+483 Guys: You don't understand that the littlest thing you say to girls can destroy or make our day. amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Girls: what you need to understand is, seeking your self-esteem ouside yourself will never work, and it makes you easy to manipulate. Feel good inside yourselves, and an off comment from some boy won't be able to wreck your day.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

self esteem isnt just something your born with though, and is usualy hard to gain

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It isn't hard to gain... you just have to figure out what's really important. Self-esteem doesn't stem from how you look alone unless you're shallow; you have to find whatever is the best about you, what you're good at and what makes you special, and realize that's more important than anything anyone else can say about you. You can't imagine how much happier you will be when you don't have to rely on attention from guys to feel good about yourself.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

and what happens if you cant find anything special about you?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Then that's really sad and everybody will pity you and you'll get the attention you really wanted.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It could also go the other way around too. It's happened to me plenty of times before.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

@nashvillegirl Then you're not trying hard enough, or you're still not focusing on things that are actually important. Try asking your friends... I bet they can tell you all kinds of good things about yourself. You're never going to find an excuse to rely on a guy or guys to make you feel good about yourself, and you shouldn't want to. Those are the girls that end up with nothing.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Of course I understand, because the littlest thing a girl (specifically THE girl) says to me can destroy or make my day.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i have to agree with TheWeasel, and @420Grrl: i dont think it has anything to do with self esteem, its just well nothing to do with self esteem.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

not everything to do with self esteem just a little bit, it just depends on who you are and what hurts you...thats it

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Girls: You don't understand that the littlest thing you say to guys can destroy or make our day. Stop being so selfish ( sarcasm-ish)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

yea but most guys suck it up by the end of well maybe a week month or day depending on what it is they say

by Anonymous 13 years ago