+213 Total making out on the first date is too fast, amirite?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I totes make out on the first date.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

By using the word "totes" I automatically assume you are a 13 y/o slut.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well you sir are an idiot for assuming such a thing.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well who actually uses that word anymore???

by Anonymous 13 years ago

People that enjoy making fun of other people that still use that word. y

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It was never a word, just a short version of totally that I "totes" hate.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

^^

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Wanna go on a date?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yes.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Look at that, you //are// a 13-year-old slut.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

21 year old tyvm

by Anonymous 12 years ago

How would you disagree with this? A first date... You barely know the person and even if you did, why would you just start making out?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What if it's a first date with someone you've been friends with for years?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Because you still don't know how it will affect your friendship and the first date will set things up for the rest of your relationship. If you start out fast, you're probably not going to take that long to go even further.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Just because it's called a date has nothing to do with your relationship with the person prior to that night. You could both have liked each other forever and been to shy to admit it until that point. Don't make assumptions.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I've been dating a girl for a month and I haven't even kissed her. I'm still nervous talking to her.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

That's cute though. After a month my boyfriend and I were already in each other's pants.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Haha, well I don't want it to go THAT quickly.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

That's faster than making out on the first date.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Ironically...we didn't make out on our first date...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Give and take. Less making out, more SEX.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Better get on that before someone else does.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

My friend just got her first kiss with her boyfriend of somewhere between 6 and 8 months. Although everyone else thought it was strange, I think it's sweet!

by Anonymous 12 years ago

How old are they?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

They're both seventeen.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

This is soooooo cute!

by Anonymous 12 years ago

depends on how old you are, how experienced you are, and how well you know them

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Aww, I remember when I was sweet and innocent and thought this. But then I discovered how much fun making out was. Now it's free make outs for everyone!

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Same here! xD

by Anonymous 12 years ago

See this is totally situational. Like many other people pointed out, it depends on a lot of things whether or not you should for it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

There are a lot of prudes on this site.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Personally, that's way too fast for me, but then again, everything's too fast for me. And I know plenty of other people who don't even kiss on the first date. But then again, I know kids who get drunk at make out at school dances, and that's their first date. Everyone's pacing is different, and I don't have any right to set someone else's, let alone establish some sort of aphorism of dating.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

My religion teacher last year (I go to a Catholic school) had a Theology of the Body section. Among many other teachings on "virtue" and such, this included a relationship rule book. Some examples: For the first five to six months, you should just make eye contact. Get to know eachother. At six months, you can hold hands! This should be the first form of physical contact. Hand-to-shoulder, hand-to-face/head, hugging, etc. comes much, much later.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

That's absolutely ridiculous. So you have to wait a year to hug your boyfriend/girlfriend? That's bullshit.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Of course it's bullshit. That class was a joke.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

By the way, this is the same teacher who would justify everything about Christianity with: "Well, it's what the Pope says and I trust him!" and "Because god made it that way and Jesus said so in the Bible!". She's one of the nicest people I've ever met, but the woman is the epitome of "blind sheep".

by Anonymous 12 years ago

She sounds like a moron.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Wait a second.. the Pope is catholic, not christian.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Are you joking..?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

No..?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Catholicism is a division of Christianity.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yes, I know.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

So why did you comment "the pope is catholic not Christian" ?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Catholics are Christian, but Christians aren't necessarily Catholics. So the Pope IS Christian, he just doesn't have authority over the Christians outside of the Catholic church. But the basis of all Christian religions are basically the same, so as long as he isn't talking about something that is specific to Catholics, he'd still be defending Christian values.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Makes sense. I'm just a dumbass.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

*Is basically the same Yeah, I just Grammar Nazi'd myself.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Every single time I've made out with a guy, we weren't on a date (or even in a relationship or anything) and neither of us really saw it coming. But hey, it's pretty enjoyable, so I'm totally okay with it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

dude i'm on the internet. What the fuck is a makeout

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Some people make out before they go on any dates.

by Anonymous 12 years ago