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Who(m) do you feel sorry for in a divorce?

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The kids? C'mon...wouldn't you rather they be subject to a GOOD relationship?

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I've know a lot of people who got divorced and to be honest, after things have settled down, the people involved have always seemed happier...the kids adjust and I've heard them say , we get two lots of treats like holidays and more presents...

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The kids, I have friends who's parents are divorced, their views on family are completely different, scarred by the divorce of their parents.

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Sunny_the_skeptic Sunny_the_skeptic

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Weren't they happy at all that their parents were finally happy?

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Sukiesnow Sukiesnow OP

In response to “Weren't they happy at all that their parents...

They are unhappy that their parents are with different people and they don't think they will be able to have a permanent relationship with a significant other.

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Sunny_the_skeptic Sunny_the_skeptic

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Mom & Dad fought a lot. I prayed almost every night they would get divorced.

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Sukiesnow Sukiesnow OP

In response to “did they?

Nah.

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Sukiesnow Sukiesnow OP

In response to “Nah.

So are things better now?

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Sunny_the_skeptic Sunny_the_skeptic

In response to “So are things better now?

Could go either way. They are dead.

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Sukiesnow Sukiesnow OP

In response to “Could go either way. They are dead.

I'm sorry to hear that.

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Sunny_the_skeptic Sunny_the_skeptic

Whoever I think got the worst end of the deal. In some divorces, I am happy for both of them.

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JustJimColo JustJimColo

Everyone but the lawyers.

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Will_Janitor Will_Janitor

Depends on the people involved. Sometimes a divorce is a good thing.

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Tiffanee Tiffanee

if they have kids the kids, gonna ruin your kids lives for some most likely petty selfish reasons.
otherwise it would depend on the circumstances, if either of the two are abusive to the other i won't feel bad for the abuser when their is a divorce

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I've know a lot of people who got divorced and to be honest, after things have settled down, the people involved have always seemed happier...the kids adjust and I've heard them say , we get two lots of treats like holidays and more presents...

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JD JD

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Often, it's better to have come from a troubled home life than to live in one.

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JustJimColo JustJimColo

Probably the men, cause statistically they end up the most screwed in a divorce. Maybe the kids, but they get two times the Christmas presents, so not as much.

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Psybur Psybur

Depends on the situation

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DWF DWF

Warring people who stay together "for the kids" do great harm to the kids. I feel sorry for the whole family if they can't work out agreements that are healthy for everyone involved. Keep the damn lawyers out of it or there will be no money for college.

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ozzyboy ozzyboy

I wish relationships built on pinky swears and high fives were built to last but of course it is not that easy.

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Tiffanee Tiffanee

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Years ago a person was only as good as their word....

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Sukiesnow Sukiesnow OP

the one that getts all the assets and money of the other person that had achieved the most whilst married

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mona1986 mona1986

The kids and the love lost

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Jaxxi Jaxxi

The Kids

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Brianl Brianl

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You'd rather the kids grow up in a home full of hatred and dissension?

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Sukiesnow Sukiesnow OP

In response to “You'd rather the kids grow up in a home full...

No of course not I don't believe I said that or implied that. I simply replied to the question as to who I felt sorry for in a divorce.

But as far as the hatred and dissension goes. I haven't noticed that there is a whole lot less of that after the parents get divorced.

From what I've witnessed it often gets worse between the parents. With one or both using the kids as weapons against the other.

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