The amount of pain you feel after a breakup is only weakly related to how much you loved the other person. It has more to do with how secure you are in yourself, amirite?

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I agree. I also think it has a lot to do with the amount of closure you get with the break up.

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So true...this has been playing in my mind. Tnx for posting >_<

What does it mean by 'secure in yourself'.?

@countrymusiclv3r What does it mean by 'secure in yourself'.?

I think when you develop a relationship with somebody, you expose certain insecurities to that person which makes you develop trust. Then when you break up, the trust is broken but the insecurities are on full display. The more insecure you are, then, the more the breakup will hurt.

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