"I hate being hated but why I will never understand." - - Do you feel this way?

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Nobody :(

Yes to ALL of the statement

TiffaneeOzSurfer

No to part

Piper2Adaprimeiro

No to ALL

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"I hate being hated but why I will never understand." - - Do you feel this way?

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No.
I do my best.
If i am hated, it's for who i am.
I can't change that. Nor would i try.
Let them wear themselves thin. It takes a lot of energy to hate.

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Carla Carla

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No.
I do my best.
If i am hated, it's for who i am.
I can't change that. Nor would i try.
Let them wear themselves thin. It takes a lot of energy to hate.

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Carla Carla

In response to “No. I do my best. If i am hated, it's for...

I hate way more than I am hated (this is a serious flaw in my personality). I'm mostly merely tolerated, disliked or disliked intensely.

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Bub Bub OP

In response to “I hate way more than I am hated (this is a...

Hate is too heavy for me. I dont like to carry it.
And you? If you are in life, as you are here, you seem far too entertaining to dislike.

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Carla Carla

In response to “Hate is too heavy for me. I dont like to...

In real life you have never met a loner like me... a loner now by choice.

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Bub Bub OP

In response to “In real life you have never met a loner like...

There is a woman i get eggs from. She has a huge garden every year. Has a piece of another farmers field for pumpkins, breeds basset hounds.
Around 60? Maybe...never married, very much a loner.
So interesting. Spends the winters, reading, indulging in television, which she avoids in the warm months.
So...yes, i do know a loner like you.

I helped load a flat trailer with pumpkins just this past tuesday afternoon after fetching some eggs. She would never have asked for help. Tough cookie.

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Carla Carla

In response to “I hate way more than I am hated (this is a...

I haven't picked up on any of those feelings toward you pro or con.

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PartyOfOne PartyOfOne

In response to “I haven't picked up on any of those feelings...

Maybe I'm overstating it...

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Bub Bub OP

In response to “I hate way more than I am hated (this is a...

I doubt anyone hates you. You seem to get along with everyone....

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StarzAbove StarzAbove

In response to “I doubt anyone hates you. You seem to get...

Sometimes you bug me but about nothing that matters... (hehe)

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Bub Bub OP

In response to “Sometimes you bug me but about nothing that...

Like I said previously, this just isn't my night. Guess it's time to fold my tent and say goodnight. (hmm)

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StarzAbove StarzAbove

In response to “Like I said previously, this just isn't my...

I'm sorry for that lame joke... not very funny at this moment, I suppose.

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Bub Bub OP

In response to “I'm sorry for that lame joke... not very...

That's OK, it's not your fault, but you know what has happened.

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StarzAbove StarzAbove

In response to “I do. (sad)

(hug)(hug)(sad)(sad)

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StarzAbove StarzAbove

In response to “(hug)(hug)(sad)(sad)

(hug)(hug)

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Bub Bub OP

In response to “No. I do my best. If i am hated, it's for...

Who could hate you? I mean YOU... not what you may or may not think, I mean.

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Bub Bub OP

In response to “Who could hate you? I mean YOU... not what...

You have never been a **** woman telling a mason that the south foundation wall is out if square and his grout joints are bad. Tear it down if you want to be paid. That....can get you hated.

Just being a **** woman has gotten me hated.

I have a brother who hates me.

Hate is everywhere.

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Carla Carla

In response to “You have never been a **** woman telling a...

Oh man... I don't know what to say (sad)

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Bub Bub OP

In response to “Oh man... I don't know what to say (sad)

You dont have to say anything:]
It's all good.

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Carla Carla

In response to “You have never been a **** woman telling a...

(sad) that's so messed up. I can't understand how people could be like that to you. In a way I can kind of relate. When I was in high school I was bullied and sometimes gay bashed, even though I wasn't gay. Apparently that didn't matter, it was what the bullies though that counted.

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OzSurfer OzSurfer

In response to “No. I do my best. If i am hated, it's for...

Maybe that is why haters are so grumpy. They are tired from putting all their energy into hating.

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Tiffanee

In response to “Maybe that is why haters are so grumpy. They...

That could be very true.

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Carla Carla

It's uncomfortable since it's your own negative reflection cast back at you. Defined: it speaks to that small (or larger) part of you that agrees with them...and squeaks: I hate me, too!

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Sukiesnow Sukiesnow

In response to “It's uncomfortable since it's your own...

I can only speak for myself (and I agree with you) but this confession came from a good friend and this friend doesn't deserve 99% of the hate directed their way.

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Bub Bub OP

In response to “I can only speak for myself (and I agree with...

Than it can't be someone on here. Everyone on here is pretty much liked.

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Sukiesnow Sukiesnow

The times I've actually felt "hated" by someone, I've most always been able to figure out the why of it. I would prefer not to be hated, in a general sort of way.

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Piper2 Piper2

Not my problem...hate away, if you feel the need to.

Don't expect me to participate..

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DandyDon DandyDon

The elephant in the room is slowly suffocating me. Plus he smells bad....(no)

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Tiffanee

I am who I am if people hate me so what I am who I am i change for no one if people can't accept me as I am it's there loss not mine

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Metal_god14

I dislike being hated if I haven't earned it; all the "hate" I've had to deal with has come from blacks.

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PartyOfOne PartyOfOne

I guess I cant help it, if someone dislikes me it's their problem to waste brain power on it. It's most weird when someone you don't hold and ill will at hates you and you don't even have an idea.

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Sunny_the_skeptic Sunny_the_skeptic

I hate dentists.

By that default, I hate Sunny as well.

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ZonkeyBalls ZonkeyBalls

In response to “Ey!

I was waiting for that.:]

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Carla Carla

If someone hates you, deserved or not, there is nothing you can say or do to change that. Life is short, move on.

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Dar Dar

I was hated in school by other boys for all my school years. I don't know why, I tried to keep to myself and not bother anyone but it was like I had a target painted on my back. It seemed any excuse was used, a common one was that I was gay which wasn't true, not that it mattered although it has made me fiercely anti-homophobic ever since. But what upset me the most was never knowing why because I couldn't change something if I didn't know what I was doing wrong. It wasn't until I had control over my school life in the final two years and went against my parents wishes and left an all boys school, and enrolled in what was then, an all girls school, that I realised that there was nothing wrong with me after all. The girls all accepted me, I was never bullied or beaten, the teachers were kind and I learned more in those two years than in my entire schol life. I'm not sure why I'm sharing this, but I feel like I wasted 10 years of my life at school. It was like a prison.

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OzSurfer OzSurfer

In response to “I was hated in school by other boys for all...

~~~~~ But what upset me the most was never knowing why because I couldn't change something if I didn't know what I was doing wrong.~~~~~

What a crippling feeling that is... I understand fully, Dallas.

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Bub Bub OP

In response to “~~~~~// But what upset me the most was never...

Thanks, I appreciate that

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OzSurfer OzSurfer

In response to “Thanks, I appreciate that

Welcome :)

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Bub Bub OP

In response to “I was hated in school by other boys for all...

An all boys school. That was all you needed to say.

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Carla Carla

In response to “An all boys school. That was all you needed...

I knew you'd understand

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OzSurfer OzSurfer

In response to “I was hated in school by other boys for all...

I replied to you below...forgot to link it...

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JD JD

Perhaps you being a loner, they saw an easy target...that progressed as you tried to keep away from them, it become even easier...they never hated you...if you met anyone of them now, they would not remember ever being nasty to you...to you it was a major problem and to them it was a bit of fun, that's why it happens".thats why I'm certain you were not hated..but kids can be cruel without realizing .but I'm sorry it happened...but it made you a stronger person...

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JD JD

In response to “Perhaps you being a loner, they saw an easy...

Who are you talking to?

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Bub Bub OP

In response to “Who are you talking to?

Sorry I thought I replied to Ozsurfer

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JD JD

In response to “Perhaps you being a loner, they saw an easy...

Thanks, yes maybe you're right. I really had nothing in common with any of them so I kept to myself. Plus they were all into hitting each other, just constantly they'd hit, slap, fight, play practical jokes on each other and to fit in, you had to make out you enjoyed that and do the same thing back. It just made me feel like my IQ level had dropped 50 points. And what made it worse, is in class I always had to intentionally reduce my grades because if I worked at my best I would show them up, and that meant more bullying, but then lower grades meant a belting from my dad, so I just felt I was set up to fail in a system that I hated. When I turned 17 and went to the girls school, everything was the complete opposite and the contrast was overwhelming. I went from what I described, to zero violence, no hitting, lots of intelligent students to work with, friendly teachers who weren't constantly threatening testoserone-laden boys and best of all I went from the scourge of the class to the most popular, because i was a boy that they liked and who didn't make them feel uncomfortable.

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OzSurfer OzSurfer

In response to “Thanks, yes maybe you're right. I really had...

Must have been a fantastic feeling and I'm pleased it turned our good for you...

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JD JD

I've never hated anyone that I've met...people may have hated me and I could not understand why as I've treated people as fairly as I could...I've said things I regret but apologized and as far as I'm concerned, that's the end of it...but if they hold that hate, then they have the problem not me....

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JD JD

In response to “I've never hated anyone that I've...

I agree. It doesn't pay to be a victim forever. Refusing a heartfelt apology is like tossing a gift back in someone's face.

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Bub Bub OP

No, I hate no one or anything. I don't believe in hate! It's a poison! If someone hates me? Then that's their problem.

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Rooster Rooster

In response to “No, I hate no one or anything. I don't...

If you like to read (I know you do) then you'd enjoy Harpo Speaks!
Harpo was recounting a story about what a close friend (who wouldn't hurt a fly) said about Hitler. He said his fellow Jew said "This man Hitler doesn't seem like a very nice man". That was the harshest thing Harpo said his friend ever said about anyone.

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Bub Bub OP

In response to “If you like to read (I know you do) then...

I'll have to check that out. Thank you.

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Rooster Rooster

The times I've been hated (that I know of), I knew the reasons.

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primeiro primeiro

I'm sure I'm hated by some on this site, but I don't hate anyone, I detest a few but I don't hate them.

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StarzAbove StarzAbove

In response to “I'm sure I'm hated by some on this site, but...

All who matter don't hate you or even dislike you... keep that in mind :)

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Bub Bub OP

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