+579 It's kind of sad how girls treat gay guys more like accessories than human beings, amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

My gay best friend treats ME more like an accessory. Lol, I don't mind, though. Gotta love em XD

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i have the cliche gay guy best friend and when all these girls at my school found out they were just like "OMG! YOU KNOW A GAY GUY!? I LOVE GAY PEOPLE!!!1!1one" it's just like yeahhh..

by Anonymous 13 years ago

One of my friends is gay, and when he came out, apparently one girl said "FINALLY! NOW I HAVE A SHOPPING/MANI-PEDI BUDDY!" No lie.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It’s even more sad how some girls ‘love’ gay guys and hate lesbians.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well most dudes hate gays and get all turned on by lesbians.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think its all super stupid. Hating them and such. I have a BI friend, a super stereotypical gay friend, and a guy who is one of the last people you would 'expect' to be gay. He- He would never go shopping with me. I love that hes gay, because I don't have to be afraid he will start liking me again. It ruined our friendship the first time.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I know a girl like that. She said she walked in on her sister and her girlfriend when she was a little kid, and since then she's always felt grossed out around lesbians. On the flipside, she thinks my gay friend is the cool person ever. :|

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I guess it would be, if in the instances that happens they didn't totally love it. How is it sad when both people involved are happy? You sound really judgmental, and in this case it's pointless.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I am really judgemental, but that's besides the point. I'm just trying to make the point that the "sassy, gay bestfrend" is such a stereotype now. It's such a fad for a girl to say "GAY BEST FRIENDS!" Most gay guys I know aren't totally happy with this idea. Why does someone's sexual orientation have to make them so different from everyone else? It's just a chemical in their brain. And you sound judgemental for saying I sound really judgemental.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

God damnit. First gays complain about us stoning them to death, and now they're complaining because they're treated like "handbags". Stop complaining, faggots. You only get to complain if you're a functioning member of society, i.e. if you're ABLE TO HAVE KIDS.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

their testicles and penis still work. they could have kids.....

by Anonymous 13 years ago

lol. Apparently, being gay means you're infertile. Troll.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

My history teacher can't have kids... She's tried to get pregnant for so long.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Cool story bro

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Not a bro, but whatever.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm pretty sure its just the expression. Take for example "like taking candy from a baby". A good majority of time babies and/or candy is not involved. so when they say "cool story bro" it is not neccesarrily implying you are a bro, just that it was a pointless comment.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Pretty sure there is A LOT more to society than being able to have a child. And maybe gays don't want to be stoned to death or treated like handbags. Maybe they want to be treated like a NORMAL HUMAN?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

it is irritating, like this one girl is like, they only want to be your friend because your gay, and i m like no its because we are friends

by Anonymous 13 years ago

@Crunkzombies: that's just an attention-grabbing thing; it's become cliché to be "bi for attention"(not that it doesn't still work lol) so some girls do the opposite in an effort to stand out. If they like gay guys, it's obviously not a moral objection. Too bad "strictly dickly" often means "totally whorely".

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah, they're people, too, their choices don't change that! (I'm actually not being sarcastic.)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Why does it seem like only straight people ever call it a choice?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Because people don't like their choices being criticized. You're telling me you absolutely had to date your girlfriend?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well no, but I did fall for her which was totally out of my control. If you believe being gay is a choice you must believe everyone is bisexual at one point then choose to go one way or the other. Did you use to be attracted to men or something?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Uh, what kind of illogical conclusion was that? No, I'm saying I could choose to be gay, like many have. Because it's a choice, and is influenced by your upbringing. Just like your choice of foods is influenced by who raised you, so is your choice of sexual preference. You can choose to eat meat, or not, and that is influenced by your parents. Like that, your parents' telling you to be straight, or to accept your homosexual tendencies, has an effect psychologically.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

A child can't choose how it is raised. I couldn't control meeting my girlfriend, my circumstances led me to her. People are not in control of what happens to them.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's still a choice. I'm saying it's influenced By how you're raised, but it remains a choice.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So you chose to be straight?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Sí señora.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

When?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Right now. Yesterday. 8 years ago when I became interested in girls, all the time?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

But being gay or straight is so much more than being with someone of a certain sex. My gay friend tried dating a girl, but it didn't make him straight. Your sexuality is who you are attracted to. You can not choose your preferences. I hate yellow apples. I can't just choose to like them. To me they are gross. It's the same with how I feel towards guys. They're not gross, but I don't like them as more than friends.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So you're friends with an apple? Yeah, well I guarantee that most people don't find their soulmate on their first date. And I can almost guarantee that if one wishes, s/he can change his/her sexual preference. Not immediately, no. But mind over matter. Remember ChosenToLead? He did it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Actually, you can't choose to be gay. It is programmed in your brain around six weeks into pregnancy if the mother is under abnormal amounts of stress.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Right. Evidence?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Oh. My. God. That is crazy stupid. Unless they are BI, they can't choose to be turned on by the opposite sex.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Really? Evidence?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

There's no way that either party is going to convince the other that they are right. Go troll somewhere else on the internet.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No, but evidence is still required.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Evidence? How about my friend who wanted to be in a relationship with a girl. She wanted to laid. He couldn't get himself to do that because he wasn't attracted to her. He was a attracted to the guy who sits next to me in English. Evidence is that people- well most people wouldn't choose to be gay, in a world that treats them like trash.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Are you crazy? What percentage of the population even disagrees with their choices... like 20%? And of that, how much actually do something against them? Like 1%? They aren't really disadvantaged at all. Your evidence didn't make sense at all. " How about my friend who wanted to be in a relationship with a girl. She wanted to laid. He..." What! Is your friend a guy or girl... Also anecdotal evidence holds no relevance. Especially that stupid example.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

My friend is a Guy. His girlfriend was a girl who was basically willing to fuck anything that walked. I know ALOT of people who hate them for their "choices" as you so put it. He didn't choose. Was the point of the story. He didn't WANT to have unrequited love/like. He didn't WANT to hurt his girlfriend. He just WAS. It WASN'T a choice. Find a gay. And ask them.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Okay. So she's a slut, and he isn't attracted to her. Sooo? I'm not attracted to ever single girl on the planet. Plus, he wanted to lose his virginity, but he couldn't? What? More moralless people? Yeah, once again, anecdotal evidence. The statistic remains. Very few. Yeah, ask ChosenToLead. He agrees with me.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Ever hear some on say faggot? Or that's so gay? Imagine if you ACTUALLY were gay. One person openly hateful towards gays is too many.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

To quote from my favorite fictional character (who isn't gay) "Really, if you are holding out for universal popularity, I'm afraid you will be [here] for a very long time." Sorry, there will never be a time that everyone will accept gays. Just as some people are still racist, some people still sexist, some will always be homophobic. Public opinion matters little. If you can't handle that, suck it up.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Public opinion matters little? I beg to differ. Since you are such a stickler for evidence... "Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning youth are up to four times more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual peers, according to the Massachusetts 2006 Youth Risk Survey." gaylife.about.com. Anymore proof can be gathered by searching "gay suicide statistics" or "gay suicide statistics .(insert gov or edu depending on preference)" Just because it is impossible for universal popularity doesn't mean you should just accept that people will always hate you, and never strive to gain acceptance and understanding. If Rosa Parks had accepted that women will always be treated lesser than men where would women be? If Martin Luther King Jr. accepted that racism would always be a problem where would African-Americans be? A long ways from where they are now.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No, I'm not saying getting more rights is a bad thing; go for it, as long as it's morally valid. Also, you said "One person openly hateful towards gays is too many." Looks like you're holding out for universal popularity, not just more rights, chica. Once again, observational study. Maybe there's a lurking variable, actually, there most probably is a lurking variable. It's like this: In my school, there is a very strong correlation between being on the Cross Country Team, and how high your GPA is. Most cross country runners have very high GPAs. Why is that? It's not because people with high GPAs do cross country, nor is it because cross country raises your grade. It's because people who have a high work ethic apply themselves fully to each task, and cross country is probably one of the most grueling sports. Work ethic is the lurking variable. There is nothing to suggest the correlation is valid.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You say not to use personal experiences as proof, yet you were bringing up ChosenToLead's personal experiences to say being gay is a choice. Why is that? Also, why do you continue to ignore the only gay person's responses? Out of everyone, shouldn't the gay person understand the most?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah, you're right. I shouldn't do that. Even so, there is a difference. Someone said it was impossible to change your sexuality. So I gave them the best example I could. But I'll refrain from that in the future. No, actually. Tell me, when asked about who knows more about the bread, is it the maker, or the eater? Well obviously the Maker. And His points are clear. The truth is, it can't be determined either way. Most of the evidence isn't incontrovertible.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I am not necessarily holding out for universal population. What I was thinking as I wrote that, is can you think of one person who has said "UGH! You like the OPPOSITE sex? DISGUSTING!!! You are going to hell!!" As for your other point- The "lurking variable" is bullying. They are teased and hurt so often they become depressed. Who does bullying target? The different. Because gays do not follow the "norm" in the dating scene, they get picked on. Everytime someone says "THAT"S GAY!" I mentally cringe for my friends who ARE. If the person is close enough to me I will tell them off for it. When the try and correct themselves it is always "stupd or lame" Can you even imagine that? If your school is so tolerant of differences consider yourself lucky. You didn't grow up in such a hurtful environment. (Got off topic) The correlation is very much so valid. I have dealt with my fair share of bullying. Public opinion may not matter to a 70 year old homosexual...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

grandfather, but to a fifteen year old freshman, the world is fitting in. It seems like the end of the world if your school peers don't accept you, because you are more often then not stuck with them. I have no doubt that it isn't because they are CC runners that they have high GPA's, but most likely the reason they were most drawn to working so hard in school is that they know it pays off from CC. The work ethic alone isn't enough, or the basketball team would be just as high. It is the specific ethic of CC, hours of self-driven, focused, independent work for an end goal, that translate into the HIGHEST GPA's. Talk to pikabeau. Ask them about their experiences that they sat through. See how bad it is. From personal stories.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No, but you said one person is too many. Which means you want universal popularity. Which is impossible. Actually, so what? I wouldn't care at all if someone said "Oh that's short!" Or "Oh that's white!" It's called self-esteem. Most people can tolerate that. Unless they're mentally unstable. Yeah, there we go. Bullying is a factor, however, it isn't just gays who are bullied. Plenty of people are, and they have the self-esteem to handle it. Are gays mentally unstable? Because generally people can tolerate minor teasing, and take it up with a school instructor or teacher. I mean, really, unless you're like 10, grow up and get help. Once again, self-esteem. Try building a relationship with your Creator, and see how confident you become. Right. Work ethic. Her* she isn't schizophrenic.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

First, the easiest to address- I wasn't sure is pikabeau was a girl or boy or not, so I said "they" I commonly do this online so as to not offend them. As for your point, For a moment I just want you to picture this scenario. You are a very good actor. You and your best friend have just finished a stellar performance and the entire cast is eating at [restaurant] to celebrate. From the crew "section" of the table, you hear murmurings of the boy who quit theatre because someone told him you were gay. (this is true- in this scenario you are gay.) You also find out that someone else at this table is extremely anti-gay. You and your friendships, as well as your solidity in your sexuality allow you to follow your post and let it roll off you. 'So what? I am on the other side, happy with friends! Forget him!' However, you happen to know that the boy that is discussing it right along with them is very much so in the closet, and just getting to know his.. tbc

by Anonymous 13 years ago

sexuality, and be comfortable with it. He hasn't told many people, so he can only know for sure very few of his friends won't react the same way. Worse, he was speaking of a facebook post that got a lot of messages saying "faggot" "stupid gay" and other such taunts. You've probably figured out by now that this is very true. It had happened. That guy, a close friend of mine, has to deal with getting up the courage to tell people he knows- I am fairly certain he only told me because I went off on him when I thought he was going to call a guy "faggot" but instead he was going to say "fuck-face"- deal with the imminent rejection many people will give him, as well as daily taunts tossed across the classroom. So what if my personal belief is that I don't think he should have to deal with this? I don't think any of the teasing is going to stop, but it doesn't mean that I can't be like that stupid school district that each year implements new ways to ...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

"crack down on bulling" Like your CC story, there are different factors that affect the bullying, like different sports producing slightly different work-ethics. "You hair looks stupid" and other stupid things most likely don't happen to people all that often, and don't really affect them so much. But daily bullys like "you're so fat" "you're gay." are bound to keep at them. imagine being told by people close to you, daily, with total honesty that they thought you were too white! and that everyday someone- or multiple someones- said "that's so white." Eventually, you start to believe them. I've seen it happen to my friend, the last person I thought it would happen to. It's hard to get used to being yourself to the point that you can just let it role off you in that sort of environment. What exactly is your point? It's there issue, they should man up and deal with it?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So you're just gonna totally ignore the comments on this post?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Pretty much. Most of it is the same argument y'all been using, and I've expressed my views thoroughly. You're just bringing it around in circles.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Some people have asked you questions. It's only polite to answer.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah, etiquette doesn't exist on the interwebz. Ill answer them all if you answer how they date fossils. In your own words, not a website's.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Ever hear of netiquette? It exists. I answered your question on a relevant post; no need to spam here. I answered your question, now you answer mine. Why do you believe being gay is wrong whenever it doesn't hurt anyone? Why do you insist it is a choice when common sense tells you it's not for most people? Why is what two consenting adults do in the privacy of their own homes any of your business?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Ah, but you didn't answer it. You already said you were mistaken, so shouldn't you go ahead and answer it? I'm waiting... Common sense tells us it isn't? Uh-huh. So you're telling me you're forced to date your girlfriend, that you have absolutely zero say in the business? Please. That's pathetic. Did you know the correlation between identical twins is only 50%? If one is homosexual, shouldn't they BOTH be homosexual? Because they are identical in every way. The same sperm cell and the same egg cell. Same characteristics. Tell me, why isn't it 100%?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

My sister and I are identical twins. She has had one hand smaller than the other since birth. My hands are symmetrical. Even with identical twins not everything is 100% the same. In 50% of identical twins if one is gay the other one is too. In 30% of nontwin siblings if one is gay the other one is. Compare that to nonrelated people. Only 2-10% of the general population is gay. That proves that in -some- cases it is genetic. As for me dating my girlfriend, I'd still be gay if we weren't dating. You do choose who you date, but not whether or not you're attracted to that.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Uh, no. If it's genetic, 100% of identical twins would be the same orientation as their twin. You know about her Hand? Forming problem. Y'all both have the exact same gametes. The EXACT Same genetic coding from your parents. EXACTLY. Now, it's interesting how it's only 50%. It's gotta be influenced by how you're raised. It can't be genetic. Honestly, this is well over your head. You don't seem to understand third grade earth science, i don't know why I expect you to know high school biology.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Can you please stfu? You're clogging up my notifications and clearly you have nothing interesting to say because everyone is against you. So quit trying to appear intelligent because you aren't: you're a Bible-kissing, preaching loser that Googles all of your information because there's no genuine smartness in that head of yours. So I'm taking a nap now, bye.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Her genetic coding controls the size of her hand too. DNA controls all of your traits. She obviously got that mutation after the egg split. 50% of the time, the egg splits before the gene controlling sexuality is formed since only 50% percent of identical twins share being gay. It's simple really.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Actually, no, if she had the mutation from the gametes you would. I thought you said you were more intelligent than I, yet you don't know simple biology? You're saying that forming in the womb doesn't affect traits like that? What!? So, if you were to take a baby out at 24 months, it's gonna be the exact same as fully grown? Uh... No. You can inject all sorts of things into the womb to change the baby. Most are harmful, though. Really, you're clueless, and you're just skewing you're own flawed logic to fit your beliefs.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I never said you can take out a baby prematurely and it be okay. You're just putting words in mouth. It is totally possible for things to affect one twin and not the other. If something affects an embryo before it splits, both twins will be affected. In some cases nothing enters the womb until after the egg splits and only affects one baby. You still must admit that 50% of twins sharing a sexual orientation in the event of one twin being gay compared to only 2-10% of the general population is pretty significant. Even in non twin siblings 30% of the time if one is gay so is the other one.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Because of upraising, maybe? Also, you do realize that these aren't conclusive? Causation can NOT be attributed based on observational studies. Ask any statistician.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Do you choose your upbringing? No. That would mean it's not a choice. Then what can determine the cause? Sexuality is not something you can see so you can't really ever find ONE cause for it. There are several possible causes and I'm sure the cause is different for everyone.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I never said upraising was the cause. No. It may play a substantial part, but ultimately, it's a choice. You choose to be attracted to women, all the time. Whether or not you'll admit that is a different story. You can deny it to everyone, including yourself.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

And exactly how do you know homosexuals can choose their sexuality? Are you implying you're gay? Also, I'm pretty sure gays wouldn't choose to be gay: they know how much shit they get from people like you; therefore, it's something beyond our options and decisions.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Listen, you present the worst, most-outdated, crappy arguments. You don't know anything; you're like twelve. You're saying thieves don't choose to steal, knowing it places them in a bad light? You're saying I have no choice but to come on Here and argue, knowing that ignorant folks like you will hate me? Huh? I have no say? Seriously, learn something. They are hardly hated at all. The only one's afraid to come out are cowards incapable of logical or rational thought. Or too cowardly to face the possibility that someone might think badly of them. Boo-hoo. They can continue to lust, for all I care, but don't keep whining about it. They made the choice. They can change, but instead they whine and complain.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Thank you for saying something about my arguements- I work hard to make at least SOMETHING noticeable about them. [: Also, spend more time on your comments, huh? It's cute. Get some friends.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Woah, child, resorting to insults? Tsk tsk. What a shame.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Glad to know I insulted you- I work hard. I guess you could say it's shameful, but to me it makes me feel better about myself. I'm also very racist and judgemental. Nice to meet you. And you're right. I am twelve. Finally, I'm not assumed to be like, ten. God.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Prove to me it's a choice. Sexuality is not as black and white as you make it seem.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The identical twin argument is pretty substantial. Prove to me it's not. Just so you know, nobody knows for a fact. There's evidence for both, and basically it's whatever you think.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The twin studies just further prove that it might be something in the womb or maybe genetics that make -some- people gay. You can't go around saying it's only a choice unless you made the choice. But no matter how hard you try, I don't think a man will ever turn you on.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Actually I did make the choice, and I do think that that is a possibility, if I chose. Once again, you can deny to everyone, including yourself.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So a man could make you hard?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If I chose so, yeah.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So you're bisexual? I don't know any heterosexual people who can get turned on by both sexes.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Sure, yeah, if I wished for that.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That explains why you think it's a choice. You're one of those rare exceptions that claims to choose to be straight by suppressing their bisexuality

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Uh-huh. Diminish the validity of my response, that's cool.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Your response is still plenty valid. I now know that you're a self hating bisexual who "chooses" to be straight. You take out your anger towards your own sexuality on other people by condemning anyone who wasn't born straight and saying they choose to be who they are.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

First off, no, if anything I am a narcissist. Secondly, I don't have any anger at all, I'm simply explaining what I believe to be true, albeit in a blunt, insincere method. Thirdly, who are you to tell me what I am and am not? If I say I'm not bisexual, I'm not bisexual.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Where I come from, if you're openly gay the vast majority of people (like 70%) won't be your friend if you're gay. If I came out to my classmates, I'd be shunned. It's bad enough being around heterosexist remarks all day, just imagine if they new I was gay.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Uh-huh. Do you have low self-esteem? (Serious question) And I highly doubt that. My school is really conservative, but we don't really even care about that. What we DON'T like is when the gay people act annoying, and try to hop into bed with everyone. No. If you're gay, yet cool, fine. That's cool with most people, whether or not your statistic is true.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

My self esteem isn't low, I'd just rather keep the friends I have. Come to west alabama sometime. Most people here are the type of people who expect you to be straight super conservative christians, and if you're not they won't talk to you. I had one girl refuse to sit next to me for being agnostic.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I totally know where you are coming from. I go to school in Wisconsin. Things have diversified to the point where pretty much the only thing that matters any more is homosexuality. We have atheists and many different religions, as well as varied political views. I am sorry that you have to deal with such a school, or group of "friends". :(

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Eh, it's not so bad. It would be worse if I wasn't in the closet, but me and my girlfriend have only told a handful of people. What makes it bad is that my classmates don't even say, "that's so gay" they say, "that's so homosexual." If they said gay I wouldn't care because I understand that words change, but the word homosexual hasn't changed. I know -some- of them would stop if they knew I was gay, but after watching how gay couples get treated at my school I decided it's not worth it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

"That's so homosexual?" That's stupid, they need to shut up. Tell you what, if anyone gives you crap, tell me and I'll come down there and beat 'em up Wisconsin style! :D

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'll tell them, but I can't promise they won't make cheese and/or sausage jokes. Stereotypes run rampant in such a small southern town.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Pshh... Fine with me. I don't give a shit. To be honest, outside of Milwaukee a lot of them are PROBABLY pretty close to true... I do know some who got run over by a tractor :P

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I know a lot of the stereotypes must be true. My grandpa and grandma live up there and they are huge from the stereotypical Wisconsin diet.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

One source: http://viewzone2.com/homosexual.html Paper discussing matters of why it's true: http://www.sciencedirect.com/science?_ob=ArticleURL&_udi=B6T09-48N3HPV-7&_user=499884&_rdoc=1&_fmt=&_orig=search&_sort=d&_docanchor=&view=c&_acct=C000024499&_version=1&_urlVersion=0&_userid=499884&md5=ed6213af2c8eca4913813c3df9785ae7 Eat it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

While I'm glad someone finally linked, that, in no way, validates your claims. It presents an interesting case, no doubt, but these are all observational studies, and, as a statistician, I tell you that you cannot derive causation from observational studies.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

How old are you, like fifteen?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

16, but that doesn't change the validity of the information.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

My friend is gay, he's fucking hilarious!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's kind of sad people generalize like this D;

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That's why I don't tell them I'm gay until after we're already friends...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Guys are like that WAY worse then girls. Like the guys at my school are all "I hate gays!!1! They can all die!!!!!1!1!!" But then they're also like "Lesbians are SO sexy!!!11!!!!1!"

by Anonymous 13 years ago

ChosenToLead was either never gay and lied to convice people it could happen, or an obvious troll. People cannot change their sexual orientation, but they can choose a life celebacy, which is totally different. Even people who have never had sex tend to identify as a certain orientation.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So what about like...pedophiles? Do they chose to like children or can they not help it?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No they can't help it. But that doesn't make it okay. The only thing that makes any relationship okay, gay or straight, is if it's consensual. Children cannot legally give consent so it's not okay.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Necrophilia? Beastiality? I think there's a choice.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Can a dead body consent? What about an animal? I know you can't help what you're attracted to, but it's only okay to act on as long as both parties consent.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The *openly* gay guy in my school is amazing- but not because he is gay. And my gay friend (In the CLOSET) is only my friend because after a confusing time when he was basically trying to force me to like him, I am only comfortable around him knowing that won't happen again. I can see the great guy he is again. My Bi-friend- FUCKING AMAZING! I love her! (not in that way though.)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The best evidence ever: The gay community. What more evidence do you need? Even the majority of straight people admit they never chose to be straight. You might think you chose, but you're a rare exception.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yes gay guys are total victims of everything. Poor babies. Um, they're humans too, exactly, if they don;t like it, then they should stop being pussies and stand up to it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

And be crushed by the majority of the world that is morally opposed to them?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

To be fair there arn't that many people who treat gay guys like accessories. And the ones that are being treated that way can stop being their friend and only hang around people that treat them like they are people.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That analogy would only work if you created gay people. A gay person knows more about being gay because they experience it. Have you experienced it? I'd trust a war veteran to tell me about WWII was like more than I would someone who read a book about wars in general. It's the same concept.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Hey, I'm not saying I know more. I'm saying God does. And He's made it clear.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

To be honest, I am Christian. I have read the bible, developed my personal relationship with God, and got confirmed without ever knowing he "looked down" on gays. It doesn't sound like the god I worship to smite down his children for simply being the way he created them. Remember, god has a plan for you, and if you believe in him, you will go to heaven. The ten commandments say nothing about "Thou shalt not be homosexual."

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Religion doesn't hold water in an argument. How do you know FOR SURE what the bible says about being gay is true? You don't. You kept insisting that being a gay is a choice when you've never even made that choice. For some people it might be a choice, but not for everyone. Most gay people were either born that way or became that way through uncontrollable circumstances. You act like you would know whether or not it's a choice, but you have no clue unless you are gay or you used to be gay.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If you believe that people choose which sex to be attracted to you must also believe the whole world is bisexual. Since you part of the human population of the world you are bisexual too.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If you believe that people choose which sex to be attracted to you must also believe the whole world is bisexual. Since you part of the human population of the world you are bisexual too.

by Anonymous 13 years ago