+147 As a guy, when a girl rejects you gently and tells you that she doesn't want a boyfriend or "your too much of a friend" you still assume that it has something to do with either your looks or personality, amirite?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

girls get this too

by Anonymous 13 years ago

More guys ask girls out than girls ask guys out so I'd imagine it happens to them a lot more.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

quick someone be a dick and correct his grammar. (maybe guilt trips will keep grammar nazis away)

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I'm sorry, I won't feel guilty for being bothered by stupid mistakes. You'd think with the rampant grammar nazism, people would actually learn the difference between "your" and "you're." It doesn't seem that difficult.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Damn our ruse has failed men. Fall back! The Nazis have broken through our front lines. We must support the front! Make haste! "Maybe THEIR just to lazy to care?" "Perhaps where THEY'RE at distracted them as they typed?" "Could it be that THERE device screwed up?" "YOUR just a little nit picker." "Maybe someone should pick on YOU'RE grammar."

by Anonymous 11 years ago

That should hold them back...but by god the others will hear..we dont have much time.. we need support

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Actually you got one of those right. Kind of. Well done! And if I misspell something or use improper grammar, I hope someone does take the time to pick on it, so I can learn from my mistakes. I'm sorry, but for words as common as "you're" and "your," mixing them up is as bad as claiming 2+2=5. People will realize you're not very bright, and they'll laugh at you, and you'll deserve it. I'm just trying to help.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I can't speak for other girls, but when I reject a guy with one of those reasons, it is actually because of his looks or personality - I just feel too bad to actually admit that to him. Yep.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Sadly this is true.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

My friend asked a girl out once, and she told him she didn't want a boyfriend at the moment. A week later she started dating another guy.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

When you say you don't want to be in a relationship, you honestly think that you mean it. Really, though, it just means the person isn't right for you, but you can't find a specific reason, or you can't articulate why. Personal anecdote: I went on a date with a guy, and we both said the same thing-- "I don't really want a relationship right now." But a few weeks later he was flirting with this other girl, and I had started dating a different guy. Even though we liked each other, there was something neither of us could define that was incompatible. When I said I didn't wasn't ready for a new relationship, I honestly thought I meant it... Even I was kind of surprised when I realized that wasn't actually true.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

When I say that I actually mean it, if its actually because of their looks I say that im not attracted to them.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

...Yeah, that's pretty much how it works. All my guy friends in the friend zone are there because of their looks or personality.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Well if they're your friends, they must have a personality that you have deemed good; otherwise they wouldn't be your friends.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Maybe not one you would want to date, though.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

^Yeah, exactly. Some parts of their personality are what I like for a friend, and other parts are just a turn-off.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

"A woman may very well form a friendship with a man, but for this to endure, it must be a assisted by a little physical antipathy" - Friedrich Nietzsche.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Maybe they were turned off by your username...

by Anonymous 11 years ago

That was almost funny. None of of my friends know about my amirite account.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

What other reason would there be?... Most of the time it's because you're not attracted enough to them physically or emotionally to take it further

by Anonymous 11 years ago