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Girls, stop saying you want to be liked for just your personality, you turn down guys based on looks all the time. Don't even try to deny this with bullshit, amirite?

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All the girls saying yeah but I don't do it.... Stfu! You're lying. EVERYONE does it. If you met the ugliest person ever, missing a few teeth lazy eye horrible acne obese.... You wouldn't give them the time of day to become a romantic interest. Now, say you started talking to this person...online. Not knowing what they looked like you would give them a chance. Bottom line, you HAVE to have a sexual attraction to someone in the first place to give them a romantic opportunity. But if someone isn't totally ugly but not exactly hot you might give them a chance. And if their personality is great they'll become more attractive to you.

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@All the girls saying yeah but I don't do it.... Stfu! You're lying. EVERYONE does it. If you met the ugliest person...

I really don't agree ): and if that were true how is it that you see ugly people get married? If you MUST have sexual attraction to someone first then all ugly people would be single. And they aren't. You can't tell me that I'm lying if you don't know me and how I really am. I'm just saying. There are people who don't see physical appearance as a dealbreaker, I promise.

LyssaBlaus avatar LyssaBlau Yeah You Are 0Reply

Who the hell wants to be liked just for personality?
I would never want to date a guy who doesn't think im pretty.

Anonymous +10Reply

I YYA'd this because it's generally true but I also wanted to say not all girls are like that (: myself being a prime example.

LyssaBlaus avatar LyssaBlau Yeah You Are +9Reply
@Galileo Pix or you have an attractive boyfriend.

haha I actually don't have a boyfriend at the moment...sorry no pix

LyssaBlaus avatar LyssaBlau Yeah You Are 0Reply
@shorkian So... you busy this weekend?

Yes actually I'm going to a farm! Should be fun haha maybe next weekend? :D

LyssaBlaus avatar LyssaBlau Yeah You Are 0Reply
@LyssaBlau Yes actually I'm going to a farm! Should be fun haha maybe next weekend? :D

Protip for getting a boyfriend:
Don't smell like farm animals once you get back from the farm.

-A Boy

Maybe some girls do turn down guys on looks, but that doesn't been we don't want to be liked for personality. It is hypocritical, but still.

Anonymous +4Reply

Well, yeah. If a guy who doesn't brush his teeth or wash his hair, and smells like he hasn't showered in a week asks me out, I'm gonna say no.

fangirl12s avatar fangirl12 Yeah You Are +4Reply

"Guys, stop saying you want to be liked for just your personality, you turn down girls based on looks all the time. Don't even try to deny this with bullshit, amirite?"

Anonymous +4Reply

More like, "People, stop saying you want to be liked for just your personality. Personality clearly isn't the only thing that matters. And stop saying you don't care about looks. You turn down others based on appearance all the time. Don't even try to deny this with bullshit, amirite?"

candisses avatar candisse Yeah You Are +3Reply

Sadly, I have done this :/ But I also don't bitch when guys do it, it's just natural!

track_stars avatar track_star Yeah You Are +2Reply

so if an extremely ugly guy, super crooked bugged out eyes, hella short and obesely fat, disgustingly horrible acne all over his face shoulders and back, balding greesy nasty hair, tweaker teeth with rank ass breath, smelled and overall looked like he didn't know what soap is....but a great personality. You know, made you laugh smile get all tingly inside.....you would date him??
You have to AT LEAST to some degree have some sexual and physical attraction to a potential mate.

Anonymous +2Reply
@so if an extremely ugly guy, super crooked bugged out eyes, hella short and obesely fat, disgustingly horrible acne...

They cant help if they have acne or bad teeth or if they r short. Its not entirely their fault if they r obese. It is however their fault if they dont understand basic hygiene. I go for personality but I wouldnt date them if they had no sense of hygiene.

Actually, there needs to be some form of physical attraction in order for the relationship to work.

Lkuns avatar Lkun Yeah You Are +1Reply

So please; do explain to me the reason why men more commonly leave their wives for younger, hotter women(even if they're just pretty idiots) then women? And how you're so much more likely to see a hot woman with a less attractive guy? Your comment sounded like you knew what you're talking about, but really you don't at all.

You may have a point there.

Birds of a feather, flock together.

Anonymous 0Reply

Yeah, if a girl was butt ugly id probably just want to be good friends instead of dating

sonofposeidons avatar sonofposeidon Yeah You Are 0Reply

So abosulty true

Anonymous 0Reply

... usually, the wives would be leaving husbands... I should have just used "spouse". Meh, either way, you get it.

Obviously, the person who felt the need to argue with me, whom I was replying to- and not you. Pay attention, or butt out.

This is kind of stupid.
It's human nature to judge based on looks, girls are supposed to find the most attractive mate.
Guys do it too, and it's possible to get past it, but you can't blame people for it.
To date someone, you have to have a degree of physical attraction to them or romance will lose it's spark.
Looks aren't everything, but they do matter a lot, I won't lie.

Anonymous 0Reply

they settle. People aren't blind to how they look. Lol. But no really. I actually saw a study on this, chemicals in your brain determine what's attractive to you personally. Have you ever asked any of these ugly people getting married if they think their spouse is ugly? Cuz I garuntee you, the groom will say no fucking way. He'll tell you his bride is the most beautiful woman in the world and he's the luckiest man. And if you reread my comment you'll see I didn't say it was a dealbreaker. But again, there MUST be a sexual attraction. Why would you want to marry someone you couldn't get in bed with? Lol

Anonymous 0Reply
@they settle. People aren't blind to how they look. Lol. But no really. I actually saw a study on this, chemicals in...

oops...I didn't actually mean sexual attraction...I meant more like physical attraction. Hmmmm. I don't know I'm having a hard time explaining myself and I'm really not trying to argue with you if it's coming across that way. I just want to defend the fact that I really don't think that way...

LyssaBlaus avatar LyssaBlau Yeah You Are 0Reply

I knew this girl who was pretty hot. she was always talking to me and said I was really funny. then I asked her out and she said no. Her friends told me she thought I looked like a fish and only wanted to be friends :(

toastedbreads avatar toastedbread Yeah You Are 0Reply

I HATE how a lot of girls do this >.< I try not to (I've dated a couple quite unattractive guys in the past, now that I think about it), but obviously we have to think they're attractive enough to like their face. Otherwise, I think it'd be pretty awkward dating them. And I'd also HOPE my boyfriend thinks I'm somewhat pretty at least.

A-fucking-men.

Anonymous 0Reply

I may want them to be attractive, at least in a decent sense, but so do guys. I don't decide whether I wanted to go out with them based off of looks, but then again, I haven't really dated yet. Some people sometimes make me feel as if I would never date them due to looks, but I have had many guys who I have got to known and liked a lot better based off of personality and the fact that they are attractive or not goes away.

Everyone does this, not just girls.

Anonymous 0Reply

What people seem to be ignoring here is that one person's "omg so ugly" is another person's "omg I love you". Those "ugly" couples you're talking about probably think you're ugly right back, and they're just as correct as you are, because attractiveness is a total matter of opinion. For example: when I see an over-tanned, over-makeuped, over-bleached girl, I think "ugh, how can she do that to herself; she's going to be a fugly, leathery bag of bones in a few years" and find her utterly unattractive... meanwhile, some guy may be thinking "ooh that girl is so hot". Basically what I'm saying is that just because YOU find someone's significant other unattractive doesn't mean they do.

People also keep using examples that relate more to poor hygeine than how they look... it's perfectly valid to not want to date someone who doesn't bathe and brush their teeth, and it doesn't make you shallow. Those things are choices, unlike your genetic appearance. A person who chooses not to ke...

... keep themselves clean and pleasant-smelling is not going to have a personality I like.

My friend keeps telling me how ugly my last bfs have been. Im srsly attracted to the nerds and geeks who like comic books and scifi movies. Its not my fault. I go strictly for personality. Anyone want to see me? I think im kinda pretty. Go to http://gibstahtgmo.deviantart.com/ and scroll down a little bit to see my picture. :)

This was posted twice.....

I said YYR because this is usually true, although some girls don't... like me. Haha. :)

Girls are more likely to look past conventional attractiveness, period... and as we mature, this likelihood increases much faster than men's. Just because your significant other is good-looking doesn't mean that's why you chose them, or that you wouldn't have chosen them anyway if they were less so. It's also not to say some girls aren't completely shallow, but guys are worse, and we're lucky if you ever grow out of it at all.

@The_Gregori Girls are more likely to look past conventional attractiveness, period... and as we mature, this likelihood...

It's quite a common misconception that women are more mature than men, as it is equal once it reaches the pinnacle with the only usual difference being time of arrival. For the most part, guys who want a relationship, as opposed to just sex, will prefer personality over looks, generally even more so than women.

shorkians avatar shorkian Yeah You Are +3Reply
@Such sexist comments.

How is it sexist? I'd say it's more sexist to treat each sex exactly the same as the other and ignore the differences like you're doing than to build an argument on statistics and treat the sexes as separate yet equal, like me.

shorkians avatar shorkian Yeah You Are +1Reply

I wanted to date my boyfriend because he was funny, and he always makes me smile.
I didn't want to date him just because he was cute. Although, it is a plus. :P

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