I've only been seeing my girlfriend for about 2 weeks now, but she makes me feel like no other. I probably shouldn't say, "I love you," yet even though i feel it, amirite?

SAY IT, chicks love that

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Mean what you say. Always.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Maybe don't say those words but let her know how you feel. It's important.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

exactly. you can show it without saying it. plan a cute date for her. chicks love pre planned dates.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

The problem with saying "I love you" after such a short time is that often early in a relationship, sexual attraction mixed with the excitement of a new relationship can be mistaken for true love. That's why I think it's a good idea to wait, even if you think you're in love. That feeling might fade in a few days, or a few weeks. (For the record, I do realize that this is an old post, therefore my advice is not intended necessarily for the OP, but for the general public who is reading this, and may someday find themselves in a similar situation.)

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I disagree with this because I think the word "love" has lost much of its meaning nowadays. Saying "I love you" to someone no longer means "I will love you for the rest of my life." Frankly, it doesn't need to mean that. That's what the promise of marriage is for. You definitely shouldn't marry someone after two weeks, but if you enjoy someone's company and already feel close enough to them to say "I love you", you might as well. There's really no harm done. It's no longer a promise, just an expression.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Aww, you're in like with her how cute...

by Anonymous 11 years ago

(#873) WHOA. That's like prehistoric...

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Yeah, its on page 5768. That's pretty far back...

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Yeah I wonder how they even found it...

by Anonymous 11 years ago

One of the mods at some point: "Hey guys, lets play a game where we all choose a PotD, and whoever's gets the fewest favourites wins!"

by Anonymous 11 years ago

They're so bad, it's worrying.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I almost don't care how bad they are as long as they get a meaningful debate or discussion going. I prefer it to a string of funny/punny POTDs where everyone just posts jokes, memes, and tries too hard for comment loves. Funny POTDs can be good, too, though.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

If I was a new member, on Amirite for the first time, I'd like to log on and see a post that reflects how good the site can be. The Post of the Day is the first thing you see, should it not be really good?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Yes, it should be. I wasn't thinking of that. Personally, though, I feel like some of the good, funny posts that make POTD have stupid comments, which could reflect badly on the site, or give newcomers the idea that memes + puns. If a newcomer saw a mediocre post with great comments, they would get an idea that the people here are capable of intelligent, thoughtful comments, and we won't get the, "OMG, the POTD isn't even funny!!!" comments. I guess a little bit of both is nice.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

* memes + puns = good comment on amirite all the time.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Ban all unintelligent people who are incapable of stringing a sentence together! :D wary

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Personally I'm not a fan, but look at it this way, if the PotDs stay consistently unfunny and boring, you and I have a much higher chance getting a PotD.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I'm surprised all of my posts haven't been PotD.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Tell her you love her? The hells the matter with you man. You should propose instead!

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I miss when posts on here were actual questions that you could have a direct opinion like this. At sake of sounding like a hipster.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

My boyfriend just told me he loved me for the first time last night and we've been dating for 3. It's all in the connection and is based on **your** relationship, love doesn't have a set time to show up or specific guidelines to follow.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Break up with her, girls have cooties.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

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by Anonymous 11 years ago

Since it's been two years, I'm sure it's fine now. For those reading this that aren't the OP, I'll tell you that if a guy said he loved me two weeks into a relationship, even if he DID love me, I would be less likely to believe him. It seems insincere. Unless you have known each other for a while beforehand, do not say I love you at two weeks.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Actually, it's been over two years now.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I edited!

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Well I'd like to know how this turned out, personally.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

OP, if you're still on this site, are you two still together? Now I'm curious.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Like Ted Mosby

by Anonymous 11 years ago

hahahahaha

by Anonymous 11 years ago

When my parents were in 9th grade they met each other. My mom had a boyfriend she really didnt like, but then she met my dad and i guess it changed everything. 1 month later she broke up with her boyfriend and i think it was either 2 or 3 weeks later they started dating. my mom told me that they told eachother they loved eachother around 3 weeks into the relationship. they've been married now for 22 years. (: they gmh

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Hey everyone (for the sale of this comment, I'm goon to pretend this post isn't three years old), not everyone develops in the same way. Maybe you can't feel "true love" that quickly, and maybe OP can't either. Then again, maybe he can. Not to attack you for trying to help, but a lot of you are acting like you have all the answers, which you definitely don't.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

As a general tip, say it when the moment feels right. It doesn't matter if you've been dating for two weeks or two years. If it feels right and you know what you want to do, then say it. She might not say it back, but make sure she knows she doesn't have to say so right away if she's like "oh um wow. Thanks I guess." I know from experience. As the girl.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Depends on your ethnicity. In the Russian culture that about time to get engaged.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I really want to know how this turned out. If the OP is still on here... wanna clue us in?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

(I realize this post is old. Just thought I'd throw this out there.) You should always wait at least 3 weeks to tell someone you love them. It can ruin things if you tell them too quickly. My ex told me he loved me the say we started going out. Yeah, that didn't end well. The guy after that told me 2 months into our relationship. That was a bit better. My point is, you should wait before telling anyone too quickly that you love them because you may THINK you do, but you don't know yet what "love" feels like until after the excitement of a new relationship has passed.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

it all depends, everyone is different. my bf said it 3 weeks into the relationship and i told him beforehand how i felt about saying those words. i told him i would only say it if i was sure, theyre important words. so when he said it i said "thank you, i really like you". now, it might sound mean, but i eventually fell in love. he waited nd when i said it i meant it, which is why he didnt mind waiting.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

It's been over two years now. I want to know what happened.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

This is a really original comment. Several people haven't already said this.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I'm sorry I offended you by not bothering to read all of the comments. Please forgive me, I offer my sincerest apologies. This atrocity of a comment was, as I now realize, a grave mistake.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I'm sorry I offended you by not bothering to read all of the comments. Please forgive me, I offer my sincerest apologies. This atrocity of a comment was, as I now realize, a grave mistake. I'm sorry, did you already say that?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

This is a really original comment. I haven't already said this.

by Anonymous 11 years ago