Do you respect or pity Virgins who stay virgins for a long time?

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Do you respect or pity Virgins who stay virgins for a long time?

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It's a personal decision and I respect their right to choose.

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PhilboydStudge PhilboydStudge

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**** is fun why you missin out? I also mercilessly tease anyone who wants to stay celibate so yeah :P If you want to get a lot of attention from me take an oath of celibacy!

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TomboyJanet TomboyJanet OP

In response to “**** is fun why you missin out? I also...

hi Janny

my mum had a friend who was in her early 40's years back , really attractive , bright and intelligent and She was a Virgin.
I was always trying to get her to take her Platonic friendship with someone She Loved and Lived with that step further.

I just thought how much she was missing out on and wanted to encourage her to experience something so wonderful for the first time.

I don't know , maybe She's still a Virgin today.

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “hi Janny my mum had a friend who was in her...

my thoughts exactly. I think some people might be afraid especially after a certain age that they'll fail and be looked at negatively.

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TomboyJanet TomboyJanet OP

In response to “my thoughts exactly. I think some people...

I think Sue was , She'd go bright Red when I spoke about great ** and multiple Orgasm's and said "it's about time you got your Leg over Sue , you don't know what you're missing"** but I did make her giggle. (hehe)

I bet She was a Closet Miss Bondage just waiting to break out (mischief) a Wild thing untamed.

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “I think Sue was , She'd go bright Red when I...

hehehe She just needed a little push and a tie!

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TomboyJanet TomboyJanet OP

In response to “hehehe She just needed a little push and a tie!

I forgot to tell you the Man She was living with for years was in his late 30's and also a Virgin.

I found it Strange tbh maybe they were too damaged
I didn't pry but it happens. Maybe they were told **** was wrong or Evil as a Child.

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “**** is fun why you missin out? I also...

Why would you "mercilessly tease" someone for taking an oath of celibacy?

And why would you think it's okay for you to give him or her "a lot of attention" regarding a private decision?

And why do you even care?

(think)

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Chris_PHAET_Demon Chris_PHAET_Demon

A bit of both really. I don't understand it but I respect it.

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Tiffanee Tiffanee

In response to “A bit of both really. I don't understand it...

I can c that. But I'm just really janety so just gotta be me! :P

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TomboyJanet TomboyJanet OP

Jeez Janet - how old do you suppose that kid is you have pictured there in her underwear? 12? 13? You DO have boundaries, right?

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Budwick Budwick

In response to “Jeez Janet - how old do you suppose that kid...

hi BW , they are VIRGINS and you will get an image like that in any catalog you can find that sells teen clothing.

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “hi BW , they are VIRGINS and you will get an...

And this post is all about tossing their virginity in the trash, being mocked. We're not selling teen clothing here.

I don't get it Ser. Women, everyone really has recently been getting all wound up over sexual impropriety - and here were are pushing the idea of promiscuity! You don't see a disconnect here?

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Budwick Budwick

In response to “And this post is all about tossing their...

I can assure you knowing Janny as long as I have that She hopes every Young Girl keeps her innocence until She is ready to become a Woman.

This is about Men & Women like my/mums friend Sue who was in her 40's and still a Virgin NOT about YOUNG GIRLS tossing their Virginity away.

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “I can assure you knowing Janny as long as I...

I don't know 'Janny' well enough to call her Janny. I do know that she is a huge booster of women and womens rights. Everyone here knows that she was raped - so I'm sure she's sensitive to the abuse of women at any age.

Janny's opening comment -
"**** is fun why you missin out? I also mercilessly tease anyone who wants to stay celibate so yeah :P If you want to get a lot of attention from me take an oath of celibacy!"
reads with a different tone than your own understanding of the post.

"This is about Men & Women like my/mums friend Sue who was in her 40's and still a Virgin NOT about YOUNG GIRLS tossing their Virginity away."

Top that off with a picture of a undressed child that might get me arrested if found on my computer.

I'm not asking anyone to change the picture. I'm not asking anyone to remove the post. I'm not asking anyone to stop bullying virgins. I've posted my opinion about what I see as a huge disservice to children.

I get it - you think using the undressed child is OK - you don't see any conflict between that and theme of the post itself. You've made your point.

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Budwick Budwick

In response to “Jeez Janet - how old do you suppose that kid...

That's a good point, Budwick. Why use a child's image.

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dru18 dru18

In response to “That's a good point, Budwick. Why use a...

Image symbolizes innocence and virginity not lust

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TomboyJanet TomboyJanet OP

In response to “Image symbolizes innocence and virginity not lust

Yeah, on a post that is knocking those traits down.

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dru18 dru18

In response to “Yeah, on a post that is knocking those traits...

It's up to you to decide weather those traits are honorable or not.... that is the question is it not? I just have my own opinion but it's not really about me is it? It's about you guys, that's why I posted It, I wanna know! If I didn't care I'd have not posted it!

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TomboyJanet TomboyJanet OP

In response to “It's up to you to decide weather those traits...

Well, you got my opinion didn't you?
Leave the children alone!

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Budwick Budwick

In response to “Well, you got my opinion didn't you? Leave...

Thank you Budwick, I agree, kids images have no place on this post. Get someone out of puberty.

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BarbOBarr BarbOBarr

In response to “Thank you Budwick, I agree, kids images have...

I appreciate your support Barb.
I don't want to piss Janet off either. I'm glad to see her back and posting - but the kiddie pic on a post promoting the loss of virginity is over the edge for me.

Thanks again.

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Budwick Budwick

In response to “I appreciate your support Barb. I don't want...

I'm tired of the sexual misconduct being so blurry. This post says it all.

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BarbOBarr BarbOBarr

In response to “I'm tired of the sexual misconduct being so...

I'm just glad someone else gets it!
I really don't understand the attempted defense...

Again, thank you, and have a Merry Christmas!

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Budwick Budwick

In response to “I'm just glad someone else gets it! I really...

You too Budwick. I'm not on much. I've been busy promoting my books. Christmas is a very busy time. I hope you and you're family enjoy the holidays and have a great new year😊

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BarbOBarr BarbOBarr

In response to “You too Budwick. I'm not on much. I've been...

Cool! Hope they sell out!

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Budwick Budwick

In response to “It's up to you to decide weather those traits...

As I stated below, I don't sit around thinking about it, one way or the other. I put it in the category labeled 'none of my business'.

And their are plenty of images out there that represent "innocence" and doesn't involve a pre-teen girl in her bra.

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dru18 dru18

In response to “As I stated below, I don't sit around...

Agreed Dru. I would be pissed if those were my girls.

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BarbOBarr BarbOBarr

In response to “Image symbolizes innocence and virginity not lust

Janny your image is fine it symbolizes INNOCENCE which in this case = VIRGINITY



it's a good post and it's so good to see you posting again , we miss ya when you're not around.

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “That's a good point, Budwick. Why use a...

Thanks Dru! Appreciated.

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Budwick Budwick

In response to “Jeez Janet - how old do you suppose that kid...

The image represents virginhood not sexuality, how can you take an image of innocence to mean the exact opposite of how I intended it?

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TomboyJanet TomboyJanet OP

In response to “The image represents virginhood not...

Maybe it was your comment mocking virginity.

There are millions of images available - you selected one of a child. That's on you Janet - not me, not Dru.

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Budwick Budwick

In response to “Maybe it was your comment mocking...

Mocking ADULTS beyond the age of CONSENT who choose to keep their VIRGINITY

NOT CHILDREN

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “Mocking ADULTS beyond the age of CONSENT who...

OK, my original complaint was about the child pictured in the headline. It's not complicated Ser.
Using undressed children as a prop to promote promiscuity is in my opinion at least unsavory and borderline pornographic.

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Budwick Budwick

In response to “OK, my original complaint was about the child...

I don't see anyone promoting Promiscuity here , since when does losing one's Virginity at a reasonable age eg 18 (when I lost mine) = Promiscuity.



A SYMBOLISM OF VIRGINITY shouldn't be that hard to understand but clearly it is for some.

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “I don't see anyone promoting Promiscuity...

We're done Ser. You think using kids to promote **** is a good idea. I don't.

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Budwick Budwick

In response to “http://68.media.tumblr.com/3eabdd9d1dff4028fd8a...

Your picture does not show up for me, but perhaps it's not sinking in with you - I'm done defending decency with you.

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Budwick Budwick

In response to “(ono)

Congratulations! You've got that condescension thing down pat!

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Budwick Budwick

I would never pity them; it's their personal choice that I respect. I don't necessarily respect them more than someone who's not a virgin, but I do respect the choice itself. I'm a virgin and don't plan on changing that any time soon, so...yeah...

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Thibault Thibault

Why wouldn't anyone for respect a woman who stands by her own convictions and decisions? I guess a flip-side question would be, do you respect or pity a woman who has had multiple **** partners? Does it really matter? Not to me.

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JustJimColo JustJimColo

In response to “Why wouldn't anyone for respect a woman who...

For some reason women getting laid is stigmatized but the way I feel about us men is that virginity is a horrible curse of loneliness, very few men would choose to be virgins or merely say that because they haven't got another choice.

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Sunny_the_skeptic Sunny_the_skeptic

In response to “For some reason women getting laid is...

Virginity and a life of celibacy wasn't for me. While I have to admire those who chose it, I feel sorry for those who are living it because they have no other choice.

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JustJimColo JustJimColo

It's a personal decision and I respect their right to choose.

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PhilboydStudge PhilboydStudge

In response to “It's a personal decision and I respect their...

Unless it's not a decision but just total lack of any luck

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Sunny_the_skeptic Sunny_the_skeptic

I respect them, but never met one....are they extinct...hehe

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JD JD

In response to “I respect them, but never met one....are they...

(smirk2) you never had a Virgin JD ?

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “(smirk2) you never had a Virgin JD ?

Never, went for experience...

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JD JD

In response to “Never, went for experience...

Now that I believe.......but wouldn't a blossoming flower in her 20's be an experience in itself ?

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “Now that I believe.......but wouldn't a...

Being a dirty old man, I would now..hehe

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JD JD

In response to “Being a dirty old man, I would now..hehe

hahaha I didn't mean now JD
Oh my gawd you're truly incorrigible (mischief)

I meant when you were younger I can imagine you were attracted by the Older more experienced Woman.

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “hahaha I didn't mean now JD Oh my gawd...

Always liked women a lot older when I was younger....went out with a few...that's another post...

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JD JD

In response to “Always liked women a lot older when I was...

Get making it then (mischief)

it's the Mrs Robinson phase of a Young Guys Life when the Older Woman oozes experience from every Pore.

how can they resist



Were you Seduced ?

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “Get making it then (mischief) it's the Mrs...

A few times, loved it...

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JD JD

In response to “A few times, loved it...

*grinning from ear to ear here* lolz

how old were you when you were first Seduced by an Older Woman ?



oh you have to make that post JD , it'll be fun.
then you'll know how many were or are attracted by experience and not Youth.

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “*grinning from ear to ear here* lolz how...

I was around 24 and she was 42 ....used to meet her every Friday .....

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JD JD

In response to “Done it...

Cool (biggrin)

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “(smirk2) you never had a Virgin JD ?

My girlfriend was one.

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Sunny_the_skeptic Sunny_the_skeptic

In response to “My girlfriend was one.

Exactly Sunny and now She's experienced in the Art of Love and you were her Teacher.


it's very Special or can be.

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “Exactly Sunny and now She's experienced in...

I was a virgin too then so it was kinda mutual, we were both unexperienced.

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Sunny_the_skeptic Sunny_the_skeptic

In response to “I was a virgin too then so it was kinda...

I never experienced that because my first Lover was certainly no Virgin and I was 18 and he was 26 , so I really believe that I missed out in a way because that does sound Special.


I remember when I was with my Puppy Love that I met when I was 12 and he was 13 at about 16 when we were both still Virgins that I wanted him to be my first but I was terrified of getting Pregnant as a teen so kept my Knees together. lolz

*sigh* maybe in my next Life

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “I never experienced that because my first...

I think there is a charm in both of the people being ignorant of the other's body, makes exploring and play more fun.

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Sunny_the_skeptic Sunny_the_skeptic

In response to “I think there is a charm in both of the...

I can imagine it does.

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

To each his own I guess I lost mine at a young age I had fun isn't that what it is about long as you aren't molested or raped.

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Metal_god14

The people who're virgins because they never got lucky I truly pity, it's no matter of haha you haven't gotten a girl yet, it's truly painful. When you're a virgin for a long time you get depressed not about **** but that no one wants you.

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Sunny_the_skeptic Sunny_the_skeptic

I don't feel either pity or respect since it's their choice, not mine.

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Linnster Linnster

I don't care, virginity isn't a real thing

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DWF DWF

In response to “I don't care, virginity isn't a real thing

can you explain that to me please DWF (smile)

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Darkest_Serenity Darkest_Serenity

In response to “can you explain that to me please DWF (smile)

Virginity doesn't have an objective existence. People talk all the time about virginity being some physical thing and there's some objective answer to questions like "Are you a virgin if you've only had oral ****?" but that's completely meaningless.

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DWF DWF

I really don't think about it one way or the other.

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dru18 dru18

I don't think about them much, and it certainly isn't my place to give them advice or judge them. :)

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Will_Janitor Will_Janitor

It's a personal choice.Respect

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Blewynanifail Blewynanifail

I respect privacy I guess.....mileages vary

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Freeranger Freeranger

Their choices don’t affect me, so respect it is.

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Masha Masha

It is neither any of my business nor my place to judge them.

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Bozette Bozette

I don't worry about them. That is a thing each person needs to decide when

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LorraineTwevlehundredRaineTwelvehundred LorraineTwevlehundredRaineTwelvehundred

How can you miss something when you've never had it...And why is this post geared towards gurls only, looking at the picture you posted, boys are virgins too....it's not my place to say who stays a virgin and who does not, but I will say I have the most respect for someone who is a virgin. For a gurl it is something special to have that belongs to her, to be given not takin, once its gone you can never get it back. I can not speak for males but I do have the same respect for them....with all this it all depends on the ages we are talking, the young do not have the maturity as someone older. There are consequences to everything...

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symplycurious symplycurious

That's their business.

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hootowl hootowl

The reasons they'd make their choices are multitudinous - neither way is a wrong way.

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PartyOfOne PartyOfOne

I respect people who make decisions based on what is best for them regardless of what others think.

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Chris_PHAET_Demon Chris_PHAET_Demon

I don't think it's anyone's business.

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SynysterGates SynysterGates

Judge much do ya...

I respect someone who wants to share such an intimate moment with someone special.

Not my business nor my place to pass any judgement.

🦋

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Lil_Princess Lil_Princess

Couples who do not have ** before marriage have happier more stable relationships and a more rewarding ** life, according to a new study.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news...dy-claims.html

But, it feel s good now, so screw that, Amirite? [sarcasm]

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Budwick Budwick

I would not of course know, what you consider a "long time". I see nothing to mock or tease though, about someone choosing to abstain from ****, for however long it is.
I respect their choice to do so, and do not "pity" them.

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Piper2 Piper2

It's a personal choice. There is not a "right" or "wrong" in this scenario.
As long as you're not hurting anyone in the process, then do what you feel best.

I'm still virgin myself. I don't think it should be a reason for either admiration or pitying.

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