+518 When are girls gonna learn that phrases like "I'm fine" and "No, you can go" are taken seriously by guys? I'm sorry, are we supposed to assume your lying and read your mind? amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yes. Yes you are because most guys if theY cared enough would be able to tell your girlfriend is lying and there's a difference between every girls I'm fine lie and truth. Also it has become a pretty widely known fact that these things are lies

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Or you could just say what you mean instead of playing retarded mind games. But no! That would be too easy, amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

god you just don't get it!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

There's nothing to get. You either be honest about what you think and feel, or you complicate everything and increase the chances of breakup. Stop fucking with our heads and just say what you really mean, I gaurantee you that it will save everyone a lot of time and energy.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You should calm down a bit...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What makes you think I'm not calm?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Okay... Thanks for not answering.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I just don't know how to answer... Sorry

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That's probably because I've been calm.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Ok. How about you go eat some cereal and I go watch some tv?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Deal (:

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I cannot count how many times people have told me to "calm down" when all I did was point out their stupidity. y

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm a girl, and I agree! Saying "I'm fine." should never mean anything else than "I'm fine."

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i'm a girl too and i definitely agree. i actually say what's wrong when people ask me. but i think a lot of girls say "i'm fine" as a way to get attention for what's going wrong without seeming like they're doing it for attention.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

There are those, but on the other hand, there are the ones who say "I'm fine" because they don't want to bother the person with telling them what is really wrong.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree for the most part. Even if a girl says she's fine she obviously doesn't want to straight up tell the guy that there is something wrong so it's her fault.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think it's kind of funny how--because of the question in the end--if you vote Yeah You Are you're saying that yes, men should assume we're lying and read our minds, and if you vote No Way, you're saying the opposite.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

well im a girl and i say "im fine" just to avoid arguing with the guy about whatever situation at hand.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

this is exactly why guys will never understand girls. THERE'S SOMETHING CALLED BODY LANGUAGE. Learn to read it, it's really not that hard.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Seriously! Lol

by Anonymous 13 years ago

ok then. hey guys, let's start something to where everytime we wave our hands, we want to hang out with that girl. If we put up two fingers, something is wrong. The girls should be able to figure it out, it's just body language? That was a stupid arguement, as was yours.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

@654352 (Anonosaurus): what if we are blind because i am sure body launguage doesn't come in braille

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Why should we learn body language when we both know the English language? We shouldn't have to guess what's wrong. Just tell us what the fuck is wrong instead of making things harder than they need to be.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I never really got why girls do that.. And I AM one. When I say "I'm fine", I really am fine. When I say "you can go" I mean it, I don't mind.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree that girls should be honest with guys, but sometimes, it'd be nice if a guy would be use some empathy and realise on his own that what he is doing might be wrong.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

*would use

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I don't really understand why we do this either, but i'm not gonna lie and say I don't do this, 'cause I do.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

When I'm just having a sucky day for no good reason and someone asks what's wrong I say I'm fine because I don't want to seem like a whiner. When someone asks me if something's wrong and I do have a problem with something they did or whatever, I say so. Seems fair to me.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm a girl and I wish girls would stop being fake, playing mind games, and messing with guys when its not right. Just be honest and be real. If you want your guy to treat you right, give him the same respect. Then again, maybe that's why I've never had a boyfriend...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(Life(:): dont worry, you totally have ur outlook right :)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i think 1 reason most guys believe ''i am fine'' because we grew up with that like scrapping on knees on concrete from taking a too sharp turn on our bikes when we are like 7 and have blood on the concrete hands and knees we are ''fine'' but can we use that dirty rag you know, to us ''i am fine'' means either you feel like you can handle this or you are actually fine you know

by Anonymous 13 years ago