Greed. Some people aren't satisfied with just one partner. They want a little of this, and a little of that.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Guys want sex. Does that answer your question.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

No, because not all guys cheat and girls cheat too, also there are guys who are getting regular sex with their girlfriends who cheat.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I really hate when people think they can speak for an entire group. You're trying to make everyone seem like a bad person.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

every guy cheats or has cheated, its a fact.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

^ "god" Even guys who have never dated before?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

For a cat, you're kind of smart.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I don't think anyone goes an looks for someoe else while theyre already in a relationship, they just don't say no to an opertunity . Don't get me wrong, I think cheating is completely wrong. But people don't plan to go cheat on someone.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

There are some people that actually do go looking for people to cheat with. There's a girl that I know, with a boyfriend, who asked my boyfriend how she could cheat without getting caught.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

well there are exceptions to everything i guess. thats ten times worse, and very disturbing.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

and sorry for my horrible spelling and grammar.. i was on my phone.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Why did she specifically ask your boyfriend?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Maybe they're not unhappy with their relationship nor looking for someone else. People can want to try something different without wanting to give up what they already have. It's weird how nobody seems to understand that.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Isn't that completely horrible to the person they're in the relationship with?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Well yeah, it's pretty widely accepted that cheating is a bad thing, but the post is implying people do it for no reason whatsoever.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I think they were implying no "good" reason. Like, no logical, legitimate reason. Like, 'because they want sex" is a reason, as you see someone posted above, but it's completely stupid.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Right, but the desire to sleep with someone else without losing your partner is a very good reason to cheat, it makes you a cunt yes, but if you are in that situation, then cheating is a potential resolution to your problem. The point here isn't whether cheating is wrong, otherwise the post would say "cheating is wrong" and we'd all have agreed, it's whether there's a genuine reason why one person would cheat on someone else, which there is.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I don't think it's a good reason If you don't want to lose your partner, it means you care about them. If you care abotu them, why would you cheat on them?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Because you want to have sex with someone else, are you just ignoring my comments? This post is heavily implying that the only reason anyone ever has for cheating is that they're unhappy with their relationship, which is not the case, there //are// reasons why people cheat, otherwise people wouldn't cheat!

by Anonymous 11 years ago

But if you want to have sex with someone else regardless of the fact that it will hurt your partner, you don't really care about them. So there's no reason they shouldn't just break up with their partner if they clearly don't care enough about them to avoid doing something that would obviously hurt them.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

ignorance is bliss. They can't get hurt if they never know.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Cheating on someone doesn't mean you don't care about them, it means that you don't have a lot of self control.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

But your original point was that they might cheat because "they're not unhappy with their relationship nor looking for someone else." That has nothing to do with just having a weak will. If you want sex and aren't happy in your relationship but don't want a new relationship, you can easily break up with your partner and look for someone else who'd want a one night stand or a purely physical relationship.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

How exactly did you figure out that those two points weren't related? Okay, this is Dave, say hello. Dave is in a relationship with his girlfriend Megan, and he loves her dearly, he'd like to spend the rest of his life with her. Unfortunately, like many humans, Dave has noticed that there are other people out there besides Megan, and he finds many of them attractive. In particular, a girl he knows, named Lauren. Lauren has expressed a sexual attraction to Dave, and told him that she would have a one night stand with him if he wanted, and keep it a secret. Dave finds Lauren sexually attractive, but he loves Megan, and does not want to break up with her, nor hurt her by cheating on her. If however he does eventually cheat on her, it doesn't mean he loves her any less, it just means that he did not have the willpower to resist sleeping with a girl he wanted to sleep with. How are you not getting this point?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

That's not the same as being unhappy in his relationship. He wanted to sleep with some other girl, but if he loved his girlfriend, he should have been happy with his relationship. If he was unhappy with his relationship for more than a little bit, he wouldn't have been having such strong feelings for Lauren for so long. And if he doesn't respect Megan enough to be loyal to her, he clearly doesn't love her the way he thinks he does.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Wanting to have sex and wanting something you don't have are both human fucking nature! You can be happy with one person and like another, because it's possible to find more than one person in the world attractive. It's not about whether Dave respected Megan, it's about whether Dave had a reason to cheat, and he did! He wanted to have sex with someone who he wanted to have sex with, but he was still in love with someone who he was still in love with. But seeing as you're so eager to ignore everything I'm saying, let's read the post together. "There's no reason for a person to ever cheat." There is. "If someone is unhappy with their relationship" They don't need to be. "They look for someone else" They don't. "They should just break up with their partner" Unless they're happy with their partner. and just a heads up, it your next comment is just you making the same 'point' you've made for every comment so far, I'll probably stop replying.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

If he doesn't respect her, how can he say he loves her? And if he doesn't love her and wants someone else, he should break up wiht her. If they're happy with their relationship and their partner, why would they want to risk hurting someone they love by cheating? Because they're horny? Wanting something you know is wrong isn't a reason for doing it. I'd gladly have you stop replying.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Oh my God fangirl -.-

by Anonymous 11 years ago