i disagree. sometimes people wear those types of clothes because they know it's flattering. take, say, miranda kerr (the victoria's secret model) for example. she wears a lot of form fitting clothes but it's because she knows she looks good in them. she's not seeking attention, she's seeking to look good. most people are, actually.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

She's seeking to look good in the opinions of other people. It doesn't mean she doesn't have confidence, but it's like, really, put some clothes on.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

not really. it's for the confidence of knowing you look good. saying she's only dressing that way to impress others is like saying whatever you do to look good is only for the sake of others. it's also for yourself. like when you're wearing a really cute pair of underwear you automatically feel a little more confident, yeah? it's not like people can tell you're wearing them (most, anyway) so it's not for the sake of others. it's for the sake of wearing something cute that you feel good in. a lot of girls wear tight clothes because it makes them feel good. and if they feel confident, then the more power to them.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Girls shouldn't have to wear tight clothes to feel confident in themselves. Their personality should do the talking, not the clothes they wear.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

But clothes are just a way of expressing ourselves. I like to wear clothes that I feel are a reflection of my personality and that I like. and of course that look good on me. I don't see the problem in wearing tight clothes or showing a little skin, if thats what you like.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Of course clothes are a way of expressing ourselves. And it seems like a lot of teenage girls nowadays like to express their sluttiness via clothing.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

well of course there's an extreme to what you wear, of course, but it seems like people flip out over other people's clothing more than necessary.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That is true. I mean, wearing a nice shirt that is a little on the low side every once in a while is fine, but skin tight/ low cut shirts and up-the-ass shorts all the time? Come on.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

But what's sluttiness, liking casual sex and trying to attract? We should beware of assuming one dressed "slutty" wants casual sex, though and always respect her.

by Anonymous 4 years ago

and a lot of the girls that do this are usually kinda skinny and look funny in big clothes, especially if we have small boobs.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It is possible to wear modest clothing without it being slutty, even if you are skinny...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

the way i dress isnt slutty, shorts and a tank top, but people think you look sluttier if youre thin and/or have a good shape. same with tight fitting clothes.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The way I see it, "slutty" is if you have your boobs hanging out or your shorts/skirt constantly riding up your ass. That's a rule of thumb for anyone, skinny or not.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

when you have big boobs and a tiny waist, annything showing just barely any clevage and forming around your waist looks slutty, thats why girls that look like that (like me) have to deal with a lot of haters.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well yeah, it's harder for girls with big chests to cover up, because you need more material, but again, it's not impossible. The need for modesty doesn't just go away because you have to put more effort into it. But if people think you look slutty because you have big boobs, then they can just sit down and shut up.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

yeah well they dont. and to me, i choose not to wear skanky clothing but if other people do i dont think its them asking for attention, and even if they are, people need attention. im sure you and everybody else has an equally bad charcater flaw, you know?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah, I get what you're saying; I mean, I'm not saying that dressing immodestly is like the worst possible thing ever. Every girl has worn low-cut or tight clothing at some point. It's just when they make a habit of it that it becomes a bad thing. Attention you get because you walk around half naked is not the sort of attention girls need to be looking for.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Personally I'm equally attracted to a girl with a t-shirt or a bit of a low cut, as long as she has some taste and style in dressing. It's not wrong if feel like showing less skin and it's not wrong if one might show much more, though if she don't read books and/or it's not interesting to talk with her about society issues and has no ambition, I'm not attracted, ok I might be superficially, but it's not enough. And I also sometimes wear low cut shirts, shorts and sandals as a guy and take care of my self in summer, so why should a girl be judged if she shows some skin sometimes?

by Anonymous 4 years ago

They don't have to, I agree, but they can if they like, men too.

by Anonymous 4 years ago

Oh god I made this account so long ago 😂😂 every comment I wrote was wrong and people should wear whatever they want and also abortion is healthcare and shit

by Anonymous 4 years ago

So some people aren't confident. Get over it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

quite the contrary, my friend. it takes balls to wear clothes like that, so you kind of HAVE to be confident in order to wear them.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Exactly. If someone didn't feel comfortable with their ass hanging out, why would they wear such short booty shorts?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

There is a difference between confidence and self esteem. they may be damn confident, but seeking the approval of others. either way it doesn't really matter, quit judging people just bc they dont dress like you.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Maybe they just feel good in those clothes, or they know it looks good on them. In the summer time, I love showing skin, because it gets so hot where I live. I am also comfortable enough with my body to do so. Its not because I'm some kind of attention whore and/or have self esteem issues.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

exactly. i live in arizona and its get like 110 F in the summer. Its hot outside, and im ok with showing some skin. i dont think im not confident and i dont do it to say please look at me. why would people who arent confident want people to look at them?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

this post is fucking retarded, if you want people to look at you then you are obviously confident with yourself because you WANT people to look at you. If you weren't confident then you WOULDN'T want people to look at you.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Or it's because they're comfortable in tight clothing. For a while, I wore skinny jeans and tight tee-shirts all the time. (I now wear the same shirts with looser jeans, because it's nice to have pockets on occasion.) Maybe it's a fashion statement. Fashion choices =/= a sign of your level of confidence (...in most cases.)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah, I'm a guy and I wear skinny, though not extremely, fit jeans or trousers, and in summer shorts above the knee and lower v cut shirts, I wonder if such appeals to modesty apply to us men as well, I hope :D.

by Anonymous 4 years ago

isn't it ironic how the OP is wearing a tight low-cut shirt in her picture?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

True, though it's a half cleavage, I wonder if it's with her parameters (:. Heysoulsisters is the most active and at least she's wearing a t-shirt, I wonder if Op is modest enough for her. Well they are 15 and 16 and maybe are forming some nuance.

by Anonymous 4 years ago