+481 It is ridiculous that my family is making me apologize to them for taking my gay best-friend to prom and "ruining their day", amirite?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

You taking your gay best friend to prom, ruined their day how?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

They said I tricked them into doing my hair, driving me there in the Mercedes, doing my nails and buying me a ring by not telling them he was gay when really I thought why would it matter.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I legitimately don't understand. Why do they care that they did all that if it was for YOU and not your gay friend? I would understand if they're homophobic and don't want to drive him there or whatever, but all of those things benefitted you, not him.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Shouldn't they be happy that there won't be a chance of you conceving a baby on your prom. They're acting like they paid for him to go. Did you appologize?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I did apologize... My mom told me if I didn't she wouldn't let me participate in a pageant that I made it to state finals for.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Lol the appology was worth it. I hope you win! :)

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Thank you. :)

by Anonymous 11 years ago

How is their day effected by this in any way?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

The comment I posted to the other person is why they say I ruined their day.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

You don't have to apologize at all. They should be the ones asking for your forgiveness.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Thats horrible. I mean, its just a dance, but you should be allowed to go with whomever you want. Unless they were expecting you to get pregnant or something. When i was a freshman i shyly asked my gay best friend if he would like to be my prom date if by then we didnt have anyone. When the time came we both had someone, but decided to go together instead. Best decision ever. long story short, if you think it was worth it, no need to apologize.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

The way you worded your post made it seem like you were gay too. And thats the reason your parents were upset with you. Just a heads up.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Uh being that I have a vagina... And I have brought a few boyfriends to my house, I'm quite sure my family does not think I'm gay...

by Anonymous 11 years ago

"The way you worded your post made it seem like you were gay too. And thats the reason your parents were upset with you. Just a heads up." =/= "Gay. No vagina. Your family doesn't love you"

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Oh, I don't know why their that mad then. I thought you meant that you were gay too, and I could see why they would be a little mad.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

well they obviously caught on to the fact that, that was all a clever ruse.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Fuck them. It probably made your friends day and in my opinion that's a hell of a lot more important then theirs

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I for one don't give a fuck about what your family is doing. I'm genuinely surprised that this isn't the general response here.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Maybe it isn't because on amirite the purpose is to ask questions and get responses of I agree or I disagree. Only idiots come on here thinking who cares.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

It's to state opinions, not tell us about your life. I mean, would you think it was okay to post on here something like "So today I had a really bad day, first my alarm didn't go off and I was late for work, so my boss got really pissed off with me because I have a really bad attendance record as it is, which isn't fair because I really was ill all those times, so then after that there was an accident which the manager had to deal with, and that meant that I didn't get a lunch break, which sucked because I was planning on going to see my grandparents before they left back home (they live 300 miles away), so then I never got to say goodbye, and then I got home and my parents were angry at //me// for it, and then my boyfriend was in a really bad mood and we had a fight and it just isn't fair. You agree that my day was bad, amirite?" I get that the post limit would let you post that much, but do you think it's alright to post something like that?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Dude.... Please tell me that you're just trolling.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Who me? Kinda. Plus I really didn't give a fuck that he didn't give a fuck...

by Anonymous 11 years ago

No, not you, him. ._. And yeah same here about the not giving a fuck about his not giving a fuck.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I for one don't give a fuck that you don't give a fuck.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I hate her and i don't even know her.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Well your parents are fucks. They should eat dirt and apologize to you.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Your family probably thought you forced the kid to go with you even though he was gay.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Homosexuals are gay.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Probably because they thought it was going to be something special for you and a boy you liked. When they found out you were just taking a friend it' not the same, I suppose.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I told them I would be taking a friend, and my mom was just fine with it until she met him and the first thing she asked was is he gay...

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Oh..yeah, never mind then lol. well, they have their beliefs and you have yours. I think they're in the wrong though for passing their own judgment on someone just because they're gay. Just tell them "Don't judge him because he sins differently than you"...that should get their attention? maybe. i dunno. Good luck!

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Dude, even if they have religious reasons for being against homosexuality, why should it matter to them? It's not like they'd make you apologize for taking a Jewish friend. what, were they afraid you'd catch his gay?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

They said gay people are below us and that talking to gay people makes me a lesbian. -.- All in all, they're homophobes with their heads in their asses...

by Anonymous 11 years ago