+197 It would be great if sexual orientation didn't exist. It wouldn't matter if you were male, female, or anything in between (transgender, transsexual, etc.), love would be love, and there wouldn't be sexuality related bully problems, amirite?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Don't you mean sex would be sex? That's the only thing that stands out for gay people. If they loved each other, it would be OK. It's the sex that makes it uncomfortable for people. Mention that, not all the bullshit about love.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Sex is called making LOVE, is it not?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Don't be so emotional. Sex is mating. Nothing else. Humans needed to make something out of it to feel in control. If you go to the basics of humanity, no, sex is not making love.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Sorry to bring religion into this, but I was raised to believe that sex is something that two people have when they love each other, just as the Goddess and God do every year.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

@StanleyBVB, what religion is that?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

If you believe in Gods and Goddesses, then we might have a problem communicating. I don't believe in religion.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

You can't just throw out sexual orientation. You can try to achieve a point at which people don't give a rat's ass about it, but everyone will still have one.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

So basically you're saying that it would be great if everyone was bi. Yeah, I suppose.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

There's a difference between sexual orientation and romantic orientation. Most people don't seem to realize this. Your sexual orientation doesn't have to do with who you fall in love with, just who you find sexually attractive. Asexual people have no desire to have sex, but they still can fall in love. This post and several of the comments on here implied that the two are the same, but they aren't. Just wanted to put that out there.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

If sexual orientation didn't exist... no

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I'd just like to point at that most transgender and transsexual people are male or female. They usually do ID as a man or woman. I think the term you mean is "non-binary gender", who do not always ID as transgender or transsexual (since the "trans" part means to cross, implying you're going from one gender label to another). The idea that transsexuals are not the gender they ID as, but something else is... problematic for most binary trans people. Err, it's complex. "Non-binary gender" is probably the best term to use, but it's awesome that you thought to include other genders anyway! :D

by Anonymous 11 years ago

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hBWa3n0_-Q

by Anonymous 11 years ago