Two guys checking out girls: Guy 1: "Dude, that girl is hot." Guy 2: "Yeah, but she has a kid." Guy 1: "Oh, nevermind then... Two girls checking out guys: Girl 1: "He is hot!!!" Girl 2: "You know, he has a baby." Girl 1: "Aww, how old is it? That's so sweet!", amirite?
A guy and pedobear checks a girl out: Guy: "Dude, that girl is hot." Pedobear "Her baby is hotter!"
i think i would have the same answer as the guy....
I would never date a guy with a kid, or at least it would make it very unlikely.
Why? Just because he has a kid doesn't mean you'll get pregnant by association.
Besides excess baggage? He has a kid meaning he's not careful.
But responsible enough to continue to take care of the baby and mature enough to (hopefully) be civil with the mother.
But I agree. I wouldn't date someone with a kid. Too much baggage and I'm too young. ;D
Yeah I mean maybe in 10 years but I'm too young for that now. And great if he's responsible enough to take care of the child, but he should have been responsible enough to not have an accident.
Ten years, I think I'd still be too young to be with someone who has a child with someone else. x3 I'd like to have my own kids before I take care of someone else's.
Accidents happen, though. That's what they are: accidents. Keeping condoms in your wallet can create microscopic holes (because of all the friction) that you'd never know about and taking certain pills can offset birth control. If he was just bangin' everyone, then that's all on him. But sometimes, accidents just happen.
The chances of a complete accident are so slim...if you're being careful ie birth control and condom then there's basically no room for error, otherwise, you're not being careful.
But if you keep condoms in your wallet and you get sick (I think it's bacterial medication?) it could happen.
And just because it's slim doesn't mean it doesn't happen. :3
None of the guys I know keep one in their wallets, that's the kind of thing a guy that sleeps around does...that's why when the doctors prescribe antibiotics they also recommend a second form of birth control.
The guys I know in committed relationships do, so they always have one on hand if the opportunity to have sex presents itself.
Oh, I didn't know that. My mom worked at an OB/GYN office and she only mentioned that antibiotics (I spent forever trying to remember this damn word e-e) could offset birth control. xD
I'm not defending every guy with a kid because in almost every single situation, he or both parties were not responsible. Just saying accidents can sometimes happen.
Actually hardly anybody I know in a committed relationship uses a condom, most rely on just birth control. The ones I do know keep condoms in the bedroom.
Oh. I like to be extra safe, so we use condoms. But he has this case 'cause his mom is weird and it protects it and such. We can't keep condoms in our bedrooms, so we buy single packs. e-e
Why wouldn't you be able to keep condoms in your bedrooms? I use birth control and my boyfriend always uses a condom.
yeah but that means if you two get serious, you'll always have to be around his ex and then might end up being the dreaded stepmom. well, assuming he stuck around for the kid.
Well it also usually means the guy had a baby and didn't stick with the mother. Why would you want to be with a guy like that?
It probably shows he's more responsible than the mother, honestly. If he's trying to do the best thing for his kid, then there's no reason to patronize him for having a kid. Accidents happen.
Well, it shows that he's not some deadbeat dad that left his kid.
The OP has clearly never heard of the word MILF....
Don't be silly, of course I have. I had just finished watching an episode of Teen Mom before making this post, so that's what this is inspirted from.
I'm 19 and very much in love with a guy who has a 4-year old. The only thing different is you can't be a selfish person. I don't see any difference between kidless guys and those with kids other than that. Accidents happen.
I put YYA cause that's how most girls would think..I wouldn't though. My ex had his ex pregnant at the time I was dating him..a lotttt of drama associated with that.
I don't think I would date a guy that had a kid (at my age, the only guys that have kids are disgusting and the babies are in foster care) but I still think it's cute, especially if the guy is still with his girlfriend raising the child.
Are condoms even reliable?
now try talking about SMART guys checking a girl out
guy 1: "that girl is hot"
guy 2: "yeah but she has a kid"
guy 1: "well obviously she puts out!"