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No matter what society tells us, we should all save sex for marriage, amirite?
by Anonymous11 years ago
How about we just do what we're comfortable with? What's so hard about that?
by Anonymous11 years ago
Well we can all do whatever we want and what we are most comfortable but often times what we want is not always right
by Anonymous11 years ago
I just made a post about this. Personally, I think morals are subjective. Your right isn't always someone else's right. There isn't one right and one wrong for everyone. Although, I get the feeling you're religious, in which case I know you won't agree with me on that and that's fine.
by Anonymous11 years ago
pff I don't like to consider myself religious. It is a term used to define people who are considered weak, pushovers, uneducated etc. but I know what you mean and yes, I am a proud follower of Christ who still considers the Bible to be valid in every walk of life. I still believe that there is still a such thing as right and wrong and as we each try and do our own thing we have ended up in a world where genocide is commonplace, forced abortion happens far too often, innocent people die because of drunkenness and the list goes on and on. The vast majority may agree that these things are wrong but because we have tried to eliminate a set right and wrong it has resulted in the world as we know it today.
by Anonymous11 years ago
And how do you know what's right?
by Anonymous11 years ago
...why don't we all just do what we're comfortable with without other people declaring it wrong?
by Anonymous11 years ago
you may be comfortable with murder, you may be comfortable with alcohol, or smoking, or gossiping or lying BUT it doesn't make it right. And I still believe that there is a universal standard of right and wrong in certain areas in life.
by Anonymous11 years ago
I'm sorry, usually I respec other people's opinions, but that's just ridiculous. I can't even tell if you're worth arguing with. I know people who are very religious who realize that it's impractical to believe every word the bible says.
by Anonymous11 years ago
lololololol
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by Anonymous11 years ago
You seem as though you believe pushing what your religion tells you on to other people is right...
by Anonymous11 years ago
How about everyone does what they want without other people judging?
by Anonymous11 years ago
I agree 100% with you. Sadly, that is not possible nowadays where people believe they must judge you because they think they are right. But the idea of a world without judgement is pretty damn nice.
by Anonymous11 years ago
What about gay people who live where they aren't allowed to get married
by Anonymous11 years ago
If somebody believes in abstinence until marriage, chances are they don't support the gay community
by Anonymous11 years ago
I break that statement. I would prefer to abstain, but i see nothing wrong with gay marriage.
by Anonymous11 years ago
I personally believe marriage, but whatever floats your boat...
I think it's better if you're close and committed to the person, though.
by Anonymous11 years ago
Most people are going to do it whenever they want, whether society says to or not.
by Anonymous11 years ago
>'No matter what society tells us'
>mfw Human society invented the concept of marriage and abstinence
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by Anonymous11 years ago
I LIKE SEX.
by Anonymous11 years ago
How about everyone stops treating sex like it's a moral issue? Morals are based on how something affects other people, but sex is personal.
by Anonymous11 years ago
Yeah no. I get that it works for some people and they are happy waiting until they are married for the first time they have sex and that's cool, but there is no one way that everyone //should// be having their sex life, it really is no one else's business. I am 100% happy with my decision to not "save" myself for marriage because //I// don't find it necessary and I don't even know if I do want to get married anyway.
by Anonymous11 years ago
I'd rather wait until I was ready.
If that means after marriage, fine whatever.
The only time I judge someone based on their sex life is when it's a girl who appears to think STDs are Pokémon.
by Anonymous11 years ago
That sounds an awful lot like judging to me.
by Anonymous11 years ago
Things/actions aren't "right" or "wrong". They're either things with negative consequences or things with positive consequences. So it depends on whether the outcome of sex is positive or negative for you (for me it's very much positive).
by Anonymous11 years ago
By saying people should ignore what society says, you're pretty much saying that no matter what your personal decision is on the matter, if it's not abstinence it's not your legitimate decision. Apparently if you dont stay abstinent, it was the result of "society" forcing you to act "impurely". Apparently without society, no one would have premarital sex. It's not like people can make their own decisions or anything.
Besides, this post doesnt even make any sense because you're saying people should ignore society and listen to you, despite the fact that you are part of society. It would've made more sense if you said ignore society and do what makes you comfortable.
by Anonymous11 years ago
Morals are based on personal belief and I think everyone should do what they're comfortable with when they're comfortable doing it. I'm choosing to wait till marriage, but if you aren't, good for you.
And I'm really getting tired of the way people talk about "society." Society is everybody around you that influences you, so basically what you're saying is "Everybody should ignore all outside influences and save sex for marriage."
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