try romantically... that shit shouldnt be about how hot they are, but who the person is and by thinking of them in a sexual way in lowers their value in your own mind thus making you not like them but merely lust for them
what if they would never be right for you in a romantic way? Wouldn't it be better to just lust for them so that later you will have an easier time getting over them.
ones crush should not be thought of in a sexual way
What other way would you think about them?
try romantically... that shit shouldnt be about how hot they are, but who the person is and by thinking of them in a sexual way in lowers their value in your own mind thus making you not like them but merely lust for them
what if they would never be right for you in a romantic way? Wouldn't it be better to just lust for them so that later you will have an easier time getting over them.
thats not a crush then so you make a moot point
Ok, so if that's not a crush, what is???
moot*
It can be both. You can easily lust over someone you have a crush on, AND think of them in a romantic way. Why can't you do both?