+16 It does stink when people won't forgive us, but it's still their right to choose to do so. After all, we did wrong them, amirite?

by Anonymous 7 years ago

Well just cuz you said sorry doesn't mean you wronged them

by Anonymous 11 years ago

hmm what's the exception?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Like saying sorry just to make the arguement/fight end, even though you weren't in the wrong

by Anonymous 11 years ago

hmm but this isn't about saying sorry it's about the other party forgiving forgiveness doesn't require an apology

by Anonymous 11 years ago

But what if they don't forgive you after you say sorry just to end the fight/arguement

by Anonymous 11 years ago

well if they're not forgiving you it's because they feel you've wronged them and it's again in their right to choose to forgive you

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Or it's because they're stubborn as hell, that's why they won't forgive you

by Anonymous 11 years ago

even if they're stubborn they feel they've been wrong and it's their choice to forgive

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Yeah! I just can't forgive people who won't forgive! https://ih1.redbubble.net/image.13500209.8109/sticker,220x200-pad,220x200,ffffff.u2.jpg

by Anonymous 7 years ago

hehehehe

by Anonymous 7 years ago

I try not to get people that mad but if i do, I apologize . Then it is their problem to hold a grudge, well unless it was a really awful thing.

by Anonymous 7 years ago

You can do what you think is right. If they don't respond the ball is in their court.

by Anonymous 7 years ago

Choice is a right, having the right to choose is what allows us to differ from each other, however, choosing the right thing to do is not always easy, the effort it takes to forgive is often enough to scare people away from doing so, caring to do the right thing is caring for your reputation.. we are consistently choosing to leave legacies behind.. people will look back and remember you as the one who "couldn't muster the strength to forgive," and, this is not the legacy that the wise leave, instead you realize that your name is attached to your decisions and that forgiving allows peace to reign once again, and allows people to say of you, "they cared to forgive and restore peace," and it's peacemakers that we are called to be in this life.. of course it is because holding onto grief destroys your life!

by Anonymous 7 years ago