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<b>Sometimes I get tired of being kind and nice...</b><em>how about you...</em>

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Sometimes I get tired of being kind and nice...how about you...

Explained by Sukiesnow...

Being mean and miserable has a lot going for it...but the problem is...like as in karma...those comments can come back to haunt you... Ha. Let's discuss the ongoing struggle to maintain a balance of nice and nasty... meanwhile standing up for yourself and supporting the person you really are....

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A long time ago I was labeled America's Sweetheart...Always being kind and nice to the entire world. Something I have learned is that I am am not allowed to have a God Damn bad day ever or say what is on my mind or stand up for myself...if I do then I am lectured about how I am not supposed to be like that, I am not sleeping enough or eating right or whatever.

If I say one thing out of the way to anyone who sometimes deserves it...I am the **** bad guy...again another lecture comes. I am always expected to be this illuminating ray of sparkling sunshine but the thing is...I do have bad days or times where I wanna stand up for myself but I am not supposed to show it or I am just supposed to smile and wait for karma to settle it...because the expectations are set I am to be nice and kind 24/7.

So yes to answer your question...I do get sick and tired of always being kind and nice 24/7. I don't want to be mean 24/7 either...I just get tired of having to hide how I feel when I ain't really feeling kind and nice.

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Lil_Princess Lil_Princess

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Nooo.
Being mean and miserable, makes you mean and miserable.

Shouldnt have to force being kind, though. If someone doesnt deserve kindness, then honesty is your best bet.

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Carla Carla

In response to “Nooo. Being mean and miserable, makes you...

Carla! I'm tired of being nice! I want to be like Judge Judy.

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Sukiesnow Sukiesnow OP

In response to “Carla! I'm tired of being nice! I want to be...

Well, she IS brutaly honest.

SUKIESNOW!!!!

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Carla Carla

Never knew you were .....we live and learn...hehe

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JD JD

I'm better as ** or an inconsiderate **. (hehe)

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Synyster Synyster

If everyone likes you, you're not being real enough. (pce)

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Tiffanee Tiffanee

Honesty is the best way, but you can be kind as you are being honest. Unless the guy is a **! Then you just rip him a new **. Ha!

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Will_Janitor Will_Janitor

In response to “Honesty is the best way, but you can be kind...

"rip him a new ****"... I think I haven't heard that expression before. lol

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primeiro primeiro

A long time ago I was labeled America's Sweetheart...Always being kind and nice to the entire world. Something I have learned is that I am am not allowed to have a God Damn bad day ever or say what is on my mind or stand up for myself...if I do then I am lectured about how I am not supposed to be like that, I am not sleeping enough or eating right or whatever.

If I say one thing out of the way to anyone who sometimes deserves it...I am the **** bad guy...again another lecture comes. I am always expected to be this illuminating ray of sparkling sunshine but the thing is...I do have bad days or times where I wanna stand up for myself but I am not supposed to show it or I am just supposed to smile and wait for karma to settle it...because the expectations are set I am to be nice and kind 24/7.

So yes to answer your question...I do get sick and tired of always being kind and nice 24/7. I don't want to be mean 24/7 either...I just get tired of having to hide how I feel when I ain't really feeling kind and nice.

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Lil_Princess Lil_Princess

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Hon...sometimes I think I can't be any other way than kind and nice...it's just an instinctive reaction....

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Sukiesnow Sukiesnow OP

In response to “Hon...sometimes I think I can't be any other...

I can be the other way if pushed way to far but it takes a lot to bring me to the breaking point. I just get frustrated sometimes and the day I made that comment I was really frustrated.

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Lil_Princess Lil_Princess

In response to “I can be the other way if pushed way to far...

And that's why I made this post...sometimes being kind and nice can lead to frustration...

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Sukiesnow Sukiesnow OP

In response to “And that's why I made this post...sometimes...

Yes,yes it can. I am honestly glad ya made it. Great post, btw.

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Lil_Princess Lil_Princess

In response to “Yes,yes it can. I am honestly glad ya made...

Thank you for saying that...

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Sukiesnow Sukiesnow OP

In response to “Thank you for saying that...

Most welcome (smile)

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Lil_Princess Lil_Princess

Sometimes being nice gets you a kick in the gut.

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StarzAbove StarzAbove

In response to “Sometimes being nice gets you a kick in the gut.

Yes. Either now or later. I'm more clear now when I help people... "I'm doing this not just because I love you...but also because you've always been helpful to me in the past...and I thank you for that."

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Sukiesnow Sukiesnow OP

Everyone has a limit. I tend to avoid the internet when I'm in a bad mood though. Or if I use it, I keep on the happy stuff (funny/cute animals or funny people, for example).

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Sofia Sofia

Sometimes the fake smiling makes my face hurt. :)

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DW2 DW2

Having been in the food industry for a while. I truly hope that someday I will have the balls to walk up to a snooty, condescending, full fledged **** of a customer and say, "We gift wrapped one of our finest sharpest kitchen knives for you. Everybody here truly hopes that you simply use it to make the world a better place. Thank you for your patronage. You truly deserve this." :)

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DW2 DW2

I must have missed that....just my humour

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JD JD

According to some, I was never kind or nice to begin with... *shrug*

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TheCensoredBrit TheCensoredBrit

In response to “Neither am I.

Tell me something I don't already know.

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