My friend complained about her relationship about a month before she broke up with her boyfriend. It's just being decisive. She liked him a lot beforehand, and then he started getting sort of clingy, which really doesn't work for her, and it was just hard for her to decide. As long as you're not the type to rant about your boyfriend and then get insulted when someone questions why you're together, I don't mind.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Yeah I get that. I'm talking about those really annoying couples who all they do is complain.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

When all they do is complain, they're looking for help most likely.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Or to get attention.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Or, to get help. I don't know why they would complain about their relationship for attention when they could complain about their appearance.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Because they complain on person... He treats me like shit. Blablab

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Then they're asking you for help! They want to be encouraged to break up with them. Maybe they're unsure.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Then you tell them to break up& they deserve better, & they stay together. And then keep complaining. That's not askin for help.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Yes, it is. They need to be pushed because they're unsure of what to do and they're not sure if it's worth staying together or breaking up. Relationships are hard. You think it's just as simple as, "Well, I don't like them. I guess I'll just break up with them." It takes time and thought and sometimes the input of others, which is where you come in.

by Anonymous 11 years ago