a little insecure. Their relationship was young and new and obviously she didn't know where you and the guy were standing. If she's just a natural bitch, then it's a different story. But maybe they needed to build some trust in their relationship first before she could fully accept you. Because I know, even after 3 years I would be a teeny bit jealous if my boyfriend had a best girlfriend. Not that I would scream and shout. And it's not because I don't trust him, I think I'm just afraid of what feelings could develop if they spend so much time together. Luckily I am his best friend.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You seem to be more controlling and into the problem than the girlfriend. I was in the same situtation as you before and I just ignored the girl and so did my friend.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

No you don't have more "claim" over him then his own girlfriend. The keyword here being GIRLFRIEND they are dating you two are not dating therefore the girl he is dating should obvs have more claim over him than some other girl. Besides when a guy and a girl are in a relationship the girlfriend should become his best female friend.

by Anonymous 12 years ago