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Explain to me ONE good reason to have sex before marriage, and I'll completely change my view of life. amirite?

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Explain to me one good reason why I shouldn't have sex before marriage and I'll change my view and stop doing it.

It's fun. You only get one life: pack in as much fun as possible.

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To know whether you're sexually compatible or not before you get married so it doesn't end in a nasty divorce.

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How can you have a good marriage without sexual chemistry?

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@855945

Gay people have great sex all the time! What do you mean they don't have sexual chemistry?

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@855961

Who says we aren't supposed to have sex with people of the same gender? There are many forms of sex, not just vaginal sex.

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@856130

What are you talking about?

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@To know whether you're sexually compatible or not before you get married so it doesn't end in a nasty divorce.

Yeah, because the person you want to marry will divorce you if you're not good enough in bed...

NoSoapRadios avatar NoSoapRadio Yeah You Are +2Reply
@NoSoapRadio Yeah, because the person you want to marry will divorce you if you're not good enough in bed...

Good and compatible are two completely different things. Your partner can be fantastic in bed, but if you aren't compatible to begin with, you never will be.

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@Good and compatible are two completely different things. Your partner can be fantastic in bed, but if you aren't...

what are you talking about!? You'll know you're compatible without having sex...

NoSoapRadios avatar NoSoapRadio Yeah You Are +2Reply
@NoSoapRadio Marriage isn't about sex.

Any married man will tell you that. It is about passion however, and that's difficult without sex. All stresses of marriage are also amplified by a lack of sex, proven in several studies.

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@NoSoapRadio Marriage isn't about sex.

They why must you wait till marriage to have sex?

fEMMAnists avatar fEMMAnist Yeah You Are 0Reply

because it doesn't matter ....

@ClaireTheBozo because it doesn't matter ....

Orly? It doesn't matter that thousands of teens get abortions everyday? It doesn't matter that thousands of people die every die of STD's everyday?

NoSoapRadios avatar NoSoapRadio Yeah You Are +1Reply
@NoSoapRadio Orly? It doesn't matter that thousands of teens get abortions everyday? It doesn't matter that thousands of people...

Whoa now.
Getting married does not automatically mean you aren't a teenager, and it doesn't automatically mean youre immune to STDs.

@ClaireTheBozo Whoa now. Getting married does not automatically mean you aren't a teenager, and it doesn't automatically mean...

but it does mean that you'll be better prepared for a baby, and you'll know what kind of person you're marrying.

NoSoapRadios avatar NoSoapRadio Yeah You Are +2Reply
@NoSoapRadio but it does mean that you'll be better prepared for a baby, and you'll know what kind of person you're marrying.

Not really.... not every sexual encounter before marriage is a trashy one night hookup in the gas station bathroom you know.

@NoSoapRadio but it does mean that you'll be better prepared for a baby, and you'll know what kind of person you're marrying.

also, down-voting my comments doesn't make you any more correct, which kind of speaks for itself in the fact that your argument didn't have a leg to stand on....

There are "good reasons" on both sides - but it comes down the individual. What is right for one person may not be right for another. If a person wants to wait for marriage, then that's their life - and it's right for them. If a person wants to have sex before marriage - and can practise smart and safe sex - then that's right for them.

Also, your arguments that being marriage prevents STDs and abortions isn't true - while they are lower in married couples, a marriage certificate doesn't automatically mean the couple wants children, or is ready for them - accidental pregnancies and abortions happen with married couples too.

well, you could die tomorrow. and everybody wants to "live like it's their last day" but still, i think waiting until marriage is best.

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