Umm yes isn't that the whole point of doing that?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

That's kinda the idea..

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I never exactly planned to whore myself out anyways...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

WOAH THERE, sleeping with more than one person in a lifetime is considered whoring yourself out?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I was saying that I didn't exactly plan to sleep with A BUNCH of people, and I hope to only sleep with one person my whole life.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Well, yeah, it is weird to think that. But there's nothing wrong with it. It's actually good, I'd say.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Er that 's the point...Why would you want to do it with more than one person?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

(Magestic_merman):what if the person you married was awful? And why would you not want to have sex with more than one person?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Well you'd have nothing to compare it to anyways

by Anonymous 12 years ago

No, if it's bad you just know. Even without comparisons.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

that's a sad, sad way to look at things. marriages dissolve because of sexual incompatibility. also, it's pretty obvious when you're having orgasms and when you're NOT having orgasms regardless of number of sexual partners. that being said, I'd hope that married couples would be dedicated enough to work on any problems together so that the sex wasn't awful.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I'm saving my penis for marriage. Oh, SMBC.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Oh my god you people are clearly all virgins.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

And there's something wrong with that...?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

oh man, can't wait till they go to college (or high school? damn, always forget how young this crowd is). the things I've seen people do for lo-VAGINA! SPOILER ALERT: cherries will be popped!

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Not everyone in high school has sex. What's wrong with waiting until you're old enough to make a clear, responsible, and good decision? Because in all honesty, whether you know it or not, during your teenage years, you are basically rulled by hormones. That is no way to make a good decision.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Sex is natural. Why not do it till you are well into being an adult? And yea your ruled by hormones that are telling you to go have some sex. So instead of listening to your body, you do what other people tell you is right. And I'm tellin ya their say is nowhere near as fun as mine.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Sex is natural. But also a huge commitment emotionally, and physically. Especially for girls. I could do what animal instincts tell me to do, or I could realize that I am more than an animal. When we have children or even have sex, we do it for more reasons than basic instincts. We have sex because we love each other. When we raise children, we have to teach them morals, right from wrong; we have to give them support in all ways. It's more than just "having fun". Sex is a big deal. An not something I want to just give away. It's not what people tell me is right, it's what I believe to be a responsible decision. I don't want to jeopardize my future or that of a potential accidental child. It's wrong. I'm having all the fun I want, I'm just also choosing to be in control of my actions.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

ahaha a very logical and appealing argument...unfortunately teenagers don't tend to combine sex with common sense like using condoms or birth control. nothing kills a boner or fun sex like an STD/unplanned pregnancy.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I think that most people use condoms, you give teenagers too little credit. I am not tryin to say that waiting till marriage is wrong but I don't think it's right to tell people how to live theIr lives. Religion tells people go wait so they are screwed if they decide to not wait, and parents usually tell their kids to wait till marriage. I think the decision will be made regardless of what other people say is right.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

i wasn't disagreeing with your statement; i'm not a proponent of either waiting until marriage or having multiple partners, just whatever fits your needs. i personally think the more parents/religion try to scare and control kids without actually discussing sex, the more likely the kids won't know how to protect themselves or deal with the responsibility/pressure of sex when they're on they're own. also, i didn't mean to imply that only teenagers are irresponsible. i just feel like this site is more aimed at teens, so that's the demographic i focused on. trust me, i'm well aware of how unsafe people are about sex in college and even after that. i taught sex ed to frats/sororities on campus as required every year...was not very encouraging, yikes.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I just don't get why you would only want one. But as Courtney will tell you I disagree with lots of things

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I think you enjoy it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I do :)

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I feel weird divulging this but it IS the internet...I didn't have sex in high school either. In fact, I agree with you about teenagers, rampant hormones, and the rash decisions that ensue. I've gone to college and graduated (&now I feel old) and experienced being the lone virgin. I always won "Never Have I Never" because the game tended to go like this: "Never have I ever had sex on a playground/roof/staircase." So yeah, I know how it feels to abstain despite pressure to do otherwise, but I've also seen my peers in serious, loving, SEXUAL relationships. It was their choice and I didn't judge. I just thought this thread was funny because I've found that most of the people who were so adamant about "one sex partner for life" (like the ones responding to this post) quickly changed their minds once surrounded by thousands of people their own age without parental interference.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Thank you. My sister got pregnant accidentally twice. She changed her whole life around, but still. The fathers we people, who really did not respect or love her. I just don't want that to happen to me. I feel that I deserve to be loved before making such a huge decision. And that every child deserves a stable life with two parents who love him or her and each other. If I can't take care of a kid, I shouldn't put myself in a situation that could create one. It's not fair to them, it's not safe for me.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I wholeheartedly agree. Never settle for less than what you need to feel comfortable and sure about having sex. Respect is non-negotiable.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

For me, that honestly means marriage. So, I refuse to be made to feel lame because I want to wait. It's what I know is right for me. Thank you.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Oh my god you're clearly not.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

The waiting until marriage part is irrelevant. You can sleep together while you're dating, then get married much later and never cheat, it's still the same thing.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Who gives a fuck if you get married or not? Why does it make it ok to have sex only if your married or in love?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

There is no reason for you to have to get married to do that.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I've only had sex with one person, and we're planning on getting married. I don't see anything wrong with it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

There is nothing wrong with that.

by Anonymous 12 years ago