I did this today, and after reading this I feel bad.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Cool story bro.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

omg, woops i did that too. in fact a do that alot sumtines... wow way to make me feel bad post.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What you don't want to appear clingy so you purposely ignore him a bit?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

being clingy is the worst haha. but if a girl doesn't give a guy enough attention, we'll get the wrong idea

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I do that. xD

by Anonymous 13 years ago

GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY. Real men don't have feelings except strength, boners, and testosterone!! Jk, lol... You're right. (P.S.; This was intended to poke fun at the people who are really like that, because they're morons...)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

NIEY MECD SAWRT!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Man i'm having this problem right now. i'm like "we should hang out!" "sorry but i'm like super busy this weekend :(" if she actually cared, her busy schedule would simply be a setback, and not an excuse

by Anonymous 13 years ago

she still shouldn't cancel her plans with her friends just because you now want to hang out. That would be rude and unconsiderate. How long ago did you ask her?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm going through it right now. She won't even text me...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

girls like it when guys we are interested in text us first . We feel needy or on a strictly friends basis if we text them too much. But if shes not responding thats a different story

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I usually text her first, but now she isn't responding. I wanna text her, but I don't wanna seem clingy, like I have to be talking to her every second of the day. Oh, and she's my "girlfriend," btw. I put that in quotes because idk if she still likes me. I'm so confused.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Thats not good. Just talk to her about it. in person. Be like, is something wrong, blah blah, you dont respond to my texts a whole lot anymore. And if she makes an excuse that isnt exactly legitimate, somethings probably up

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Does being busy with schoolwork count as a legitimate excuse? I mean, she's top 10 in our class, and she's proud of it. But too busy to answer a text? This has me worried...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah that a real excuse, especially because it is close to the usual exam time. She may just need to really focus, not intentionally ignoring you.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Hopefully things get better after exams. =)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

yeah listen to LAKERSover HEAT. or only ask it once and drop it if she doesn't want to talk about it. but it'll get better I promise :) Shes probably just crazy stressed and she'll calm down in a while.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I guess only time will tell.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

We know you have feelings, but we can't be expected to know what they are if you always hide them, guys. Just sayin. Try being honest sometime; it's amazing how well it works with us.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree. Guys should be more comfortable with telling us their feelings or we'll never get the hint.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm always open to my girlfriend. But I think that's the problem. She doesn't really have to try to know what I'm feeling, and she loves trying to figure me out. Now that she knows, the magic's gone... =(

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think in a relationship you just have to learn when it's time to tell how you feel and when it's time to guess. It makes a big impact on a girl when a guy tells her their feelings and she usually will do whatever to make him feel better.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So I should tell her how I feel instead of waiting for her to figure it out?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree with the post but the rule is "best friends before boyfriends".

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Chicks before dicks, bros before hoes

by Anonymous 13 years ago

There ya go.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

but the question is what if they are not a chick or dick for girls bro or hoe for boys

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That made NO SENSE whatsoever.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

like for instance a guy knows a girl but obviously she is not a bro and she is not a hoe where would they fall what between bros and hoes

by Anonymous 13 years ago

They don't mean friendship, they mean bros before hoes, i.e. you'd choose your friends before you choose a girl

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Trying to find someone is so difficult for me. Seems easy for a lot of people though... :/

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You guys should just be gratefull you have a relationship i've been single for almost 2 years!! And not to sound stuck up or anything but i think im realy pretty but that i could loose a few pounds.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

rboyer23: i know right!! Its hard especialy if you're a girl

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You see, for our whole lives girls have been told that this is what we're supposed to do to get a guy to like us. If we show too much interest, they say, we're not interesting to him anymore. Most girls will also be really offended if one of their friends cancels on them to hang out with a boy. One of my friends seriously dissed me and called me shallow because the guy I like asked me to eat lunch with him and I had said I was sitting with her (she was right there when he asked me). I didn't want to lose the friendship so I told the guy no. Oh and maybe she said no because she isn't sure how you feel about her and she doesn't want to seem creepily eager to hang out with you. So you see, there are a lot of reasons for this. She might feel seriously bad for not hanging out with you (I did feel guilty for the above situation and I'm beginning to worry that it was a huge mistake...) but sometimes it just doesn't seem like she has a choice. Don't give up!

by Anonymous 13 years ago