7 Types of People Everyone Wishes Would Just Shut the **** Up

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7 Types of People Everyone Wishes Would Just Shut the **** Up

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7 Types of People Everyone Wishes Would Just Shut the **** Up Do you ever wish you could just tell someone to “shut the **** up?” They’re trying to talk like they’re a genius, when they are obviously as dumb as a doorknob. Or they’re trying to beef up their own credibility, so you’ll listen to their stupid advice. Or they’re bragging about some moronic thing that they did in the hopes that you’ll think they’re cool. But really, you just wish they would shut their freaking mouth. Know what I’m talking about? I’m guessing you do. In fact, I’m betting you go to extreme lengths to make sure no one thinks you’re one of these people. The last group you want to belong to is the Tribe of STFU, right? You couldn’t respect yourself. That’s a Mistake When you’re worried about other people telling you to STFU, several bad things happen when trying to gain social media stature: You only speak when you’re totally sure of yourself. You carefully measure how everyone will react. You make sure nothing you say will cause anyone to think less of you. You think this is smart. And to a certain extent, it is. If you want to get through life without anyone disliking you, then buttoning your bottom lip, keeping your eyes to yourself, and getting on with your business is the perfect strategy. But no one tells you that it’s also a good way to spend your life in fear. You can never say what you really think for fear that someone will disagree. You can never tell other people what they really need to know for fear that you’ll ruin your relationship with them. You’ll never get around to writing the book or blog you’ve been planning for fear that no one but you will think it’s important. Sure, everyone who knows you will like you, but not many will know you. The fear of “shut the **** up” will have driven you into mediocrity. It’ll crush any chance you ever had at greatness. Of course, what choice do you have? No, you don’t want to be a timid, mediocre writer, but you don’t want to be one of those people who doesn’t know when to shut their mouth either. How Do You Balance the Two? How do you say what you think without becoming a “know it all” who everyone wants to punch in the face? How can you make sure that other people will find you interesting instead of annoying? Well, you can’t. Mainly, it’s because you’re not omnipotent, and you’re not in control of what everyone else thinks. But you can avoid making some common mistakes. They’re so common, in fact, that they’ve all been turned into clichés. I’ve never seen anyone collect them all in one place before though, so just for your benefit, here they are: Type #1: People Who Are Too Big for Their Britches The people I most often want to shut the **** up are what my mother would call “too big for their britches.” They’re trying to sound smarter than they really are, pretending to know more than they really do, or acting like their life is better than it really is. They come off as phony, and it rubs everyone the wrong way. The truth: you can’t fake being an interesting person. If you find yourself feeling like you have to pretend, then the problem isn’t your writing. It’s you. Go spice up your life, and you’ll find it infinitely easier to write something other people want to read. Type #2: Snobs Who Look down Their Noses at Everyone Of course, you can take it too far. Some people have done so much that they seem to look down their noses at everyone. For them, it’s not a matter of trying to impress anyone. They genuinely believe they are superior. They’re the Michael Jordan of their industry, and no one comes anywhere close to matching their talent. What’s more, they make sure everyone else knows it. Every once in a while, I see beginning bloggers dipping into this mode. Usually, it’s a successful person that’s starting a blog, and they believe their achievements entitle them to continued attention. Big mistake. No one is entitled to attention, not even famous people like Oprah or Bill Gates. If it became obvious that they were looking down their noses at everyone, they’d lose huge portions of their audience. Type #3: Cold Fish For a medium that’s supposed to be about self-expression, most bloggers are surprisingly cold. Their writing reminds me of something I might’ve read in Biology 101. It sounds like they’re trying to impress the teacher with their knowledge, and they’ve forgotten that blogging isn’t writing an essay. It’s a conversational medium. To be conversational, you can’t be cold. You have to be warm, edgy, and most importantly, FUN. Type #4: Anyone Who Talks the Talk but Can’t Walk the Walk You know those people who are always talking about what they’re going to do, and what they’re saying sounds really good, but they never actually get around to doing it? After a little while, you stop believing them. If they keep it up, you eventually stop listening altogether. No one has time for someone who talks a good game but doesn’t back it up with action. The same goes for bloggers. All too often, I see folks talking about how they’re going to publish a free report, talking about how they’re going to write a book, talking about how they’re going to start a course, but they never get around to doing it. Your readers might not care too much, but other bloggers watch this type of thing. Do it long enough, and you’ll lose their respect, which is disastrous when you’re trying to grow a blog. Type #5: People Who Beat around the Bush Some residents of the Southern United States can be very sensitive about this one. To them, beating around the bush isn’t poor communication. It’s cultural heritage. You don’t just come out and say what you mean because, well, that’s “just not the way things are done ‘round here.” That’s nonsense. I’m from the South, currently living in the South, and I love my Southern heritage, but beat around the bush for more than a couple of minutes, and I’ll ignore you with the politest of Southern smiles. I don’t have time for figuring out what everyone means, online or otherwise. Either get to the point, or STFU. Type #6: Morons Talking Out Of The Wrong End Ever know someone who makes stuff up, just to have something to talk about? It doesn’t matter if the story actually happened. It doesn’t matter if their opinion is based on any sort of proof. It doesn’t matter if everyone in the room knows they’re full of crap. As long as it’s interesting, they’re going to tell you about it, sure enough. In short, they’re talking out of their ****. When you’re a blogger, it’s easy to make the same mistake. You start out with lots of stuff to write about, but sooner or later, the well just kind of runs dry. The problem is, your readers expect you to keep publishing on a regular basis, and that means finding something to write about. In a moment of desperation, you might be tempted to choose a topic you know is foolishness, just to keep your readers happy. Big mistake. Online, people are even less tolerant of BS than they are in real life. If you want them to listen to you, you’d better either say something that has at least some foundation in reality, or say nothing at all. Type #7: Long-Winded Gasbags Sometimes, it doesn’t matter how interesting you are. Talk for too long and people will resent you for using up their time, even if they enjoyed listening to you. They’ll also hesitate to connect with you in the future. The best rule of thumb: make your point as quickly as possible, and then shut your mouth. Your audience will appreciate it. That said, I think I’ll take my own advice…

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I wonder where the ****-hats, liars and blowhards fit in to those seven. Great summary!

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Wow! That has got to be close to a new record for explainations. Ha! I seem to attract people like that when I'm just sitting at a bar having a beer and watching the Brewers game. I used to put up with it, but now I just get up and walk away. I'm not wasting anymore of my life listening to motor mouths. :)

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Will_Janitor Will_Janitor

I wonder where the ****-hats, liars and blowhards fit in to those seven. Great summary!

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Budwick Budwick

I loved reading that. Thank ya for sharing.

Fantastic post (biggrin)

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Lil_Princess Lil_Princess

You talk too much.

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SmartAZ SmartAZ

That is the biggest wall of text. Not reading that shit.

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lizardqueen lizardqueen

In response to “That is the biggest wall of text. Not reading...

(I didn't write it, just reposted from someone else's article. Personally, I would have narrowed the whole article down to "shitheads" and "****".)

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trooper trooper OP

And the eighth: shallow people.

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Masha Masha

There's another annoying type I didn't see in your list: The hypocrite who does not recognize their own hypocrisy. You see this all the time with liberals--they tell everybody else what they should do, and then go and act in disregard to their own demands. You see this all the time with celebrities who complain that we need to take away everybody's guns and then they surround themselves with armed security people. Or guys like Al Gore who preached for years about we have to decrease our carbon output and he lives in a mansion that spews it and flies around in his private jet belching it out! Or George Clooney last week who tells everybody there should be no limits on immigration, but he's moving out of Great Britain now because he doesn't like the immigrants that are coming in over there.

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goblue1968 goblue1968

In response to “There's another annoying type I didn't see in...

(I included them in my personal list under "****")

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trooper trooper OP

I can't name seven types.Liberals,Hollywood crowd

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