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It's annoying when your friend complains about having multiple people liking them, and you don't have anyone liking you, amirite?

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I think your friend's complaining is just her way of bragging without trying to sound like a bitch. If I was someone like Bill Gates I would do the same thing.
"Ugh! I have just WAY too much money! I mean, look at all these papercuts! And all those Benjamin Frankilns just staring at me at night! Ugh! It's just an absolute HELL!!!"

@Lanz I think your friend's complaining is just her way of bragging without trying to sound like a bitch. If I was...

Charlie Sheen to his guy friends: "Oh damn, another woman dressed like a slut wants to have hot angry sex with me. This is becoming QUITE the bother."

toofastforloves avatar toofastforlove Yeah You Are +12Reply

It feels like all my friends have boyfriends and I'm the odd one out. no smilie The ones that don't have boyfriends have a HORRIBLE, HORRIBLE amount of people liking them. I sure pity them. Not.

@orangesocks It feels like all my friends have boyfriends and I'm the odd one out. The ones that don't have boyfriends have...

I know! The other day, my friend was freaking out because two guys told her they like her, and both are really sweet and really attractive and (oh dear!) she doesn't know who to pick! I had to explain to her what the word 'dilemma' means.

@ForeverMarauder I know! The other day, my friend was freaking out because two guys told her they like her, and both are really...

Yeah, the only guys who ever like me (as far as I know) are disgusting... like, want-to-wash-my-hands-when-I-touch-him disgusting...

@orangesocks Yeah, the only guys who ever like me (as far as I know) are disgusting... like...

Wtf? You seem like a nice person, and youre really pretty too! How?!

mchalla3s avatar mchalla3 Yeah You Are 0Reply
@mchalla3 Wtf? You seem like a nice person, and youre really pretty too! How?!

Thanks, haha, but I wouldn't vouch for either of those thongs. I know I'm a bitch. I embrace it. y smilie

@orangesocks Thanks, haha, but I wouldn't vouch for either of those thongs. I know I'm a bitch. I embrace it.

Then you should be popular. I have an idea: put your hair up in a bun, wear ornge foundation with a telltale line, yoga pants, an a tshirt wih the sleeves rolked up and the loose ends tied with a rubberband and tucked into your butt.
Now just be a stuck up bitch, and there you go! Youre popular.
Bonus: complain about how you got lost in your bathroom.

mchalla3s avatar mchalla3 Yeah You Are 0Reply
@mchalla3 Then you should be popular. I have an idea: put your hair up in a bun, wear ornge foundation with a telltale line...

Um... I obviously don't already do all of that wary smilie
THERE'S NO TELLTALE LINE OF ORANGE, OKAY.
I don't see how wearing your hair in a bun makes you popular, anyways, but whatever tickles your peach. Bathrooms are pretty scary when you're by yourself.

@orangesocks Um... I obviously don't already do all of that THERE'S NO TELLTALE LINE OF ORANGE, OKAY. I don't see how...

The messy bun is a tradmark. And the bathroom thing is when you live in a huge house and the br is huge, so you get lost.

mchalla3s avatar mchalla3 Yeah You Are 0Reply
@mchalla3 The messy bun is a tradmark. And the bathroom thing is when you live in a huge house and the br is huge, so you get...

Ah, well, I have a messy bun right now... wary smilie
lol if I had a huge house I wouldn't be like LET US SPLURGE ON A HUGE BATHROOM. IN FACT, WE SHALL SPEND A WHOLE FLOOR ON A SINGLE BATHROOM. ACTUALLY, LET US MAKE THE ENTIRE HOUSE A GIANT BATHROOM!

It's worse when your friend complains about multiple people liking them when, actually, you know that no one likes them.

Roosevelts avatar Roosevelt Yeah You Are +7Reply

I sort of DO understand both situations. There have been times where all my friends have guys pretty much at their fingertips and I've felt unwanted. But there has also been times where I've had guys like me and I feel absolutely terrible because I don't have the same feelings for them, and I either didn't want to lose them as a friend or hurt their feelings.

@strawberrymoo annoying or not, it's still flattering when a guy likes you.

of course it is. But at the same time, just because a lot of guys like one girl in particular doesn't necessarily make her interesting or nice or even pretty. Could always be because she's easy.

I can understand how it might be frustrating to have a few different people liking you at the same time (especially if you have feelings for all of them), but I also think if someone has that problem they should be sensitive about who they do their complaining to. If you don't have guys lining up at your door you definitely don't want to hear someone complain that they do! Please find someone who can understand!

Hahahhas avatar Hahahha Yeah You Are 0Reply

Having too many friends is just as annoying as being lonely (I'd assume, I've never had the lonely problem), but being too popular can be hard at times

KickAsss avatar KickAss No Way -11Reply
@KickAss Having too many friends is just as annoying as being lonely (I'd assume, I've never had the lonely problem), but...

lol are you for real. "This person seems to be feeling kind of insecure...I'm going to post about how his/her problem isn't so bad even though I've never had that problem. Pity me instead!" UH what?
I can't tell if you're being a troll or obliviously insensitive.
If it's the latter, lemme break it down for you. You can always tell your multitude of friends that you need space or make up an excuse when they all want a piece of you because you're sooooo popular. But hey, at least you know that you have the comforting option of social interaction; truly lonely people don't. Loneliness isn't "annoying'; it's crippling.

@sparekey lol are you for real. "This person seems to be feeling kind of insecure...I'm going to post about how his/her...

You can be lonely and have a plethora of friends. Anyways friendship is a responsibility, by becoming someones "friend" you're adding to that responsibility. If you see a random person having a hard time in school, you have no moral obligation to help that person. However if you become their friend, then as a friend that's one more thing that you're responsible for. You can stretch yourself too thin, like that.
It's kinda stupid that so many people have a misconception that popularity is the answer to all life's questions. It's really not. And in fact being popular can be a disadvantage, especially if you're a good person. Because as a good person, you feel like you have obligations to your friends, but for the most part you meet a lot of insensitive, shallow, jerks who wish to take advantage of your popularity and your kindness. And this, isn't just "annoying" it's crippling, it's detrimental to your mentality, because it effects your view on humanity as a whole.

@KickAss You can be lonely and have a plethora of friends. Anyways friendship is a responsibility, by becoming someones...

I get what you're trying to say and that's great you take friendship and its duties very seriously, but I think you're missing my point. You mention that "random person having a hard time" who you have no moral obligation to help. 1) It doesn't matter what your relationship is with the person; humans have moral obligations to each other. Period. You might feel less INCLINED to help a rando, but it doesn't mean s/he deserves it any less. 2) A truly lonely person is the "random person" to ALL of their peers. No one feels obligated toward him/her. Imagine being someone who'd do anything for just one person to seek him out but he's just so painfully shy/ socially awkward that it feels impossible. At least when you're "popular," you have the CHOICE to cut ties with exploitative people or to not spread yourself too thin (not everyone needs to be your BFF). I think it's infinitely more "detrimental" to feel like your existence doesn't matter to anyone.

@sparekey I get what you're trying to say and that's great you take friendship and its duties very seriously, but I think...

Hmm, I take your argument and I raise you... mine.

1. How many people can you help? I do a lot of volunteer work and I help out random people all the time, but there's still going to be a lot of unhelped random people out there. You can't try to help every single random person. However you have a palpable amount of friends, so if you do see them in trouble you help them. Besides it's not obvious a person needs help. A random person wouldn't come up to you and tell you they needed help, but a friend would.

I see your point with number 2 and all I want you to understand that I'm not saying that being lonely is easy, I'm just saying being popular is hard too.

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