It's not stupid to wait until sex to have marriage, amirite?

Repeat off the homepage post.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No, it isn't. I swapped some of the words around to say it's okay to wait until you've had sex before you marry someone.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Ok. I'll change my words then: Rip-off from the homepage post. xD

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm cool with that. :)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

But oh noes you cant have secks b4 u r married it sais so rite heer in teh Bible rite next to the part aboot how often to beat ur slaves!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

There are other reasons for waiting besides the Bible.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Hahaha i like this. Fuck the haters it made me smile

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Nor is it stupid not to. Now lets all just get along.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

At first I thought I read this wrong. XD

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yes it is, sex is supposedly fun, you only have one life and should have a lot of fun.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I believe you may have read the post wrong...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Oops, yeah I did.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

A. you read the post wrong, B. supposedly? how old are you?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's a choice, and if someone is happier waiting for marriage then I'm not going to judge them : ) But it's not stupid to not wait either.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think it's really sweet to wait until you're married, and lose your virginity to eachother. Where is gets stupid is when people (like some people at my school for example) vow not to, like, kiss anyone until their wedding day. In my opinion, that is ridiculously dumb.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree that it'd be sweet but there wouldn't really be much pleasure..

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Agreed, for the girl at least. Still, there's something very significant about losing your virginity, and it's a really strong bond, despite the pain.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

yeah I understand that completely but you do also have to recognize that sometimes the person you lose your virginity to isn't the one you marry but still the right one.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I completely agree. I'm not planning on waiting till I get married. I just think it's a sweet thing if both parties want to do so. :)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

ok well in that case, were on the same terms here. :)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well then excellent

by Anonymous 13 years ago

'You gotta Test Drive the car before you Buy it' as my dad would always say :)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So you jump in bed with every single one of your boy/girlfriends just to make sure that it's fine to marry them if you so choose?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What if you find the clutch sticks? The wheels squeak? You wouldn't marry someone just account on how they do in bed? Really?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's not stupid at all, but what's stupid is waiting until marriage for your first kiss.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Who are you to say that that is stupid? Kissing may not be as strong a bond as sex, but it is still a bond. Wanting to wait until marriage to share that first experience with your spouse is NOT stupid.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You've never kissed your parents or your friends? I see kissing as something that you share with people you are close to (hell, people in France use it to greet each other), not just someone you are totally in love with.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Obviously that kind of kiss is different. A romantic kiss with someone you love is a very special thing, and very different from kisses between family and friends. It's not stupid to want to save that for marriage.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Until you get married, kiss, play, and have sex for the first time, and realize there's no physical chemistry. Sex may not be everything but intimacy is more important than alot of kids realize and being stuck for life with someone who just doesn't do it for you seems silly to me. But hey, to each their own.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Physical chemistry isn't everything, but you need to fall in love with a person's personality, not the physical chemistry. Would you honestly not marry the love of your life because the sex wasn't good?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I live commonlaw with the love of my life even thoug the sex isn't as frequent as I'd like, so no, that's not quite what I meant. But some people just physically don't mesh, and guaranteed that will cause problems down the road. That aside, having no physical intimacy beforehand is going to make for one hell of an awkward and overwhelming wedding night. The first time I had sex I bled *everywhere*. It's only because I was with someone that I loved and trusted, who was used to my body and vice versa, that we were able to laugh about it instead of being completely horrified and ashamed.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree with what spearmintkisses says. And why should they be all that different? Obviously, they are treated very differently (as they should be), but I might kiss my friends and family on the cheek, and saying I'm not going to do that with someone I love, even if we're not married, is ridiculous. That being said, waiting for your first kiss isn't stupid. But waiting until you're married might be.

by Anonymous 13 years ago